Wolverine18 said:
omega 616 said:
If you are a guy of that age having a partner of that age, you must know that she is a gold digger. She can't be looking at him thinking "he is so attractive", not saying looks are everything but there has to be a physical attraction.
What a load of crap. When you marry your 19 year old girlfriend at 19 do you still think looks will be what matters at 70? When two 70 year olds get together, you think looks is the main factor?
Not every 23 year old is a shallow and short sighted mindless person. Some actually have developed minds and personalities and thus can do more than follow their hormones. While you can't really have sex with people that repulse you and enjoy it, they don't all have to be 10s for you to enjoy it. I find if I like someone, I like having sex with them.
Why was that person interested in the other person that they married at 19? One thought the other was attractive? Yes, that's right! The reason people "get together" is they see the other and think "there attractive" (it might not be attractive but it is a synonym of attractive).
I assume they then talk, bond, start a relationship, bond some more, get married etc. It all starts with first seeing the other person and thinking that the other is attractive, unless of course you are thinking of arranged marriages, then fair enough!
I would assume throughout the relationship you don't notice the other person change, as change is very slow. I also think if you first saw that person as attractive, there wont be a day you wake up, turn to look at your partner and think "fuck me, your ugly!" ... unless your relationship was a 1 night stand and beers goggles were on the previous night.
I would say just about every 23 year old is a short sighted mindless person, to be honest. Hell, I would class a lot of adults that very thing as well ... why do you think pay day loans are so popular? How many people create a 5 year plan, then stick to it? ... Actually how many people make a new years resolution and stick to it? (ok that might be more about discipline but giving up smoking/drinking at the drop of hat is a short sighted goal).
Do you think a smart (like straight A*s) girl, with an energetic and bubbly personality would date an old guy of 69? Keeping in mind that the 23 year old probably likes to party, hang out with people who have a similar taste in music and films etc and the old guys idea of a good time is sitting in a comfy chair, either reading or watching the box and his fav films aren't in colour.
I doubt the old guy is into dubstep/trance/dance or the latest twilight flick.
There is a generation gap and the two would be into really different things, do you think Hugh Hefner is the sexiest man alive and all those playboy models are the smartest and most interesting people on the planet OR is Hugh fine with all the women around him being gold diggers and all the women are shallow gold diggers who are willing to do the dirty so they can be dirty rich when he pops his clogs?
It's like strip clubs, are the men taking advantage of hard on there luck girls, whos last resort is getting naked for cash OR are the women taking advantage of the men who will throw money at (semi) naked women?
Captcha: steam punk ... I must be the only person who doesn't like steam punk but I get the captcha, go figure.
