It all depends on the relationships with your friends and better half at the time. Don't currently have a second piece to my puzzle and I don't really care for one night stands. Though if this WAS between my friends and my girlfriend it'd be much tougher. And yet I'd still choose table top games. Sex is great and all but the amount of memories and enjoyment from friends and good ol D&D is nearly limitless. Maybe you need a really great girlfriend before you can make this decision...