Poll: Should I keep trying?

[EeveeElectro]

I may not be able to trust her ever again, and she has broken my heart several times already

I think you just answered your own question.

She's a grown woman, leave her to her own devices. The most important thing is your children.

 

[Biek]

Tell her to hit the bricks. *points thumb over shoulder*

 

[incubus42]

I still hope we can be friends, 'cus she still is my bestfriend.

Please, don't ask her to stay friends with you. That just comes across to her as weak and indecisive.

 

[nikosuave]

Just take it for what it's worth from me (which isn't much), but the kind of people who dump the people who love them so much are some of the most heartless people in the world. Fortunately your children are young and much less likely to be horribly messed up by it. Now what I say next will sound incredibly corny, but I believe it with every fiber of my being. There is someone out there for everyone. Somewhere in this world there is someone who is perfect for you and you are perfect for them. Just remember it's always darkest before the dawn.

 

[lizards]

no offense but she is a slut

love never will go away but you can find someone that you love more and that loves you back tell her to go suck the other guys dick and move on bro

 

[DeadlyYellow]

She's showing she doesn't respect you by sleeping around. Why should you disrespect yourself to keep seeing her?

 

[UpSkirtDistress]

No good will come of her and you know it deep down its hard to imagion life without her but you cant put up with that for the rest of your life. It will ruin you more so then it is already. She is poison get out and don't look back your far better off that way you actually have a chance at a fulfilling life.

 

[Thegoodfriar]

Dude, I feel bad for you because you are seeking serious relationship advice from the magical interwebs. You know everyone here is 25 years old, lives in their parent's basement and hasn't seen the light of day for the past three years.

i'm not i'm 16 years old but i know what to do i'm a good thinker and i can see right trough somebody's "first layer" and say what's wrong

See there's certain things that just shouldn't be consulted by 16 year olds. Life experience is a lot more critical here than anything else. Anyways, I can't give advice because just reading something in text doesn't tell the whole story.

I wish I could say it would work out, but I'm just another Joe Schmoe in the crowd of thousands.

 

[Grimm91]

I feel for you man, but I don't think she will change and be faithful to you. However life is a funny thing so if she comes back, give her one more chance. And if she never calls again move on. I hope things work out.

 

[Hakushi]

You seem to be such a great person, it's very sad you have to live a situation like that. Most important thing, you need to work on controlling your own life, as you said, she seems to know how to control you. Learning to say no to a person we love is the hardest thing to do, but it will benefit you in the end. The children will be much happier if you have control of your own life (with or without her) then controlled by her the way it is now. Move on, and maybe once she got a no from you she will realize a few things. You deserve better, and you know it. I wish you the best of luck

 

[fenrizz]

You seem to be such a great person, it's very sad you have to live a situation like that. Most important thing, you need to work on controlling your own life, as you said, she seems to know how to control you. Learning to say no to a person we love is the hardest thing to do, but it will benefit you in the end. The children will be much happier if you have control of your own life (with or without her) then controlled by her the way it is now. Move on, and maybe once she got a no from you she will realize a few things. You deserve better, and you know it. I wish you the best of luck

Thanks for that, means alot to me
I'll just have to practice saying no to her I guess. And it's true what they say, it's a hell of a lot harder than it sounds.