Poll: Mother punishes adopted child by forcing him to drink hot sauce
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With that kind of punishment how do you not expect a child to lie to try to avoid that?
I'm pro bringing back the cane in school etc, but that was way too far, not to mention on a little boy, little children are not angels, but need good parenting not abuse. I thought i heard that he got in a fight with steve over pencils? I wonder why he thinks violence is aceptable for such small problems.
I'm pro bringing back the cane in school etc, but that was way too far, not to mention on a little boy, little children are not angels, but need good parenting not abuse. I thought i heard that he got in a fight with steve over pencils? I wonder why he thinks violence is aceptable for such small problems.
whenever something like this is online I wish that people were required to take tests in order to be parents.
But I can't find something that close to eugenics to be right either...
So what's the right course of action? Get that kid away from her for one... aside from that I don't know.
But I can't find something that close to eugenics to be right either...
So what's the right course of action? Get that kid away from her for one... aside from that I don't know.
Honestly, the hot sauce thing wouldn't be too bad. Then again, I personally love very spicy things...
The cold shower? Well... if it's ice cold, there's a problem. If not... it's certainly not good, but better than nothing.
So, those two are both acceptable if you choose to partake in them, or don't have much of a choice (like you need a shower, but there is no hot water).
As a punishment though? Hell no. Not only am I opposed to physical punishment like that, but from what I can tell, it was only a minor thing he got punished for. Getting in an argument with another kid over some pencils? Really?
The cold shower? Well... if it's ice cold, there's a problem. If not... it's certainly not good, but better than nothing.
So, those two are both acceptable if you choose to partake in them, or don't have much of a choice (like you need a shower, but there is no hot water).
As a punishment though? Hell no. Not only am I opposed to physical punishment like that, but from what I can tell, it was only a minor thing he got punished for. Getting in an argument with another kid over some pencils? Really?
I'm fairly sure I'm not the only one who would really enjoy
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Ugh. This makes me rage.
Why does she still have custody? Why isn't she in jail? I'm pretty sure you'd get your child taken away from you here in Germany if you did something like this...
EDIT:
You know what the problem with this kind of punishment is? The child stops lying because of fear. (Also implying that lying is always bad, which it is clearly not, but I digress)
It just learns that it's wrong.
But the kid needs to learn why it is wrong. The boy needs to stop misbehaving because he wants to stop (on his own!), because he realizes what harm can be done by misbehaving like that. This is what good parenting looks like.
But as I said, parenting methods like those shown in the video only make the child stop because he fears harsh punishment. That's not how you raise an independent, intelligent and emotionally stable human being. That's how you create a scared, always obeying worm.
beating the cr*p out of her, ideally breaking some bones, all the while screaming "DO WE TORTURE LITTLE CHILDREN"
Ugh. This makes me rage.
Why does she still have custody? Why isn't she in jail? I'm pretty sure you'd get your child taken away from you here in Germany if you did something like this...
We would soon die out.e2density said:
EDIT:
You know what the problem with this kind of punishment is? The child stops lying because of fear. (Also implying that lying is always bad, which it is clearly not, but I digress)
It just learns that it's wrong.
But the kid needs to learn why it is wrong. The boy needs to stop misbehaving because he wants to stop (on his own!), because he realizes what harm can be done by misbehaving like that. This is what good parenting looks like.
But as I said, parenting methods like those shown in the video only make the child stop because he fears harsh punishment. That's not how you raise an independent, intelligent and emotionally stable human being. That's how you create a scared, always obeying worm.
The hotsause, not that bad, but a cold shower in fucking alaska is like making the kid stand outside in a snow storm. And why were they recording it???
Hrm i dont know about that vid its too edited because what did the kid do apart from lie to avoid hot sauce in his mouth so he got hot sauce
what a *****
what a *****
i think the hot sauce would be worse because he was only like 10 but still its not right seeing as shees done it beforeMASTACHIEFPWN said:
Ha! The poor kid's in a paradox, if he'd told her that he was fighting at school he would have been punished anyway!
That's just wrong. This isn't punishment, it's torture.
No, you're not a terrible parent. You accidentally gave your kid a little bit of hot sauce while using it for it's intended purpose. No harm, no foul.BringBackBuck said:
I think hot sause is awesome
I would reather see a kid ***** about tabasco sause then getting smacked with a belt or something.
I would reather see a kid ***** about tabasco sause then getting smacked with a belt or something.
So when my parents do it to me, no one cares but if it is an adopted kid, she is an unfit mother?
To be fair, the pun was unintentional, but at the same time, inexcusable for its terribleness.Captain Pooptits said:
This isn't really a perfect world. To be honest, the cold shower is a bit much, but I still cannot believe this is considered child abuse, much less that half the people here are calling for her to be beaten / murdered.
Glad im not the only one, but really, people that spank there kids and leave brushes, oh, there fit parents, but make the kid taste a little hot sause, and they need to be drug to the pits of hell and beaten with a car battery? I see not how this makes sense.Fawcks said:
I've firmly attached Superglue to my buttcheeks and I'm sitting on the fence for this one (Can I get some help getting off?)
I'm still unsure as to what the kid did (and I did watch the links) and while spicy sauce and a cold shower can be cruel and the woman did go a "bit" crazy near the end, I'm still sure that there are a thousand worse ways to punish a child than this.
I'm still unsure as to what the kid did (and I did watch the links) and while spicy sauce and a cold shower can be cruel and the woman did go a "bit" crazy near the end, I'm still sure that there are a thousand worse ways to punish a child than this.