Zachary Amaranth said:
Or you just follow an easy religion. Nothing about religion itself has to be hard. I follow the religion of the Chosen Ones: Be excellent to one another and party on, dudes!
So when something awful happens, and the one who caused it is right in front of you, and all your animal urges are screaming at you to smack him upside the head with a spanner - you stop yourself, ponders what young masters Preston & Logan would do, and you're forced to be excellent to the guy instead. Sounds quite hard to me. It's still refusing your own urges to do something because your beliefs run contrary to that desire.
Besides, there's a limit to how long you can party on. I know I'm getting old (only a month until I turn 25!) but I can barely party for a whole night these days. To party on forever, without end, would leave me a broken wreck of a man within a week. I just don't think it's do-able.
Zachary Amaranth said:
Then maybe the religion should fall by the wayside. If an all-encompassing spirituality cannot endure a modern century, then the problem is with the religion. It is inherrently flawed.
Spirituality tends to come within a framework, of deity and myth and all those other things. Much of religion seems to me to be an appeal to authority; "I'll be a good person, because I've been told to be" is just an excuse to behave well and be decent. I'd like to think that a lot of people don't need the excuse, but they may need the encouragement.
Have you ever read a book called Join Me, by Danny Wallace? He was the guy who played the snarky tech dude in AC 2 and Brotherhood, and looks
exactly like him in real life. He's much, much nicer though. Anyway, Join Me is a story of how he accidentally started a cult and then had to figure out stuff for them to do. So he started challenging them to do nice things for other people, complete strangers. He comes to the odd realisation that people like doing these random acts of kindness, but without him
telling them to do it, they wouldn't be doing it. It's very interesting.
Zachary Amaranth said:
Recondiling your faith is merely sticking your head in the sand.
No, I think sticking blindly to your faith is sticking your head in the sand. Reconciling it to the world you live in is an attempt to take what you believe and make it work around real life. Reality disagrees with your belief system, but at least you're admitting that and trying to find a compromise rather than stamping your foot and saying "No, there
is no such thing as evolution, the Bible says so! Everything works the way my ancient text describes it and anyone who disagrees is a heretic!"
Zachary Amaranth said:
"We only want the good stuff" is also a problem, in that it justifies other selective interpretations.
True, but would you rather have people who were selective about the good lessons or people who were emphatic that the entire world should work according to the way a 2000-year-old book describes it? Religion, for the time being, is here. It'll be around for a good long while yet. I'd much rather have people who tried to use it to do good things than people who refused to interpret at all.