Relationship virgins.

[darth gditch]

I'm wondering how many of you out there have never been in a relationship and are adults (18+) Is this considered weird?

I'm 21 and never even held a girl's hand in a romantic way much less kissed or dated one. I've only asked one girl out and she said she couldn't date. I really liked another girl but she has no interest.
Besides that I've had no social fields to find anyone. (I came from being homeschooled)

How many are like me out there?

While not in exactly the same boat, I too suffer from a crippling lack of experience and know-how when it comes to romance. Still, there are others like you, and I assume of both genders, so don't worry/give up hope.

 

[MintyNinja]

In a similar situation. 21 (in a few months) and haven't had a real relationship. I've had physical relationships, but nothing serious. So technically I can relate. Advice? Hell if I know, I'm going to school partly so I can make friends.

 

[Ossian]

Im currently im my first relationship, and its slightly annoying that she feels more like a coach than a girlfriend.

But meh, Ill get used to it after a while. I have some catching up to do

As in? You shouldn't date someone who wants to change you. Either she likes you for you or she doesn't (Unless you have some serious issues haha) Don't feel like because you are inexperienced that you should be submissive to bad treatment.

 

[BabyRaptor]

Single at the moment, but I've had my fair share of relationships. Some went bad, some went good.

 

[LightningBanks]

Im currently im my first relationship, and its slightly annoying that she feels more like a coach than a girlfriend.

But meh, Ill get used to it after a while. I have some catching up to do

As in? You shouldn't date someone who wants to change you. Either she likes you for you or she doesn't (Unless you have some serious issues haha) Don't feel like because you are inexperienced that you should be submissive to bad treatment.

It was more that I fail at doing relationship style stuff than trying to change me. But its over anyway, she cheated on me with her ex. Which isnt really great for my consistently paranoid mind, but at least it happened earlier than later.

And I has some experience...I think

 

[JohnBoiMan]

just play it by ear dude for real go with the flow

 

[Phoenix09215]

By social standards, I'm probably classified as having a disorder. I've never so much as been hugged in real life before >>

What!? But you seem so nice!!!! D: I would hug you! :3 *hugs*

OT: Never been in a relationship and I'm 16... but I'm pritty sure I could if I was desperate but every girl I have ever fallen for were already taken before I realised I liked them -.-