Relationship virgins.
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I'm 19 and haven't had a relationship. Not even a close friendship really. Obviously that means I haven't had anything like sex or whatnot. I haven't even held hands or been hugged by a girl, so yeah. You aren't alone haha, I hope that makes you feel better.
I find this post offensive.AccursedTheory said:
Nobody is "behind the game" at 21, and talking like that with anyone is not helpful for them at all. Everyone has their own pace for things, and it is they who decide what that pace is, and not some arbitrary "rules" society has about when someone should do certain things.
OT: Been in relationships, but I tend to avoid them for the most part. I wouldn't call myself a "relationship virgin", but I don't have as much experience as I would prefer. I prefer taking a smaller number, but having all of them be special. :3
I'd hug you, but you already knew that. :3Julianking93 said:
I'm 19 and have been in a couple relationships, though I wouldn't consider myself lucky to have been in them.
"Tis better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all," or something like that. Honestly I don't think whoever said that had someone like my ex-girlfriend in mind at the time.
"Tis better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all," or something like that. Honestly I don't think whoever said that had someone like my ex-girlfriend in mind at the time.
21... no romantic interest... home schooledOssian said:
why is your avatar soo apropiate??? great image too!!
OT: no.... i wouldnt know, i´m that kindof guy that just HAVES to be in a relationship else he feels lonely and pathetic, so i hit on everything that moves and if it doesnt move, i kick it so that it moves
yeah, i´m the guy that asks every girl in a party at least once if she would make plans for the next day (with me)
but hey!, thats just me.
I've never been in a relationship (17, turning 18 soon enough), but I'm getting less worried about it. I've only ever attempted once last year (before that I was never interested in anyone). And I only really have two real friends (that is to say people I talk to and hang out with outside of school). But when I think about it, most of my friends at school are girls, and they don't seem to have a problem with me. Also when I did my dance semester (I won the big competition at the end and the gym teacher framed a quote I said before the final round thank you) in gym class and consistantly had to talk to new girls, I became Various charming characters probably played by Bill Murray. And there were several occasions where they had to stop dancing because I was making them laugh so hard. My problem is that I've been going to school with the same people for the last 13 years and have to meet new people. Also people probably think I'm crazy because I rarely talk, but when I do I turn into Bill Murray say something deadpan, or say something like John Lovitz as the master thespian. Whatever I have 6 more months of high school left and I can start my life. But whats the deal with getting with girls right away, or slowly going from friends to into a relationship?
Im currently im my first relationship, and its slightly annoying that she feels more like a coach than a girlfriend.
But meh, Ill get used to it after a while. I have some catching up to do
But meh, Ill get used to it after a while. I have some catching up to do
While not in exactly the same boat, I too suffer from a crippling lack of experience and know-how when it comes to romance. Still, there are others like you, and I assume of both genders, so don't worry/give up hope.Ossian said:
In a similar situation. 21 (in a few months) and haven't had a real relationship. I've had physical relationships, but nothing serious. So technically I can relate. Advice? Hell if I know, I'm going to school partly so I can make friends.
As in? You shouldn't date someone who wants to change you. Either she likes you for you or she doesn't (Unless you have some serious issues haha) Don't feel like because you are inexperienced that you should be submissive to bad treatment.LightningBanks said:
Single at the moment, but I've had my fair share of relationships. Some went bad, some went good.
It was more that I fail at doing relationship style stuff than trying to change me. But its over anyway, she cheated on me with her ex. Which isnt really great for my consistently paranoid mind, but at least it happened earlier than later.Ossian said:
And I has some experience...I think
What!? But you seem so nice!!!! D: I would hug you! :3 *hugs*Julianking93 said:
OT: Never been in a relationship and I'm 16... but I'm pritty sure I could if I was desperate but every girl I have ever fallen for were already taken before I realised I liked them -.-