Poll: High school: too early?

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retro himself

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xmetatr0nx said:
retro himself said:
>serious relationships
>all through highschool
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Yea well it wouldnt have sounded too nice to say i would go out with every girl that looked good at the time now would it? :)
Exactly the reason why those weren't serious relationships. Rewording it doesn't change that fact :D
infernovolver said:
And oh yeah, forgot, 98% of those relationships were about sex too. But I completely forgot because I focused on a specific couple which would be a perfect example, and they actually never had sex, but still considered themselves to be the best couple, most serious couple evarr and how long did they last? Oh a couple of months perhaps. Sex is completely something else, usually you don't find people claiming they have a serious relationship if it's just for sex.
 

retro himself

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woem said:
I met my wife when we were 17 (not going to the same high school though). Nine years later (one week ago) we got married :)
Congratulations, marriage is usually an indicator that you two will get along just fine in the future, even after all those years.(despite how sarcastic this post looks, I'm serious)
 

Martymer

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mike1921 said:
It's not nitpicking, the way I saw it your post was totally irrelevant to the actual question the thread gave us.
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I'm aware people shouldn't rush into a serious relationship, but high school lasts 4 years...
If by that you mean that a "serious relationship in high school", is something you expect will end while still in high school, then we're not talking about the same thing. I hardly call it a serious relationship if you don't expect it to have any future. Maybe it will develop into one, but that's another story. It sounds like a pretty casual thing to me. Two people who just want to have some fun and then move on. If that's what the OP meant, then I misunderstood his question, and I appologize for wasting his time (and yours).

Now, can I assume you'll call the following reply irrelevant as well?

iron codpiece said:
I met my Ex-Wife in high school. We got married at age 20 and at about age 24 we had both changed into completely different people from who we were when we were 18.

Your personality changes so dramatically from ages 18-mid twenties. Two people that used to get along might not be.

For example;
In that time I; cleaned myself up, became a police informant for a while, got a job, and at the tail end, entered college
in that time she; ... well she didn't change or grow at all really that was part of the problem. Also the 'fucking a whole lot of other guys' thing cinched it.

I'm just glad we didn't have any kids.

Conversely some of my good friends that I had in high school I am still friends with.
 

EvilDictator

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I've found that it can vary between people. There was a "couple" when I was in school who were seeing one another from about the first year until the fifth, and it all ended in tears when the boyfriend cheated on the girl with one of her friends.

She ended it when she found out, but when he realised what an idiotic mistake he had made, he tried and tried to get back into her good books, but she merely took advantage of his stupidity and used him for lifts at 2am after partying with her other friends, for which he was willing.

I saw this unfold from afar, being that I was not a member of their popular clan, but it was abundantly clear that he, being a teenager was over lusty, and when the possibility presented itself for the chance at another girl, he leapt onto it (and her).

That being said, they did manage an on and off relationship for over five years, and it may have even stemmed into lower sixth, I'm not sure.

Other than that, I witnessed (and experienced) a lot of relationships that started in school and died a quick death in the duration, leaving the people involved bitter and resentful in the aftermath of brutal break ups. One of my ex boyfriends had the whole option of another girl (total slag at that), and he too was a lusty teenager and decided to betray my trust - and it was just a vicious circle for everyone in the school.

Once again, I can contradict myself by saying that this is not always the case - my neighbours have been together since high school, and they have been married for about 15 years (although given I hear them arguing almost all the time through two very thick walls).

So in short, I think it depends on both persons' willingness to stick with it, be faithful and love one another for as long as they can, without breaking any hearts or deception.
 

Verbera

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I'd say it's too young for serious relationships, but definitely not too young for friendships.
 

mike1921

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Martymer said:
mike1921 said:
It's not nitpicking, the way I saw it your post was totally irrelevant to the actual question the thread gave us.
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I'm aware people shouldn't rush into a serious relationship, but high school lasts 4 years...
If by that you mean that a "serious relationship in high school", is something you expect will end while still in high school, then we're not talking about the same thing. I hardly call it a serious relationship if you don't expect it to have any future. Maybe it will develop into one, but that's another story. It sounds like a pretty casual thing to me. Two people who just want to have some fun and then move on. If that's what the OP meant, then I misunderstood his question, and I appologize for wasting his time (and yours).
No, I was saying 4 years is ample time for a relationship to get serious, so a serious relationship in high school could exist without being rushed. You know, there is a middle ground between "I did it for the lulz" and "OMG we're definitely getting married as soon as we get out of this place, and we'll love each other forever".

That other guy's post isn't irrelevant, the point of his is "people will likely change after high school" yours seemed to be a bunch of things that are less saying that a serious relationship in high school is a bad idea and more saying general statements like "people cheat" and "don't rush into a serious relationship", so shit that's true after highschool too.
 

DrDeath3191

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That depends entirely upon the maturity of the highscoolers involved. Given what I witnessed during my stay at high school, I'd warrant so.