Poll: When did you lose your virginity?

[GodofDisaster]

I lost mine a few days ago, oh wait that was the other me from a parallel world.

Joke aside I'm 20 and still a virgin, I usually have mixed feelings about this. At times I'm ok with it and at other times I'm a bitter little dickhead to anyone who brings up how much sex they're getting. Yes I know confidence is needed, but I just can't seem to muster it, where does it come from? Are you born/grow up with it? Or is it something that grows over time? Personally I think it's the latter but how do I make mine grow? Confidence that is.

Also this picture should explain my love/sex life and what I'm like during any weak attempt to talk to girls.

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[Manawa]

15 over here. Thought i'd met the right girl, at some point in the past few days i realized it was never going anywhere. So yeah...

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Eh, why the fuck not.

Almost sixteen, never had a girlfriend, still ain't givin' a fuck (pun intended).

I AM sixteen, never had a girlfriend.

Eh, not like I care. I mean, losing your virginity is still a big deal? Plus, relationships always seem like an anchor on the foot.

When/and if, big if, I ever do the nasty, it has to be with a smart girl. No way I'm losing the game to some idiot that can't do long division (which is pretty much everyone in my high school).

Well I see your 16 and add a 17!

I have been getting along with a girl recently, so I'm gonna try asking her out at the next party. Fingers crossed it works out and then I might have to change my answer here.

As for the right age etc? Whenever the fuck you feel like, you're never too old to lose it.

http://i2.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/003/619/Untitled-1.jpg

16 here to. Fething unrequited crushes :/

16, never had a gf. Virgin power!

I'm with these guys.

What can I say? I'm only 13. Besides, the only other homosexual I know has a troubling little thing called a vagina. And even if she was a guy, I'd feel weird because she has the same last name as me, and it would be like fucking my brother. To quote Donnie Darko: "I don't think about fucking my family, that'd be weird!"

21, never been kissed or hugged, never dated/been with another guy or girl (looking more to be guys only for me though). So who knows if I'll ever find a Gay SO to join me, seeing as I'm stuck deep within the Bible Belt of America. Although I do have toys that I've played with, I'll say that, but that doesn't count as losing my virginity, cause silicone doesn't count! lol

18 and a virgin. I'd classify myself as an asexual, so being a virgin is hardly a bad thing (though you are free to disagree, and I wouldn't blame you, it isn't like saying "I'm an asexual virgin" inspires confidence in people).

25, never in relationship, never kissed, done some oral though (long story for different topic ;p ). I just never felt I'm good enough for girls to take interest in me.

 

[Sexy Devil]

I'm 17, I've yet to lose it, and I doubt I will for a while if at all. People in my level of attractiveness tend to be a bit... embittered, and it makes them unpleasant to be around. My apparently winning personality apparently did reel in a super-out-of-my-league-attractive girl in high school who I got along with really well. However I was too oblivious to notice at the time, and it only occurred to me like a week ago when she was dropping rather huge 'hints' that she liked me back then on Facebook.

Kind of separated by a country now though. 8(

Though I can't say that I care about getting laid all that much. It'll happen when it happens, and until then Mr. Hand will never leave me (barring some horrible accident). Much more invested in trying to be less of an introvert in general at this time in my life.

 

[Doom-Slayer]

84 days ago. Or to be more exact, 84 days and approximately 10 hours ago. Ya it was a fairly big moment for me haha

 

[Whateveralot]

When I was 20. I'm 22 now.

It might be late, but I didn't have a girlfriend before that. I don't regret anything.

 

[Kathinka]

with 13 to a girl and to a guy (the way it "counts" in my oppinion for a girl) with 14. don't go chris hansen on me, age of consent where i'm from is a lot lower than most places.

i'm still with that particular guy now, ten years later.

 

[Terratina.]

17. Never even been in a relationship, let alone done the dirty with someone. Might take advantage of that and pretend I'm waiting until marriage or asexual or something, because that fact is not gonna change anytime soon. The only piece of advice I'm been given on the matter is to "find someone who knows what they're doing so they can show you the ropes." or something to that effect.

 

[bojackx]

About a month before I turned 19 to a 43 year old milf I met in a gay bar. I kinda regret it to be honest, although at least it makes an interesting story.

P.S. I'm in England, just so people don't question why I was at a bar before turning 21

P.P.S And yes, I was drunk.

But if you regret it, wouldn't she not be a M.I.L.F? Unless you want to do her now.

 

[coolman9899]

Double post whoops :3

 

[coolman9899]

14 because I was a stupid ***** back then who thought if I didn't lose it then, I never would.
Also I believed his stupid sweet-talking, even though I knew I was girl #8758575 or something.
I did a year later go onto have a 2 year relationship but I had such bad self esteem at the time I didn't think another man would look at me.

Oh wells. I suppose it helped me in the long run because now I won't let another man near me unless I know he really loves me. If he wants the sex he has to work for it, dammit! >_<

Good for you! I think some Girls / Woman should take a page outta your book

 

[Diddy_Mao]

14 years old with my first girlfriend. We dated until I was 16.

I count myself somewhat lucky that my first time was with her as there was a string of relationships that followed that contained no small amount of disappointing emotionless sex.

 

[Idlemessiah]

I'm 22 and I'm a virgin. Looking back I could have lost it at any point between 16 and 19 when I actually went to parties and stuff, but being totally clueless I never "got the hint" as it were.
I don't see myself losing it anytime soon since I don't date.

 

[GartarkMusik]

18. October of my freshman year of college. Not too different really.

 

[Mausthemighty]

I lost mine at 24, and that's mostly due to me being more interested in playing football, studying and gaming than going out.

 

[aba1]

I was 16. At the time I thought I was responsible and mature enough but looking back I think I should have waiting a little longer. I was a lot younger than I felt like at the time. I didn't do anything stupid but I think back then I could have a lot more easily.

 

[latenightapplepie]

I was 21. It was too early for the relationship. But I don't regret it. He was sweet and we stayed together for a little over a year. We did well.

 

[exessmirror]

15, 2e time xtc. dont regret it really. just had a fun time with everything and in the end that is the only thing that counts for me

 

[Da Orky Man]

Obligatory Red Dwarf post:

 

[greatcheezer2021]

18 in the 3rd month of march.

i was ready for dat shit knowing it was soon to happen and afterwards i, greatcheezer2021 came back as a man.

its been a year cuz i took a break from school and ive been fiending since.

 

[Griffolion]

When I was 19 to a friends ex-girlfriend. I used to be a bad person.