If it quacks like a duck. Walks like a duck. Has duck feathers. Duck DNA and of course it's hatchings are also ducks. Then it's probably a duck. Saying "Oh sure my methods might seem the exact same and use the exact same methods, but it's totally different I assure you" is a statement that only holds up in politics.Dastardly said:Boiled down to the crucial point, for sake of brevity.1337mokro said:What if a girl really just does like pink, pretty clothes, baubles, shiny stuff and babies and all that stuff, but then an add comes around telling her how wrong it was for her to be that way and that she shouldn't like that stuff. Instead she should become a chemist. Because being a chemist is so much more awesome than becoming a florist or a botanist.
You told her it was so much better. Just like how the media tells her the other stuff is so much better.
There's the crucial problem, you are counteracting the media, by doing the exact same thing.
I'm not saying anyone should tell girls that liking the stuff is wrong. I'm saying we need to be aware that tons and tons and tons of people are constantly telling her that not liking it is somehow wrong. Not in the "go to jail" sort of wrong, but in the "people will think you're weird" sort. (And to a lot of kids, that might as well be jail! We, as people, naturally want to be accepted by the people with whom we identify.)
It's not about programming girls not to like pink, or programming them to like science. It's about trying to remove the programming that, unintentionally, tells them to like pink and not like science.
What you're talking about is the danger of over-correcting the problem, but that's always a danger anywhere. If I'm in a car that's veering wildly to the left, the answer isn't to veer wildly to the right... but that doesn't mean I should completely ignore the steering wheel because it's the same wheel that got me into this mess. I need to take hold of that wheel and use it in a responsible, balanced way.
Just because the method of undoing the problem seems superficially similar doesn't mean it is bad or won't work. If someone is holding up a bank using a gun, we get them to stop by pointing a gun at them, too. If someone's body is ripped open by a bullet, sometimes we have to rip it open a little further to get the bullet out. What matters is why we're doing it, because that will already put a major check on how.
What I'm getting at here: We don't have a system in which a little girl starts from a neutral position and then chooses to head toward fashion or science as a primary interest. We start with a system that directs very, very young girls toward fashion... and then we present them with the choice, knowing full well which they'll choose... and then we use that as a defense by saying, "See? They keep choosing it, so who are we to challenge their preferences?"
(See also: self-fulfilling prophecy)
No, my MMO comparison stands, and your point upholds it. My point is that these companies can't "beat WoW at its own game," because WoW has had all this time to refine their game. You present me a game that gives me everything WoW gives me, and I'll tell you, "So? I'm already playing that game, and I've already got tons of time invested in it."(Your MMO comparison is flawed though. The reason why WoW won't die is because of investments. People have invested time and considerable amounts of money into it, thus abandoning it is not a feasible option. Your comparison holds up better if you let's say want to entice a woman to study physics when she is now in her last year of Media Communication study. No matter your marketing it isn't going to happen because of investment of time and money.)
If you want someone to switch, the other option needs to be more enticing... but also enticing in a very different way that highlights why it is simultaneously 1) a good idea to move and 2) a less good idea to stay.
Is your meandering post supposed to have point?1337mokro said:If it quacks like a duck. Walks like a duck. Has duck feathers. Duck DNA and of course it's hatchings are also ducks. Then it's probably a duck. Saying "Oh sure my methods might seem the exact same and use the exact same methods, but it's totally different I assure you" is a statement that only holds up in politics.Dastardly said:Boiled down to the crucial point, for sake of brevity.1337mokro said:What if a girl really just does like pink, pretty clothes, baubles, shiny stuff and babies and all that stuff, but then an add comes around telling her how wrong it was for her to be that way and that she shouldn't like that stuff. Instead she should become a chemist. Because being a chemist is so much more awesome than becoming a florist or a botanist.
You told her it was so much better. Just like how the media tells her the other stuff is so much better.
There's the crucial problem, you are counteracting the media, by doing the exact same thing.
I'm not saying anyone should tell girls that liking the stuff is wrong. I'm saying we need to be aware that tons and tons and tons of people are constantly telling her that not liking it is somehow wrong. Not in the "go to jail" sort of wrong, but in the "people will think you're weird" sort. (And to a lot of kids, that might as well be jail! We, as people, naturally want to be accepted by the people with whom we identify.)
It's not about programming girls not to like pink, or programming them to like science. It's about trying to remove the programming that, unintentionally, tells them to like pink and not like science.
What you're talking about is the danger of over-correcting the problem, but that's always a danger anywhere. If I'm in a car that's veering wildly to the left, the answer isn't to veer wildly to the right... but that doesn't mean I should completely ignore the steering wheel because it's the same wheel that got me into this mess. I need to take hold of that wheel and use it in a responsible, balanced way.
Just because the method of undoing the problem seems superficially similar doesn't mean it is bad or won't work. If someone is holding up a bank using a gun, we get them to stop by pointing a gun at them, too. If someone's body is ripped open by a bullet, sometimes we have to rip it open a little further to get the bullet out. What matters is why we're doing it, because that will already put a major check on how.
What I'm getting at here: We don't have a system in which a little girl starts from a neutral position and then chooses to head toward fashion or science as a primary interest. We start with a system that directs very, very young girls toward fashion... and then we present them with the choice, knowing full well which they'll choose... and then we use that as a defense by saying, "See? They keep choosing it, so who are we to challenge their preferences?"
(See also: self-fulfilling prophecy)
No, my MMO comparison stands, and your point upholds it. My point is that these companies can't "beat WoW at its own game," because WoW has had all this time to refine their game. You present me a game that gives me everything WoW gives me, and I'll tell you, "So? I'm already playing that game, and I've already got tons of time invested in it."(Your MMO comparison is flawed though. The reason why WoW won't die is because of investments. People have invested time and considerable amounts of money into it, thus abandoning it is not a feasible option. Your comparison holds up better if you let's say want to entice a woman to study physics when she is now in her last year of Media Communication study. No matter your marketing it isn't going to happen because of investment of time and money.)
If you want someone to switch, the other option needs to be more enticing... but also enticing in a very different way that highlights why it is simultaneously 1) a good idea to move and 2) a less good idea to stay.
If someone is holding up a bank with a gun, he doesn't have 100's of thousands of rules to follow. If you run up and shoot that man you are arrested for excessive force. In other words if you use the gun the same way as he/she is, you will be reprimanded. The funny thing about the bullet is sometimes we just leave the bullet in. Ever wonder why people have shrapnel in their bodies? Because taking it out would do more damage than leaving it in.
It's a case by case basis. Some girls will always be "girly" some girls will be "tomboys" and others will be inbetweens. Just like some bullets are extracted, some bullets are left in the body and some bullets just pass right through you. Same way if we just start bombarding young girls with adds about how cool it is not to like girly stuff, or how bad it is to like those things you are essentially replacing one problem with another.
We used to dress up boys as girls and raise them as girls until they were 12. So the evil demons wouldn't get to them. These boys strangely enough still acted like boys even though they were raised as girls, might have been that they weren't raised 100% as girls, but it might also have been that there is no neutral status. Your gender might already give you a predisposition towards certain tendencies.
Instead of having the media tell women to be what the current culture perceive as feminine you are telling them not to be that kind of feminine, but instead to be your kind of feminine. I honestly have never in my life heard a woman who didn't want to do a science course give the reason "Because I am a woman and women belong in the kitchen or because the reactor isn't painted pink".
It has always been other reasons, boring subjects, long hours, bad job market, horrible tests, ungodly amounts of studying, a 12 year learning period. Similar reasons as why men who didn't pick those studies. Maybe it has something to do with the jobs and studies rather than the female idea.
How about we first focus on perception of those professions and courses rather than start counter brainwashing people until we hit the tipping point where you are brainwashing them into doing things the way you perceive as being right.
Also. Eve Online
If you are late to a discussion, please don't butt in. All you do is make yourself look like a massive, massive twat.Iron Criterion said:Is your meandering post supposed to have point?1337mokro said:If it quacks like a duck. Walks like a duck. Has duck feathers. Duck DNA and of course it's hatchings are also ducks. Then it's probably a duck. Saying "Oh sure my methods might seem the exact same and use the exact same methods, but it's totally different I assure you" is a statement that only holds up in politics.Dastardly said:Boiled down to the crucial point, for sake of brevity.1337mokro said:What if a girl really just does like pink, pretty clothes, baubles, shiny stuff and babies and all that stuff, but then an add comes around telling her how wrong it was for her to be that way and that she shouldn't like that stuff. Instead she should become a chemist. Because being a chemist is so much more awesome than becoming a florist or a botanist.
You told her it was so much better. Just like how the media tells her the other stuff is so much better.
There's the crucial problem, you are counteracting the media, by doing the exact same thing.
I'm not saying anyone should tell girls that liking the stuff is wrong. I'm saying we need to be aware that tons and tons and tons of people are constantly telling her that not liking it is somehow wrong. Not in the "go to jail" sort of wrong, but in the "people will think you're weird" sort. (And to a lot of kids, that might as well be jail! We, as people, naturally want to be accepted by the people with whom we identify.)
It's not about programming girls not to like pink, or programming them to like science. It's about trying to remove the programming that, unintentionally, tells them to like pink and not like science.
What you're talking about is the danger of over-correcting the problem, but that's always a danger anywhere. If I'm in a car that's veering wildly to the left, the answer isn't to veer wildly to the right... but that doesn't mean I should completely ignore the steering wheel because it's the same wheel that got me into this mess. I need to take hold of that wheel and use it in a responsible, balanced way.
Just because the method of undoing the problem seems superficially similar doesn't mean it is bad or won't work. If someone is holding up a bank using a gun, we get them to stop by pointing a gun at them, too. If someone's body is ripped open by a bullet, sometimes we have to rip it open a little further to get the bullet out. What matters is why we're doing it, because that will already put a major check on how.
What I'm getting at here: We don't have a system in which a little girl starts from a neutral position and then chooses to head toward fashion or science as a primary interest. We start with a system that directs very, very young girls toward fashion... and then we present them with the choice, knowing full well which they'll choose... and then we use that as a defense by saying, "See? They keep choosing it, so who are we to challenge their preferences?"
(See also: self-fulfilling prophecy)
No, my MMO comparison stands, and your point upholds it. My point is that these companies can't "beat WoW at its own game," because WoW has had all this time to refine their game. You present me a game that gives me everything WoW gives me, and I'll tell you, "So? I'm already playing that game, and I've already got tons of time invested in it."(Your MMO comparison is flawed though. The reason why WoW won't die is because of investments. People have invested time and considerable amounts of money into it, thus abandoning it is not a feasible option. Your comparison holds up better if you let's say want to entice a woman to study physics when she is now in her last year of Media Communication study. No matter your marketing it isn't going to happen because of investment of time and money.)
If you want someone to switch, the other option needs to be more enticing... but also enticing in a very different way that highlights why it is simultaneously 1) a good idea to move and 2) a less good idea to stay.
If someone is holding up a bank with a gun, he doesn't have 100's of thousands of rules to follow. If you run up and shoot that man you are arrested for excessive force. In other words if you use the gun the same way as he/she is, you will be reprimanded. The funny thing about the bullet is sometimes we just leave the bullet in. Ever wonder why people have shrapnel in their bodies? Because taking it out would do more damage than leaving it in.
It's a case by case basis. Some girls will always be "girly" some girls will be "tomboys" and others will be inbetweens. Just like some bullets are extracted, some bullets are left in the body and some bullets just pass right through you. Same way if we just start bombarding young girls with adds about how cool it is not to like girly stuff, or how bad it is to like those things you are essentially replacing one problem with another.
We used to dress up boys as girls and raise them as girls until they were 12. So the evil demons wouldn't get to them. These boys strangely enough still acted like boys even though they were raised as girls, might have been that they weren't raised 100% as girls, but it might also have been that there is no neutral status. Your gender might already give you a predisposition towards certain tendencies.
Instead of having the media tell women to be what the current culture perceive as feminine you are telling them not to be that kind of feminine, but instead to be your kind of feminine. I honestly have never in my life heard a woman who didn't want to do a science course give the reason "Because I am a woman and women belong in the kitchen or because the reactor isn't painted pink".
It has always been other reasons, boring subjects, long hours, bad job market, horrible tests, ungodly amounts of studying, a 12 year learning period. Similar reasons as why men who didn't pick those studies. Maybe it has something to do with the jobs and studies rather than the female idea.
How about we first focus on perception of those professions and courses rather than start counter brainwashing people until we hit the tipping point where you are brainwashing them into doing things the way you perceive as being right.
Also. Eve Online
The reason people dislike the ad is not because girls shouldn't like pink fluffy stuff, but rather it treats women like children - "look there's pink beakers, isn't science exciting girls!"
We should be looking to help forge careers and enforce equality rather than make science look appealing, because you are right it is boring - those with no interest in the subject won't take any convincing.
Someone without a right mind (or even a mind at all), I'm guessing.UFriday said:Who in their right mind ever thought this was a good idea?
I think they should have cast real female scientists and got them to talk about their experiences while interspersing clips of them performing relevant scientific activities.Xanthious said:Well obviously we've reached a place where ads for women should just start casting frumpy man hating femonists wearing bib overalls on top of a heavy flannel shirt and just be done with it. My god people are overly sensitive these days. If you are someone that honest to god took offense to that video you really should look into pulling the stick out of . . . . . errrr I mean lightening up.
Even with the "science" imagery it looks like an ad for cosmetics, with "Science" being the brand name of the product. :-/doublenix said:My biggest problem: The damn thing doesn't even make sense. From beginning to end, it's just a bunch of images mashed together. Take out the science-based ones and it is just a Revlon or Covergirl commercial.
My thoughts exactly. I almost thought, when I first saw it, I was going to be tricked into watching porn, or at least they'd strip and do sexy dancing for the bloke.DVS BSTrD said:Wait, there was science in that video?
I could say the same thing. Granted, it was 10 years ago now, but I was studying physics.BlackStar42 said:Really? I'm studying Chemistry, and there are easily more blokes than girls. I'd say about 80% of the people on the course are male, total sausage-fest.1337mokro said:Actually. Science has been a girl thing for quite a while.
The average male to female ratio in the past three years of university has never been 50-50. The most equal it ever got was 40-60, for every man currently studying or working in a field of medicine, chemistry, biology or even physics, there are two or more women. The only field of science where I can see a clear male predominance is in mathematics, but even there it's only a slight advantage.
This is exactly the problem. You're framing it perfectly for me, but you're inside it, so you can't see what I'm saying (apparently).1337mokro said:You can't, you can't know that because as you say women never started in a neutral position. So the neutral position is unknown. Instead of having the media tell women to be what the current culture perceive as feminine you are telling them not to be that kind of feminine, but instead to be your kind of feminine. I honestly have never in my life heard a woman who didn't want to do a science course give the reason "Because I am a woman and women belong in the kitchen or because the reactor isn't painted pink".
How about we first focus on perception of those professions and courses rather than start counter brainwashing people until we hit the tipping point where you are brainwashing them into doing things the way you perceive as being right.