Poll: Circumcision

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Gormourn said:
I was born in Russia, and I don't believe the circumcision is a normal thing to do there. Or in Europe, but I might be wrong there.

So yeah, I'm not.

I don't see a point in cutting off, pretty much, a piece of yourself, especially in such a sensitive area for yourself... and especially for your own kids. What kind of a maniac would do that?

And based on the medical studies, there is no advantages of circumcision. It just seems like a rather barbaric, and possibly scarring practice.

Also... You know, I doubt that anyone would care whether you're circumcised or not by the time you get close enough to someone to get into their pants. I mean, really, if they do, the whole "relationship" isn't worth it.

There is nothing freaky about it, probably most of the world is uncircumcised. Both males and females, of course. Female circumcision seems even nastier.
Agreed and quoted for the truth.

And yeah, its not normal here in Europe. Americans either past or present seemed to have a pseudo-science idea that is somehow makes them less likely to get STDs.

Frankly, I'm shocked that a nation that apparently is based on freedom and choice would remove that choice about such a personal thing from there own kids. Its not like a vaccine or anything that has no negative side affects, and can really save a child's live.
 

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I'm not circumsized and I wouldn't ever consider it. We've evolved to have foreskin and I trust evolution! The other reason being that I imagine it being immensely uncomfortable without foreskin.
 

Saul B

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Okay this is a bit of a weird topic but...

There are several reasons why a parent would want their child circumcised.
1. Religious reasons
2. Cleanliness (not that if you haven't been circumcised you aren't clean, as long as you wash regularly, it doesn't matter)
3. Medical reasons

Circumcision for the third is simply because the foreskin cannot be pulled back properly. If the person is not circumcised at a young age, they can experience severe discomfort during... certain activities. It is perfectly normal and OK - If you have been circumcised then usually you don't care about it.
 

SenseOfTumour

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Am I so wrong in grinning childishly every time someone talks about drawbacks of the foreskin?

Anyways, I'm in the UK and I'm not 'cut' as some people put it, and while it's been a surprise occasionally, I've never had a really bad reaction.

Doug said:
Gormourn said:
And based on the medical studies, there is no advantages of circumcision. It just seems like a rather barbaric, and possibly scarring practice.

Also... You know, I doubt that anyone would care whether you're circumcised or not by the time you get close enough to someone to get into their pants. I mean, really, if they do, the whole "relationship" isn't worth it.
I'll agree with this too, I just more people would hang on a few hours to decide if they really liked someone enough to maybe find out their surname before they hop on. I'm not saying casual sex is wrong, but just that imo something with an emotional bond is better.

I'm not saying there's gotta be love, but even 'fuck buddies' is a step up from taking home the last drunk from that club, just because you're bored of your own hand or out of batteries.

Anyways, not wishing to derail, casual sex is a whole new topic.
 

Doug

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Overlord_Dave said:
Gormourn said:
And based on the medical studies, there is no advantages of circumcision. It just seems like a rather barbaric, and possibly scarring practice.
Sorry to jump in there, Gormourn, but recently it's been found that being circumcised reduces the risk of catching HIV, as the virus attacks the cells in the foreskin. It still doesn't make you immune though.
Meh, there have been several studies based on African populations where a) HIV/AIDs is sadly common, and b) several tribes in the same countries have different cultural views on the practise. Sometimes these studies conclude that there is a benefit, other times a drawback, still further times, no difference at all.

To quote wikipedia:
"The origin of the theory that circumcision can lower the risk of a man contracting HIV is disputed. Since the idea was first mooted, over 40 epidemiological studies have been conducted to investigate the relationship between circumcision and HIV infection. Reviews of these studies have reached differing conclusions about whether circumcision could be used as a prevention method against HIV."

Basically, if there really is a protective effect of circumcision against HIV/AIDs, its about as helpful as papermache armour against bullets - you are technically safer, but not by much. Condoms are far more effective, reducing the transmission rate by up to 50%. Still not perfect, but it would be enough to stem the grown of HIV/AIDs in Africa if the Catholic church wouldn't keep interferring and they would just use the damned things.
 

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Let's face it, you can keep yourself clean and that's right and healthy, but it ain't ever going to be a thing of beauty (if you'll forgive the pun), so why worry about aesthetics?

http://www.norm-uk.org/ Worth a read...
 

Doug

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SenseOfTumour said:
Am I so wrong in grinning childishly every time someone talks about drawbacks of the foreskin?

Anyways, I'm in the UK and I'm not 'cut' as some people put it, and while it's been a surprise occasionally, I've never had a really bad reaction.

Doug said:
Gormourn said:
And based on the medical studies, there is no advantages of circumcision. It just seems like a rather barbaric, and possibly scarring practice.

Also... You know, I doubt that anyone would care whether you're circumcised or not by the time you get close enough to someone to get into their pants. I mean, really, if they do, the whole "relationship" isn't worth it.
Agreed and quoted for the truth.

And yeah, its not normal here in Europe. Americans either past or present seemed to have a pseudo-science idea that is somehow makes them less likely to get STDs.

Frankly, I'm shocked that a nation that apparently is based on freedom and choice would remove that choice about such a personal thing from there own kids. Its not like a vaccine or anything that has no negative side affects, and can really save a child's live.
I'll agree with this too, I just more people would hang on a few hours to decide if they really liked someone enough to maybe find out their surname before they hop on. I'm not saying casual sex is wrong, but just that imo something with an emotional bond is better.

I'm not saying there's gotta be love, but even 'fuck buddies' is a step up from taking home the last drunk from that club, just because you're bored of your own hand or out of batteries.

Anyways, not wishing to derail, casual sex is a whole new topic.
Well, casual sex is a person's choice. But they have to realise they are taking a risk and have to deal with the results if it goes pear-shaped. Basically, serial or single monogamy and condoms (at least, in the early stages of a relationship) are the best ways to avoid STDs (although not fool proof - the other party(ies) might cheat, I'm sorry to say). Not chopping mini-Doug!
 

Doug

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blindhelix said:
Let's face it, you can keep yourself clean and that's right and healthy, but it ain't ever going to be a thing of beauty (if you'll forgive the pun), so why worry about aesthetics?

http://www.norm-uk.org/ Worth a read...
Nice link.
By the turn of the century, amputation of the foreskin was "scientifically proven" to cure and prevent malnutrition, paralysis, bed-wetting, hip-joint disease, headache, alcoholism, criminality, club-foot, and heart disease.
Ok, thats just...well, ok, madness!

In reality, non-religious circumcision is being perpetuated for a number of reasons: ignorance, arrogance, perversion, general disregard for patients' bodies, denial (perhaps because the surgeon is himself circumcised), and, in some countries, profit for the commercially motivated who can get paid both for the surgery and for 'donating' the amputated foreskin for research.
Despite the obviously irrational cruelty of circumcision, the profit incentive in American medical practice is unlikely to allow science or human rights principles to interrupt the highly lucrative American circumcision industry. It is now time for European medical associations loudly to condemn the North American medical community for participating in and profiting from what is by any standard a senseless and barbaric sexual mutilation of innocent children. [Paul M. Fleiss. Circumcision. Lancet 1995;345:927.]
Ok, thats just scary!
 

sanomaton

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Doug said:
Basically, if there really is a protective effect of circumcision against HIV/AIDs, its about as helpful as papermache armour against bullets - you are technically safer, but not by much. Condoms are far more effective, reducing the transmission rate by up to 50%. Still not perfect, but it would be enough to stem the grown of HIV/AIDs in Africa if the Catholic church wouldn't keep interferring and they would just use the damned things.
Agreed, why does the church have to keep getting involved in matters they don't know anything about anyway? Okay, they probably do know about some 'stuff' but the Pope probably never has even had sex so how can he forbid people from using condoms?! I just don't get it, neither does my dad. We had a candid conversation with my dad the other night and he agreed with me 100 %, "He can preach about religion, I don't mind about that, but leave the things you don't know about to the people who do!"

Sorry for my offtopic rant but that subject just makes me hit the roof. Back to the topic now, I'm a female from Finland, and no I haven't been circumcised. I don't really care whether a guy has been circumcised or not, it doesn't make that much of a difference in the end anyway. I actually find it quite surprising over half of the American boys are circumcised! Why, why do they do that? Unless it's for a medical reason, such as the foreskin being too tight and causing problems that way, I find no sensible reason for it to be done.

And as for female circumcision... I feel like crying everytime I read about female circumcision. It's horrible, it has no medical advances and bloody hell a girl can die because of it! I would never have my future children circumcised, the only time I would allow it if it was for medical reasons.
 

IchStrafenDich

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I'm an American (cut), but I was educated in a properly archaic English boarding school. None of my housemates were cut, and the girls we knew seemed to prefer cut guys for reasons many and varied. At some point in my senior year, before going off on a road trip, all the other lads in my year did the research, read the scary stories and laughable outrage and en-masse decided to have the procedure. Two years on, none of them regret it. Is the foreskin really such a massive inconvenience?

I find it hilarious how many people are commenting on the nature of subjective experiences they personally do not have (Dirk Gently). I've been circumcised since before I can remember, and my genitals lack no sensitivity, but I wouldn't have the arrogance to describe what it feels like to have a foreskin. Human feelings and sensation being tricky to quantify or discuss objectively, it seems like everybody should pause a moment before opening their gobs, because you can't just read an article and assume you have reliable, or even substantial, knowledge of an issue like this. You can only really know what you experience, and even then you have to account for what you are used to, so unless you've possessed multiple penises of varying degrees of foreskinned-ness and have been able to compare their relative sensitivity your entire life, you don't really have sufficient epistemological qualifications to weigh in on this topic. All anybody can contribute is another opinion, at which point it becomes a matter of counting 'Yea' and 'Nay' votes, which is great for democracy but crap for meaningful discussion.

TL;DR stfu.

Oh, and hi. I'm new.
 

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MaxTheReaper said:
Abedeus said:
It's not normal in Poland, or Europe. Why would it be?

No point, really. It's just inhumane, cutting off the most important part of a man just for... WHAT?
The most important part of me is my massive, throbbing...
Brain.
What did you think I was going to say?
Oh, you know..

But seriously, I don't think there's anythnig wrong with it, and most people in Britain don't seem to think it's weird.
 

Nostalgia

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Both are pretty barbaric to me. Especially when it comes to female circumcision considering there is absolutely no reason for it to be done but to stop said girl from experiencing sexual pleasure.

Circumcision can be done for medical reasons, and I could accept that, but for the most part, it's not the case as it's done right after birth under parent consent even with no signs of problems. You can say that circumcision merely exists for cleanliness, given the times and area, but being mainly a religious practice, it's to stop accessibility and lessen pleasure from masturbation.
 

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Circumcision in our part of the world is done only in males and usually when they're at adolescence. Like I said earlier, you'll get nasty looks from women here if you're a native and you're not circumcised.
 

IchStrafenDich

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I'm still bewildered when you say that circumcision 'lessens pleasure from masturbation'.

Durrr?

The male organ is ridiculously easy to please. Any nerve endings lost in the foreskin really don't make that much of a difference. And about autonomy and consensual things? It's really the same principle as your parents deciding anything else about your life before you're sentient enough to make a decision. As a child, I don't think you really count as a human being, so parents are perfectly within their rights to impose their values on you. A foreskin can be repaired if you give enough of a shit later in life.
 

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I had to get circumcised a few years back,because my foreskin had become too tight and was causing me problems.
Same here (though more than a few years ago now, about 12-15 years ago). I'm from the UK btw. I think over here (Europe) circumcision is only practiced by followers of Judaism (sp?) and for medical reasons. Having it done "just because" seems a little...bizzare to me. Oh, and sensetive people (pun intended if you read on) might not want to read the next paragraph, you may find it gross or offensive...
Though my (female) best mate certainly thinks it was an advantage - we have a bit of fun occasionally and she's now dating a jewish guy, and aparently we're the best she's had. Something to do with the desensitisation of the head (since it isn't so protected in day-to-day life) leading to better performance/staimina (and that's a view I've heard from other women as well - and not just ones I've slept with, I mean in general conversation or other internet forum topics).

Hmm, I suppose I should clarify something: By desensitisation, I'm not talking that you loose feeling - no girlfriend of mine has ever had to 'work harder' with me than with an "un-cut" guy, but the trigger to climax is delayed because the feelings aren't so "abnormal" to your body (ie, you still feel everything but you don't ejaculate so quickly). I don't know if this is medical fact or just hyperbole rumour, but I've seen other "cut" posters mention something similar.

It's a bloody painful procedure though. A day later I had to walk out of hospital (no pain killers) and effing hell, I could hardly move (imagine a little kid walking doubled over and crying, having to be virtually dragged by parents). It's not something I would recommend going through for "vainty/sexual performance" issues. In fact, it would be interesting to see if the experiences of circumcision (as in the effects or what have you) differ from those circumcised at birth (jews) or a relatively young age (like me) and those who make the decision later in life (so 18+ kinda thing).
 

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Elim Garak said:
Yup, its a Jewish thing, mainly. As in religious. Which is probably why it isn't practiced in Russia all that much - Russia is a pretty antisemitic place. Or at the least it used to be.
what? have you actually been to russia? do you realize that it is larger than the US in square meters than the US? what you said would be the equivalent of saying "yeah the US is a pretty antisemitic place".
 

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IchStrafenDich said:
I'm an American (cut), but I was educated in a properly archaic English boarding school. None of my housemates were cut, and the girls we knew seemed to prefer cut guys for reasons many and varied. At some point in my senior year, before going off on a road trip, all the other lads in my year did the research, read the scary stories and laughable outrage and en-masse decided to have the procedure. Two years on, none of them regret it. Is the foreskin really such a massive inconvenience?

I find it hilarious how many people are commenting on the nature of subjective experiences they personally do not have (Dirk Gently). I've been circumcised since before I can remember, and my genitals lack no sensitivity, but I wouldn't have the arrogance to describe what it feels like to have a foreskin. Human feelings and sensation being tricky to quantify or discuss objectively, it seems like everybody should pause a moment before opening their gobs, because you can't just read an article and assume you have reliable, or even substantial, knowledge of an issue like this. You can only really know what you experience, and even then you have to account for what you are used to, so unless you've possessed multiple penises of varying degrees of foreskinned-ness and have been able to compare their relative sensitivity your entire life, you don't really have sufficient epistemological qualifications to weigh in on this topic. All anybody can contribute is another opinion, at which point it becomes a matter of counting 'Yea' and 'Nay' votes, which is great for democracy but crap for meaningful discussion.

TL;DR stfu.

Oh, and hi. I'm new.
I thought most of the topic was about whether it prevented STDs, especially HIV. I personally haven't commented on the different between cut/uncut - some books and articles have opinions, but those are opinions.

I'm against the forced circumcision of baby boys because you are removing the choice from the kid in the first place. For example, you had no choice if you wanted to be circumcised or not. You were, and hence are stuck like that. These guys who had it done: tis their choice - their adults and presumably willing and able to research something like this, weigh up any pro's or con's, and decide for themselves. Thats fair enough. But inflicting on a baby, whether they'll want it later or not, isn't right.

Ok, if clear, strong scientific evidence comes out that it protects kids from STDs very well, and this is confirmed, repeatable, and so forth, then it'll be ethnical to make a call like this.

As for religious circumcision:

* Islam doesn't require it - its a myth from tribes who converted to Islam centuries ago, and has never been written as a requirement in the Koran.

* According to this link [http://www.jewishcircumcision.org/], circumcision is NOT a requirement to be Jewish. I can't say if this is true or not, but the site seems well thought out and presented, so I assume its a valid view on Judaism.

* Christians haven't ever required the practise, as far as I'm aware, in order to be christian.

And bluntly, for other religions, there has to be something wrong if your religion requires you to force both the religion and the act of circumcision onto a kid who isn't old enough to make up his or her own mind.

As for cultural circumcision, well, thats outright barbaric, frankly. Especially female circumcision.
 

Nostalgia

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IchStrafenDich said:
The male organ is ridiculously easy to please. Any nerve endings lost in the foreskin really don't make that much of a difference. And about autonomy and consensual things? It's really the same principle as your parents deciding anything else about your life before you're sentient enough to make a decision. As a child, I don't think you really count as a human being, so parents are perfectly within their rights to impose their values on you. A foreskin can be repaired if you give enough of a shit later in life.

Oh, no doubt about that, but that wasn't any concern of mine.
Removing the foreskin, exposing the head of your penis, makes it prone to friction and stimulus growing up. Over time, you'll loss some sense of pleasure and sensitivity. Also, it could lead to callouses due to there being no foreskin to provide a moist environment.
You can say it doesn't make much of a difference, or not enough of a difference that a man would care to get reconstructive surgery or go through surgery to remove it, but logically looking at it, it seems there really is no reason to remove it in the first place besides infection.

Other countries find it to be disgusting that Americans will still provide this services so willingly for a reason.