Question about sexuality.

[Unesh52]

I am not sure if I am honest I have not looked at a guy and wanted intercourse but neither have I looked at girls and thought intercourse, Thats not to say I have never thought of sex I just don't really desire it I'd prefer a hug, you may label that as you will.

I didn't really think to much into sexuality until I came into contact with a TS girl called Jess about 4 years ago now and talked about her childhood and such I guess you can say thats when I started to wonder about what the sexuality of everyone around me was and considering my own.

Hope thats less confusing that it sounded in my head.

I'm curious about how old you are.

Does TS mean trans-gender?

It would be a little easier to read if you'd punctuate a little more, friend. It runs on a bit.

 

[rathorn14]

I don't see any reason to not treat sexuality like any other aspect of a persons life, like their political views, for example. Bottom line, don't judge a book by it's cover.

 

[espada1311]

Well, the first time I saw an image of a naked, well-built and good-looking man, I had promptly crossed my legs and put my elbows into my crotch for concealment purposes. That was rather self-explanatory....

 

[JUMBO PALACE]

I'm a heterosexual male. I figured this out when I noticed I liked girls.

 

[feauxx]

for the people saying that they are straight, there is no need to add "always have been" to that our society is vey much heterosexual, i think we all grow up straight until some realize that they are not.

heterosexuality is on display everywhere, it is the norm. when i got into my early teens and the girls started looking differently at boys and the boys started treating the girls differently, i did not understand what was going on. i did not see the boys in the way the other girls did and why were the boys suddenly treating me as something they did not understand when before i was always 'one of them'?

i was 12 when i realized i had a crush on a girl, and it made me feel sick. my family is not homophobic but i did grow up in a tiny village and had never been in contact with gay people. i was already a bit of an outsider because of my interests in music, games, etc. that i did not share with anyone. so that combined with a crush on a girl made me very unhappy. i went to high school in a big city where i made some dear friends who i felt comfortable around so i came to term with myself there. i accepted myself as bi when i was 15, mostly because i felt a bit too young to rule out the entire male population. a bit after i got together with my first girlfriend at 17 i accepted that i'm gay.

if i look back now, i realize that my first -lets call it fascination- was with my kindergarten teacher. therefore i think we can very well be born gay. i've been fascinated by female beauty for as long as i can remember and i have always seen guys as nothing more than friends. and i grew up without any type of exposure to homosexuality except maybe queen on tv.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Does sexuality really matter?

I don't think it does in most cases. The word itself means nothing to me, hetero or homo. If it impacts their character, then I suppose it does.

I'm a heterosexual, and a straight furry. I heard about furres and didn't understand them at all... so I inquired around and met some cool people. If sexuality didn't matter, I probably wouldn't have had a second thought about it and never made the friendships that I still value.

It sucks, though, about all of the backlash toward the furry community. If more people had the same conversations I had, there probably would be more understanding and less hate.

I've never understood why there's such a stigma regarding furries. It's not really my thing, but then, neither is hardcore S&M, but I don't hate on them. XD

 

[Chappy]

I am not sure if I am honest I have not looked at a guy and wanted intercourse but neither have I looked at girls and thought intercourse, Thats not to say I have never thought of sex I just don't really desire it I'd prefer a hug, you may label that as you will.

I didn't really think to much into sexuality until I came into contact with a TS girl called Jess about 4 years ago now and talked about her childhood and such I guess you can say thats when I started to wonder about what the sexuality of everyone around me was and considering my own.

Hope thats less confusing that it sounded in my head.

I'm curious about how old you are.

Does TS mean trans-gender?

It would be a little easier to read if you'd punctuate a little more, friend. It runs on a bit.

Near enough 20 take 9 days and yes TS means trans-gender.

Sorry about the punctuation it is getting on to 3 am so I'm getting a bit sleepy about to go to bed, I'll fix it when I wake.

 

[Sexbad]

I'm gay and have been since I was born, and most likely even before that. I began noticing when I was eleven or twelve, and by now (sixteen) I'm realizing that even as a little boy I was pretty damn gay. I was never interested in girls and remember often doing some really kinky stuff. In kindergarten one of my friends actually introduced me to something he called "humping" and despite not actually being able to do it (because five-year-olds aren't really able to be sexually active and all that) I was pretty obsessed with it.

 

[jawakiller]

I knew I was a heterosexual male since I was five years old in kidergarden. Kissed a girl I knew and thought, "dang, that was fun." From then on I was a womanizing, sex-loving male. Never found any attraction to other males. And no, I'm not in denial. At least I don't think I am... Damn you liberals, making me question my orientation. haha

I'm a conservative, but thanks for playing. XD

haha, no dude. I meant (liberal) society in general likes to make one question ones own orientation using lines like "calling people gay means you have repressed sexuality" or "Those who deny finding attraction in the other members of their gender are actually suppressing their true feelings" n shit. Prolly should'v said that.

 

[Sonic Doctor]

Well, I consider myself to be straight and it is obvious that I am.

Now in elementary, grades 1-6, I had two different girlfriends, but it really wasn't anything sexual, it was just the thing to do. People just paired up in classes and said they were boyfriend and girlfriend.

Though, when I got to junior high it was like a snap of the fingers. In 6th, elementary, I was like, girls are alright. Then after summer break and I went to the bigger town next door for junior high, I entered 7th and I was in deep. I definitely was having the funny feelings. I have a very imaginative mind, and fantasies in my head started right away.

There was this one girl that sat behind me in geography, I'd always gather my stuff up slowly so I would get to watch her walking away. It was insane how developed she was, I think looking at her is where my attraction to a fine ass came from. It was so round. She wasn't fat or skinny, but that back was just mind-boggling.

I don't know what it was though; I had no problem with getting girls to like me in elementary, but after I entered junior high, I couldn't get a girl to save my life. I'm was always the thoughtful friend(no real deep friendship) that they could count on if they needed a pen, pencil, or some paper, and to this day it is still that way. My attraction towards girls has made me shy. I have had some girls that were friends when I went through college, but I never felt any great attraction towards them.

While I do think their should be some great friendship, almost bestfriend kind of friendship between a guy and girl before they commit to a long term relationship but there also has to be a sexual spark.

The problem is it seems all the girls that want to be in long relationships are already in one, and what's left are the girls that are carefree and don't want to commit to anything.

Even though I feel it would be fun to have a short fling with a girl, deep down it isn't me. I guess I live too much for the future.

 

[willer357]

I'm bisexual-leaning heavily towards men, which means that I find women attractive, but I can become emotionally attached to a man easier, and don't really have an interest in pursuing a relationship with women.

I'm not sure when I realized I was into guys. The earliest I can remember is playing 'nude' games with my friend and for some reason a dinosaur book (don't ask, I have no idea.)

I've never been truly into women, and I guess I don't know when I realized I wasn't straight because of a mix of not learning about homosexuality until I was older and thinking that I was stuck in the kids mindset of girls (cooties and the like.)

 

[Unesh52]

Near enough 20 take 9 days...

No offense, but I find that absolutely baffling. I was masturbating before I could get an erection big enough to grip it properly (it's kind of a long story). Sex -- whether or not I should have it, who I should have it with, how I should do it, etc. -- has been one of the most interesting parts of myself I've looked into in my whole life. Now, I can see how it would be less important to others. I might even go so far as to say I have an unusually large interest in my sexuality. But I can't fathom how someone could never want to explore those feelings in nearly a decade of being able to!

Fascinating.

 

[guntotingtomcat]

Meh.

I only had sex rather late in life.

Turns out that wanking has little to do with actual sexuality.
For me anyway.

Seriously, who would have thought that personality actually matters?

So, yeah, current girlfriend kinda made me straight.

 

[Rewdalf]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

 

[SuperUberBob]

Always straight, always will be.

I tend to judge people on what they do and say, and have been told I'm homophobic before, which I found pretty funny.

Pretty much this.

I don't know any biology behind sexuality. All I know is that I sucked on breasts when I was a baby and that I want to suck on some willing 20-something's titties now.

 

[SkyeNeko]

Asexual biromantic.

Sex just doesn't really appeal to me... I can't imagine actually doing it with anyone. Outside of that, I'm attracted to guys, but you can't tell me girls don't look absolutely hot.

I guess I only really named myself asexual last year, when I found out there was a term for it. Sex really hasn't appealed to me ever though.

 

[Zaik]

I am a heterosexual male who has had a number of homosexual and bisexual friends of both genders. As a former thespian I hung out with very promiscuous people and really never questioned my attraction to women. There were some times when I was in the Marine Corps when I actually questioned my sexuality but mostly due to the environment I was in as opposed to any real sexual confusion. (I.e. 3 month long boot camp with 74 other guys, no women and communal showers)

We had 2 4th Batallion platoons on our training schedule(Over at MCRDPI) once we hit 2nd phase, you DID NOT MISS ANYTHING. There might have been one or two that managed to retain some concept of a feminine form, but the rest were hideous.


Anyway, on topic, trial and error I guess. I dislike the company of women, but am not physically attracted to men. Still technically straight, I guess, though.

 

[feauxx]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

your "numbers"?
like non-straight people are an opposing force or something. sounds a bit paranoid to me.

bi-sexuality is not defined as not caring, maybe have a quick look on wikipedia.

btw i think it's great people are so open on this forum

 

[Rewdalf]

Now, don't hate me for this, but I've noticed that stating that you're bisexual is some sort of new fad...
Sure, some people are bisexual, but the majority of people who feel the need to state their sexuality usually side with bi, stating that "they don't care either way".
Really now? That many people "don't care"?
Well I do care. I'm a straight male, and am a bit sad that our numbers seem to be dwindling. I don't have a problem with other people's choices, but it's starting to become unavoidable, and I have to say it isn't the most comfortable subject to have brought up on you on a daily basis...

your "numbers"?
like non-straight people are an opposing force or something. sounds a bit paranoid to me.

bi-sexuality is not defined as not caring, maybe have a quick look on wikipedia.

That's the thing though. Those who state that they're bisexual and then immediatly after say "I don't care if you're a guy or girl" don't seem like they mean it...
It just seems like they're trying to fit in with todays trends, since a lot of people are getting more confident with their sexual preference...
It bothers me.

 

[ShaqLevick]

Well, once upon a time I kissed a girl and got a boner, and the rest as they say is history. I do imagine our old divining rod between the knees has been pointing men in the right direction for ages.