Poll: Should I keep trying?
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That doesnt make a whole lotta sense. According to you he shouldnt try anything and just continue to live in this terrible mess.Abedeus said:
I'm gonna go with the whole 'think of the children' line here. Do you really want your kids having someone like that as a mum? Someone who won't even take care of them except when it suits her? What the hell kind of parent is that? Walk out of her life completely and for the love of god take your kids with you.fenrizz said:
don't try it she is using you bad...real bad, just split up now (the older the kids the harder for them...personal experience)
where is your self respect? I know she is the love of your life etc. but you need two people for love and she clearly doesn't feel the same about you (as she slept with a dozen other guys).
Quit now and go get drunk with your best buddy! ow and maybe court might by needed for the kids and all...
where is your self respect? I know she is the love of your life etc. but you need two people for love and she clearly doesn't feel the same about you (as she slept with a dozen other guys).
Quit now and go get drunk with your best buddy! ow and maybe court might by needed for the kids and all...
Don't worry! The new Lovegaunt romance-finder will AAAAAGH I can't make a joke out of this, it's just too much! Listen to what the others have said, try to find someone else,and......I'm not good at issues of this sort! You go on and try to fix your problems with the advice you have been given(not mine, though), I'll stay back and cut off my fingers while dipping them in salt, or something else that should make up for attempting to make fun of this. It's horrible, and why did she tell you about how she liked cheating on you?!
The best thing for the kids is to stay together, but she's clearly not willing to commit to that. The best thing for you is to gtf away from her because she's treating you like crap.
So this is the best possible thing you can do; be a man and tell her to stop fucking around. She's taking advantage of your lenience, she's sleeping with those other guys because you're allowing her to, so stop being lenient, stop enabling her behaviour, and tell her IT'S NOT OKAY!
So this is the best possible thing you can do; be a man and tell her to stop fucking around. She's taking advantage of your lenience, she's sleeping with those other guys because you're allowing her to, so stop being lenient, stop enabling her behaviour, and tell her IT'S NOT OKAY!
I don't think that carrying on like this is going to be good for anyone, especially you and your kids. The relationship you have at the moment is anything but stable - you'd be best to put an end to it in this form, and work towards a situation where everyone is sure where they stand. In this case, that's probably you and your partner separating.
Once you get down to a solid foundation, you can start building on it again.
As regards custody, if she starts any crap, I'd say you have enough evidence to demolish her in court.
Once you get down to a solid foundation, you can start building on it again.
As regards custody, if she starts any crap, I'd say you have enough evidence to demolish her in court.
You are not a fool for still loving her as much as you do. You just have a lot of hope. I'm sorry to say, but I doubt she will ever change.
The question is, do you mind?
If her cheating on you is a problem, how big is it? If it's enough to spoil the relationship, then give up, because she won't change.
If, on the other hand, you felt hat your feelings toward her are strong enough for you to allow her an open relationship, then do so
I'd advise staying with her, but it really is down to what you feel comfortable with
If her cheating on you is a problem, how big is it? If it's enough to spoil the relationship, then give up, because she won't change.
If, on the other hand, you felt hat your feelings toward her are strong enough for you to allow her an open relationship, then do so
I'd advise staying with her, but it really is down to what you feel comfortable with
OK mate your not a fool, but honestly I would have to tell you to move on (and trust me I know exactly how hard that is to do) but honestly, she isn't going to change and all that is going to happen is that you are going to get hurt again. So look as hard as it sounds, you probably am just going to have to let her go and move on, you might love her and be willing to forgive her, but as hard as it will be just leave her.
Considering the fact that you have children, I think what you need to do is to do what is best for them. Would she be a benefit to them, or just a bad example?
you are just blinded bye love.
it really sad but i think the best thing is to leaf here she has already betrayed you for more than 2 times so i don't think that she is going to learn it
sorry that i want to know but are you really sure that it are your children(plz don't hate me for this question)
it really sad but i think the best thing is to leaf here she has already betrayed you for more than 2 times so i don't think that she is going to learn it
sorry that i want to know but are you really sure that it are your children(plz don't hate me for this question)
Dude, I feel bad for you because you are seeking serious relationship advice from the magical interwebs. You know everyone here is 25 years old, lives in their parent's basement and hasn't seen the light of day for the past three years.