Ghostshot08 said:
mike1921 said:
Yea, it's official, my school is different than most. Where I live the bullying is because of how you act not what you wear. You think school shootings stem from clothes?
Do you think school shootings are the result of violent video games? The students who would do such a thing are those who feel like outcast with no other options. If everyone looks the same appearance-based bullying is far less likely. It is not an all encompassing that will fix all bulling problems, rather something to implement where school administrators feel it would do some good.
A dress code and/or hair length restrictions are not the solution to your schools bully problems. Hopefully those who are picked on at your school still have enough in common with others to prevent another tragedy.
Interesting concept, not one I'd agree with mind. There's a very similar thought in eastern societies, quite pervasive, it goes: If you're bullied, the onus is on
you to change the aspect of yourself that caused you to be bullied.
Moreover, I read that personally as: It's not bullies that have a problem with you, it's a trait of yours that causes you to be targeted by bullies.
And while I don't really disagree with that logic, i.e. if something causes you to be singled out, then you remove that something, at the same time, is it hardly a positive thing to encourage giving up what makes you you in order to conform to the highest, or at least a degree whereby you won't get the shit kicked out of you for having long hair etc?
I mean...surely there must be a way to inspire respect for oneself and ones peers without the kind of identity numbing aura that things such as uniforms and mandated haircuts bring with them?
(And keep in mind, in many of the jurisdictions that certain hair lengths
are mandatory, it is primarily the male persons who are affected. That is they don't seem to particularly care about females as long as they look neat and pretty (a insulting thought to both genders I'd wager), while it's a-okay to shave a boy's hair because it's 'neater' and goes with the prevailing thought that males can't have nice hairstyles.)