Poll: My Love Triangle Help!!!

[twistedshadows]

Stay with your girlfriend. I've had friends in the same position; when they leave their girlfriend for the other girl, they inevitably regret it and try to get back together with their old girlfriend (which often doesn't go over well). Also, long distance relationships suck.

Unless you won't be happy until you're with the other girl. In which case, it's sort of unfair to your girlfriend to pretend everything's alright if you're just dreaming about someone else.

although, in Britain it is technically legal to marry your first cousin... I dont advise it but its not illegal...

Seriously? Does it happen often?

 

[MBFCPresident]

Never mind this post.

 

[MBFCPresident]

Let me fix that for you

Wow, that was pretty helpful.

thanks

Welcome, dude.

 

[Leorex]

stick with the current, but offer to be fuck buddys with the other.

 

[Fenring]

Stick with your current girlfriend. You've got something good, why ruin it?

 

[Ushario]

If you need to ask, then its time to go for what you want.

Which is obviously not your girlfriend.

 

[MBFCPresident]

I think I smell the Banhammer.

Told ya.

 

[darthzack79]

Go with the other girl. She seems like she is more fun and can more adequately be a part of your life (with your friends and such). Not to mention you make it sound an awful lot like you share more of your thoughts and feelings with her than with your current girlfriend.

It seems as though you've got those seeds of doubt taking root in your head about your current woman. Once those doubts start tickling the back of your mind, they don't go away.

 

[asinann]

The girlfriend. So what if she does not get along with your friends? Unless you are 100% of the time with friends. Do you hang out with hers?
Besides, friends are fickle. I did not get along with my boyfriend's friends either. They however all betrayed him, but I still very much love him and support him.

Reading between the lines here but what I hear is "I chased off all his old friends because I didn't like them."

Stay with what you have.

 

[Psypherus]

I'd say just break up with your girlfriend. From the way it sounds, you're heading down a path to cheating and then you'll just deserve to have your balls cut off

 

[ParkourMcGhee]

or a battle to the death between the two women involving Sai and a pit full of Jelly

The way I see it, this is the only REAL option .

 

[VitalSigns]

Real talk: if your thinking about this other so much you probably don't love your girlfriend as much as you believe you do.
Your allowed to be selfish when it comes to love. And sexual attraction is extremely important for a long term relationship, and you seem to be more attracted to the other girl. Just something to consider.

 

[Chiefmon]

*sigh*
Ok, dude, it's really quite simple. Four options. Give up you're great girlfriend for the shot at something that might suck, Give up something that could be amazing for your boring and safe girlfriend, walk away from both until you figure out what it is you want, or a battle to the death between the two women involving Sai and a pit full of Jelly

I recommend plan D.

 

[Chiefmon]

stick with the current, but offer to be fuck buddys with the other.

*slaps Leorex*

 

[The_Commander_of_Offworld]

Try viewing it from an unorthodox perspective. Ask yourself not which one you would rather have, but which could you not see yourself without? Which one could you give up, and which could you not live without?
And when you decide. Be honest, and straightforwards, but use some tact, so you do not come of as blunt. Either choice will likely bring pain, and joy, unless you do it for the wrong reasons, in which case you will find yourself alone.
Do not take the selfish option, of stringing them both along, or trying to have two relationships at once. No good can come of it.

 

[Roamin11]

Make them love eachother turn them bi and have a commited threesome

Answer sloved

In all honesty stick with thte girlfriend, its easier that way

 

[Valiance]

What would you do in my situation or have youu ever been in a similar situation and what have you done?

If I was in your situation, I'd go with my girlfriend.

That said, I would fucking regret every second of it and ask myself the "What if...?" question forever if I did.

You only live once kid. The fact that you've actually already CONSIDERED dropping your girlfriend for this other girl already is sort of a problem.

Unless you have some severe mental strength, well...you might wanna stay with your girlfriend because it's convenient and you have a guaranteed stable reward...

But you know, you might have something better with this other girl, eh?
And you seem unsure of your own feelings here. If you want to be with the other girl, is your girlfriend mature enough to be able to handle a "Hey, you know, stay right here, I'll be right back, I gotta check something out for the next few weeks, and if it goes bad, I'm gonna come back to you. " or will it end up being a total switch and then fail?

Questions you need to ask yourself:
Do you care about this girl?
Do you care about how your girlfriend will feel?
Do you care about the possibility of you guys not having "exciting sparks" every day for the next 2 years, and her getting bored with you, throwing you away, and you end up single?
Do you care about how your girlfriend and her friends will end up perceiving you after you drop her for something (which you perceive to be) better?

Honestly, it seems you wanna be with the other girl or else you wouldn't have even talked about it. So I voted the other girl.

Oh, and by the way:

I was in a similar situation for a bit, dropped my girlfriend, got the new girl, and I've been with her...2 years this Sunday.

And I wouldn't have it any other way. Ex is still trying to be close friends with me, but I keep my distance. And I recommend you break contact.

 

[massau]

just follow your hart go for the one you think is the best and that you love the most but you say more positive things about the other girl (2)

 

[Lord George]

I'd kill one of them. All problems can be solved through gratuitous violence.

 

[Legion]

You misunderstand. By even entertaining these thoughts, you have already proven that you don't love your girlfriend. It is time to be a MAN and break up with her. Tell her why, LIKE A MAN, and explain to her that you don't want to hurt her. Of course, I could just be weird for actually BELIEVING that, but it has never steered me wrong in the past. As for the other girl... If you two already tried it, and you are only 19, I wouldn't recommend trying it again. I did it on several occasions, and the result was always the same.

Again, that is just my view on the matter, so do what you will

I agree.

I'd like to add that if you had just "fantasised" what it would be like it'd be fine (people can't help that, it's human nature), but the fact you are seriously considering the concept of leaving her shows she really is not that important to you.

What's going to stop you wanting her back after a year or two? She made a good partner the first time from what you said so what will stop her from being attractive once she's gone?

As for the poll, I'm not voting.

My only response would be this XKCD comic.

http://www.xkcd.com/584/

This sums it up well.