Poll: How do you flirt?

[Ca3zar416]

Apparently I was flirting with my first girl friend for a bit but didn't really realize it. Also had to have it pointed out to me that she was flirting with me. Yeah......I'm not very good it.

 

[The Apothecarry]

I can make the odd girl gamer on Halo laugh a bit, but in person I can barely bring myself to talk to a pretty girl. I know my twisted mind, and I'm afraid something offensive will slip out.

 

[A Free Man]

I just get clingy kinda and hang around them more. But thats cause Im rarely around a guy that I actually like and think I could get with.

Also this, but with women instead of men. I know, guys aren't supposed to be clingy, but if I like a girl, being around her more means I can hit on her more and my chances of getting a date are better. XD

I also just like talking to people, and you can't really do that if they're not around to talk to.

Yeh I'm a bit like this as well. Sorta just hoping that if your around them enough something might just happen inexplicably haha if only that actually happened ahh well one day....

 

[omagma]

I myself is the master of flirting.
Nothing says "honey, i am interested in you" than breaking the girls knee cap and slamming her head into a table..... what?... dont look at me like that!

but to be realistic.... i kinda suck at it... Hard

 

[Michael Logan]

Well usually the girls approach me, but I guess my flirting is diffrent depending on the girl, I sort of get a feel for what she likes before I start flirting. But I find that alot of girls like if you are teasing them. Which is odd, but hey, whatever works right?

 

[AwesomeSuperMelon]

I'm told I am a natural at it, and also that I do it without even thinking about it. It annoys my girlfriend. All I really do is be generally nice to the girl, throwing in a few well meant compliments about her hair/shoes/clothes/etc...

 

[Smiles]

I can't even tell when I am being flirted on/with? I have tried flirting and it has never gone well...

"so that's a book you are reading... cool, I've read some books too..." (walks away nervously)

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Oh, my flirting rarely gets me anywhere useful either. Once in a while, but not that often.

Mostly, it ends up with people on the internet arguing about (or calling dibs) on kissing me. ^^;; Which, since I've vowed to never date someone I met on the internet (ever again), is a rather moot point.

Sometimes, talking to you makes me sad. Most of the time though, it's interesting. That, and I like being teased, and for some reason it always feels like you're teasing me, I don't know why. XD

 

[Griffolion]

I just start a conversation with her about anything, i usually try and break the ice by being genuine and saying something like 'i think you're very gorgeous and i'd love to get to know you better, could I buy you a drink?' (or whatever would be appropriate for the setting).

Then it just goes from there. If she's not interested i don't linger around because that's just awkward so i'll find a natural time/place to break off and i will do.

At some appropriate point i'll also see if i could have her number and/or a date for coffee/dinner. If neither, ask if she's on facebook and if it's okay to add her. Though if she's not going to give you a date or a number, adding on facebook is a pointless task anyway if you're purely in the market for a romantic relationship.

I've come to find that most girls will appreciate the transparency and honesty and will reciprocate, so you're not left with the confusion that 'playing the game' can dish out in terms of 'what did she mean by THAT?'.

 

[Aphex Demon]

I do naturally. It's nature, after all.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Yeh I'm a bit like this as well. Sorta just hoping that if your around them enough something might just happen inexplicably haha if only that actually happened ahh well one day....

That's actually kind of how my current gf and I got together. We talked a lot and liked each other, so dating was just sort of the next logical step. I'd even given up on dating for a while when I met her, so you never know what'll happen.

Captcha: grancle det(tI

What? XD

 

[templeg]

I'm a mostly physical flirter, I seem to have a knack for footsie especially which has gotten me far . Apart from that, I laugh a lot more and make sure they see me from my best angles (as shallow as that sounds). If it's someone I'm very comfortable around, I tease them and make everything they say into innuendo somehow.

 

[Togs]

Im really, really bad at it- to the point where I just dont approach women out of too many times messing it up.
I also never realise when someones flirting with me, a number of times Ive met girls on nights out and had nice friendly chat, its only when I go back to my mates and they tell me that she was flirting as blatantly as she could do I realise.
But oddly enough had a recent conversation with a sort-of-ex where she told me when we first met I flirted outrageously with her.

 

[Sebenko]

I'm flirty as hell.

Since me and most of my friends are in relationships already, it's a good laugh. And it gets me hugs, so it can't be bad. Hopefuly my status is still "mostly harmless".

 

[Latinidiot]

I flirt all the time, it's fun. When I'm in the mood I'll even engage in bromance for laughs, and scared passers by.

 

[David_G]

Yeah I'm like you, op. I just flirt without noticing it whenever a girl is around.

 

[perfectionist]

Flirting come easy to me but i can flirt only with the person whom i like

 

[Doclector]

I don't flirt. Ever. I am too busy with shit that I barely even pay attention to people.
If a girl is interested in me then I expect them to come out and say it. For those who want to piss around playing games and hinting about stuff, they can fuck right off. I have no time for little girls and their games.
It has paid off since not only is my girlfriend mature enough to talk to me about shit without your standard chick games but she also is not jealous since she knows I would never cheat since a girl would practically have to sit on my face, wriggle and scream "DO ME BABY" for me to even realise shes interested in me.

That post was just damn wierd.

I imagined it all being said by your uncle phil avatar. I don't think i can ever watch fresh prince of bel air again.

 

[Korolev]

I don't. If I find a woman attractive I steadfastly try to interact with her as little as possible, and if I do talk to her I am extremely polite and distant. That's my way of introducing myself to the ladies! By acting like a hotel clerk to them!

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I have not been very successful at entering relationships.

 

[similar.squirrel]

I don't. Can't. I'm awkward enough around men and women that I don't feel attracted to, let alone somebody I've got a romantic interest in.
No, the way I get into relationships is by being all mumbly, shy and approachable, and having what I presume is a girl's innate mothering-instinct kick in. Or maybe it's the 'he's quiet, must be interesting' thought-process, I don't know. Don't do it on purpose, but it works every now and then.
That, and I'm pretty charming on IM.

But yeah, I really need to stop relying on these things. It's sort of pathetic.