BiscuitTrouser said:
Id love some clarification.
Alright.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Are you seriously saying physically weak people are always stupid?
Not at all.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Seriously, if you read the quote you'd realize that is not what I said.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Youd have trouble taking your doctor seriously if he couldnt beat you in a punching match?
Athletic competition extends beyond punching matches.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Youd have trouble taking your professor or someone of massive intellectual merit seriously because he cant launch a fist as hard as you?
If they had great intellectual merit they would value physical fitness as much as intellectual fitness.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Thats utterly inane and intellectually weak to associate two things that have basically NO correlation at all and give respect accordingly.
How are the body and mind not correlated? I'm very interested in how you came to this conclusion.
BiscuitTrouser said:
If your respect is earned and lost with "Can you hit this thing as hard as i can" then your respect is less than worthless. Respect is earned by deeds, personal worth and by character. Not entirely by physical strength.
Than* There is no singular way to earn respect since people quantify qualities differently. I appreciate you giving me your opinion on what attribution of respect should be awarded though. It makes you sound like a nobel, evolved, and good person. I'm impressed that you are such a good person.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Also what constitutes strength?
Usually the presence of type ii muscle fibers.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Im not physically strong.
I'm sorry to hear that.
BiscuitTrouser said:
But i own a bow and im a pretty damn good shot.
I'm physically strong and a pretty damn good shot.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Ditto
BiscuitTrouser said:
I imagine if our conflict was firearms/bow related id beat you very easily.
Feel free to believe that if it makes you feel better. I believe I could give you a run for your money. There is a high likelihood I could even beat you.
BiscuitTrouser said:
If anyone broke into my house i could turn them into a pincushion fairly comfortably.
You misunderstand how combat and initiative work.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Am i still weak for opting to learn useful and difficult skills rather than work out?
Yes, because working out is more difficult than the skills you learned. If it was easy as you claim you would be physically strong. Physical strength is one of the few things that have no negatives. People with intellectual merit know this.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Both options are equally valid. Id say i had to work harder to master a technique intellectually than anyone did by pumping weights.
If that makes you feel better feel free to believe it. Just know that it's not true, just an ego preservation mechanism to compensate for your physical weakness.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Second this time im genuinely confused.
Okay.
BiscuitTrouser said:
I think its only fair to say control in a relationship should be about 50/50.
I agree.
BiscuitTrouser said:
I mean women are not possessions right?
Right, I'm still with you at this point. Let it be known that I never stated that they were. You're making false attributions like the other guys.
BiscuitTrouser said:
We cant "dominate" them unless they actually want to be dominated or else its fucking weird.
It seems the issue with this statement is that you perceive dominance as a bad thing. When I speak of dominance.I mean the man should be the one who initiates and determines the direction and value of a relationship.
BiscuitTrouser said:
I would agree if you mean "Men give ALL control to women just because they are desperate" because i agree thats weak.
I'm glad we can agree on something.
BiscuitTrouser said:
I wouldnt agree if you mean "Men give some control to women and thats bad because women having any control is weak".
That is not what I stated.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Dont you find the entire idea that you, super strong anti weakness you, is THREATENED by a DUDE IN A DRESS to be the pinicle of weakness?
It is a weakness I'm trying to overcome. This thread is me confronting my weakness. I never said I was perfect. Just pretty darned close.
BiscuitTrouser said:
What does it say about the "surety" of your strength that the mere existence of a dude who cares not for your values makes you utterly disgusted and unsettled.
It says that my strength can be improved upon. It is already pretty impressive though.
BiscuitTrouser said:
How weak must your stance be, how low your own confidence in what you think, that even a single disagreeing view totally unsettles your world.
It doesn't. False attribution, assumptions. I think its weird it makes me uncomfortable. Nothing more nothing less. Your Freudian analysis would be incorrect in this case.
BiscuitTrouser said:
Ive never been weirded out by anyone's existence because i know what i value is worth valuing and no one just thinking or being differently can make me doubt it to any serious degree.
That's pretty impressive, me too!
BiscuitTrouser said:
It speaks of colossal insecurity to be so hostile to any opposing thought just because it exists because you find that threatening. Its rather childish if anything.
It's not hostile, I just think it's weird and disgusting. Like I said, I respect guys who are effeminate. They just creep me the fuck out. If being weirded out by dudes crying makes me insecure than I am okay with your definition of "insecure". So are billions of other men.