generals3 said:
True, judging one person on one instance without nothing at all about him is acting exactly the way he's accused of, no? Neither Michel nor the viewers of the video know what Michel is like in his every day life and what he has lived through which could reasonably explain his abnormally cautious behavior.
Which is literally the point. I'm assuming that second Michel that's bolded was suppposed to be Cukor, so I'm going off of that.
Likewise Cukor did not know what happened to Michel in his every day life that made him cautious enough to pull out the camera to have it documented for his own safety. I don't see how Cukor's fears trumps Michel's apparent fears, but the prevailing argument seems to be that Cukor's fears are deserving of sating because Michel is the scary 'other' while Michel's fears do not enter into it, and it would be all be solved if Michel sated Cukor's fears while giving no thought to his own.
But Cukor is Michel's other as well. Cukor is deserving as much fear as Michel is.
generals3 said:
You're correct, which is why Cukor decided to call the cops. He did not act as a vigilante as once he realised the issue could not be resolved calmly and as adults. Which is his right.
A situation completely manufactured, prolonged, and escalated by Cukor. That's a nifty ability to have. I caused a situation, and I get to dictate how it goes. That seems to limit others' rights when the game is played that way.
generals3 said:
He didn't use any curses sure, but refusing to cooperate and telling someone he should "just walk away" while being in the wrong and while the situation is clearly caused by safety concerns is either adversarial or just stupid. What is the one command that is associated all the time with people up to no good wanting others to leave the area and pretend nothing is going on? "Just walk away". If there is one answer NOT to give in such situations it's that one. You're basically begging for cops to be called.
How many people are actually apart of this situation? Cukor, Cukor's son, Michel... and Michel's disabled friend Cathy.
I know this is not what anyone really wants to do in this situation, but on Michel side, not only is he's tired of having special treatment placed his way (as he stated in the video), but this man is demanding personal information of another person who is at a disadvantage.
I personally don't like giving information out about myself, but I'm damn sure more willing to do that than people I don't know who can't handle themselves as well as I can.
Refusing to cooperate comes in many forms. Not just malicious. The police are not used as blunt instrutments to pry information you don't want to give out. And you can't invent crimes that someone might have done
People really seem to gloss over that part of the narrative. That to assuage Cukor's need, Michel would willingly have to give up information for someone who lived in the building and he has no way of knowing that Cukor is a man to be trusted.
In fact, according to some articles, Cathy isn't even her real name. Michel was thinking so far ahead that he couldn't trust
Cukor that he instantly addressed her with another name so Cukor wouldn't have that.
We don't think about how Cukor was being aggressive, searching for someone's information. We don't think about how Michel indeed doesn't live there and is actually in the right for not giving out someone's private details... No, Michel should have just complied and everything would have been alright.
Hmm... that sentiment sounds familiar some how [https://www.dailyrepublic.com/all-dr-news/opinion/local-opinion-columnists/police-confrontations-why-give-them-a-reason/]...
generals3 said:
I'm not questioning anyone's ability to do anything in that situation. I'm merely arguing the situation doesn't deserve the backlash it created towards Cukor.
Neither did one man doing something that again, millions of people do. Yet Cukor took it upon himself to go to the next level. When you go to the next level (taking it from personal to outside influencers), do not be surprised if the other party does so in kind.
And more importantly, don't ask someone to judge you by what's possibly in your heart and that you're a good person when you could not do the same for another person who didn't do what you wanted so you called the cops on them.
generals3 said:
I don't think Cukor called the cops because Michel refused to answer his questions. He did so because he tailgaited, staid in the building and refused to answer the questions. There is a nuance. If he had called the cops just because Michel refused to answer questions than his reaction would have clearly been over the top.
Technically, the incident before Cukor called the police was Michel refused to call his friend (I tihnk Cathy) and then Cukor took his refusal to call the cops.
But here's the issue.
Can you understand why minorities are tired of other people perpetually telling those minorities to give white people who do this, who call cops for really nothing situations that millions of other people do a day without issue, to have understanding and give those white people the benefit of the doubt?
It's almost as if those very same white people we're supposed to have infinite patience for... actually gave the same benefit of the doubt... these things wouldn't happen.
And people are tired of that fact.