I'm in for all of OP's plus the following:
1) Drunk. A couple every once in a while is okay, but the very first time you knock on my door at 4am totally shitfaced and expect me to deal with you, it's over. Also applies to pot.
2) Smoker. Tobacco is vile, filthy, and inexcusably disgusting. I will not have it near me. Hard drugs are also out.
3) The One Way Street. Nobody's perfect, everyone's got some kind of issue, I get that. I don't for one second believe I am entirely stable, myself. I'm fine with being supportive. I'll listen to your problems, hold you if you need to cry, all that stuff. I'm in, 100%. But it's got to go both ways. Men have needs, too, and I'm not talking about sex. You need to be a reasonably stable, mature, supportive human being in return. I am not your emotional punching bag.
1) Drunk. A couple every once in a while is okay, but the very first time you knock on my door at 4am totally shitfaced and expect me to deal with you, it's over. Also applies to pot.
2) Smoker. Tobacco is vile, filthy, and inexcusably disgusting. I will not have it near me. Hard drugs are also out.
3) The One Way Street. Nobody's perfect, everyone's got some kind of issue, I get that. I don't for one second believe I am entirely stable, myself. I'm fine with being supportive. I'll listen to your problems, hold you if you need to cry, all that stuff. I'm in, 100%. But it's got to go both ways. Men have needs, too, and I'm not talking about sex. You need to be a reasonably stable, mature, supportive human being in return. I am not your emotional punching bag.