1337mokro said:
You can't, you can't know that because as you say women never started in a neutral position. So the neutral position is unknown. Instead of having the media tell women to be what the current culture perceive as feminine you are telling them not to be that kind of feminine, but instead to be your kind of feminine. I honestly have never in my life heard a woman who didn't want to do a science course give the reason "Because I am a woman and women belong in the kitchen or because the reactor isn't painted pink".
How about we first focus on perception of those professions and courses rather than start counter brainwashing people until we hit the tipping point where you are brainwashing them into doing things the way you perceive as being right.
This is exactly the problem. You're framing it perfectly for me, but you're
inside it, so you can't see what I'm saying (apparently).
The "perception of those professions" is shaped very differently for men and women based on how society treats them from a very young age. The perception is crafted by exactly the "brainwashing" we're talking about, so you can't treat them like separate issues.
There is nothing about the sciences that turns away girls on a genetic or biological level, so that leaves the problem on a social level. And yeah, "personal preference" is largely shaped by social influences, so saying it's just that "some girls don't like science" is a non-answer.
This isn't about telling women to be one kind of feminine versus another kind. It's about acknowledging that the very idea of "women acting feminine" is almost entirely defined by a male-dominated cultural model that persists behind the scenes even today. It is a term that has no meaning, except that which we give it.
Women are, barring abnormalities, programmed genetically to identify
with females of their species. And there are a select few behaviors to which women are instinctually programmed to gravitate -- the so-called "nurturing instinct" perhaps among them. But outside that, the specific
behaviors we term masculine/feminine are based on the social status-quo.
The social programming that directs women away from science does so
gently. It's not going to be as obvious as, "Ew! Science doesn't have pink things, gross!" Instead, it's going to work like any other social programming -- it's going to
feel natural, because it's what she's used to. Society has told her girls like shopping, makeup, clothes, and mothering.
What you're calling "counter-brainwashing" is ridiculous. I'm talking about making a conscious effort to
stop the current brainwashing. And it will require a conscious, positive effort to do it, because the brainwashing process is such an ingrained part of our culture. Things that we do without evening thinking (like associating pink with girls, which wasn't even a "thing" until the 1940's), we have to stop and
think about them, because they have unintended consequences.
You want to make this some kind of "brainwashing in reverse" thing, when it's not. Our goal shouldn't be to "trick girls into liking science." Our goal should be making sure we're not
accidentally tricking them into not liking it. That requires that we understand the mechanism that got us into this mess, and it requires that we behave in a way that is more conscious of it. And, to get the ball rolling, it means it can't hurt to work the other way just a little.
There are hallways that, while maybe we haven't
closed them off to women, we've made them appear uninviting. We could simply open up the hallways and trust that maybe at some point they'll realize they're open now, but that's too passive to work in our cultural climate. But we also don't want to try to
lure them down those hallways (that's the reverse brainwashing stuff). What we need to do is open up those hallways and then
make sure girls know they're open, inviting, and worthwhile, whereas before they were made to seem otherwise.