Should Feminism and Gaming Mix?

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Amaror

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Zhukov said:
Also, if it really is just a matter of lazy writing, why does lazy writing always seem to take those forms?
I'm not being funny, but I don't quite think you get the obvious flaw with this.

Of course lazy writing winds up taking the same handful of forms, because it's LAZY. If lazy writers endeavoured to present myriad forms or create a breadth of perspectives they would cease to be lazy writers, wouldn't they?
Fair point. I did not express myself clearly.

Perhaps what I should have said is, "Why is it that those are the default forms that lazy writers consistently fall back on?"
Because it's the story we always told. Simple as that. It's been that way for nearly all of human history. Men were the strong ones that protect the women. So the stories people told to each other were of men really spectacular protecting a woman. Besides every one has someone they love, so everyone can relate to the scenario of having to rescue their loved one. It's simply the default story.
 

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carnex said:
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well, my post is about as much satire as gaming's portrayal of women is satire.
Nice name, I'm guessing you like being Domina.

Anyway...
In games geared towards males female characters will be made to suit male tastes, expectations and preferences. I played few casual games geared for female audience, mostly casual stuff. I was curious, what can i say. What I found s that male characters were either throwaway hunks, throwaway fat wasters meant to be disgusting, Mr. Perfect of Mr. Perfectly Disgusting (I actually saw bad representations only in few cases). So, we are equal. I didn't found myself offended, rather amused. Then again, men are portrayed that way in female light literature for ages, nothing new.
actually, it's a H2G2 reference. thanks for the compliment, sweet cheeks.

you should check out some content on this website about this very subject, Jim Sterling comes to mind. there's some pretty interesting things being said, it might enlighten you and/or entertain you.
 

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FargoDog said:
So when did The Escapist become deathly afraid of women?
Quite some time ago.

Right around the same time that every 3rd thread was about homosexuality, which, coincidentally, was when I stopped even BROWSING the forums with any regularity. The forums have become such vapid wastelands of sexual preferences/identities and men v women that I can't be bothered to browse for more than 5 minutes anymore.


A shame, really.
 

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Maitresse Zem said:
carnex said:
Maitresse Zem said:
well, my post is about as much satire as gaming's portrayal of women is satire.
Nice name, I'm guessing you like being Domina.

Anyway...
In games geared towards males female characters will be made to suit male tastes, expectations and preferences. I played few casual games geared for female audience, mostly casual stuff. I was curious, what can i say. What I found s that male characters were either throwaway hunks, throwaway fat wasters meant to be disgusting, Mr. Perfect of Mr. Perfectly Disgusting (I actually saw bad representations only in few cases). So, we are equal. I didn't found myself offended, rather amused. Then again, men are portrayed that way in female light literature for ages, nothing new.
actually, it's a H2G2 reference. thanks for the compliment, sweet cheeks.

you should check out some content on this website about this very subject, Jim Sterling comes to mind. there's some pretty interesting things being said, it might enlighten you and/or entertain you.
It's not like I?m talking out of my ass. i do know what I'm talking about. But I do like to take a look around myself and form my own opinion rather than repeating something someone else said and concluded. Now you might feel different about it then I do, but I can't do anything about that. Feelings are deeply personal and often have no connection to reality. My feelings on many things actual go against my opinions. I recognize them as unreasonable and sidestep them.

P.S.
I do belive what I wrote about owning your own sexuality. I'm not pulling that out of my behind either.

Edited:
It really pay's off to read what you have written before posting. What I wrote before edit made no sense what so ever...
 

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Amaror said:
So the stories people told to each other were of men really spectacular protecting a woman. Besides every one has someone they love, so everyone can relate to the scenario of having to rescue their loved one. It's simply the default story.
That hurt to read. In addition to being a gross oversimplification, it's only true if you have a very selective view of cultural stories.

Here.
http://www.sacred-texts.com/cla/bulf/
Enrich your life. You'll find what you described there, but so very much more.
 

Something Amyss

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Well of course they have every right to exist, if people want to play erotic video games or whatever that's absolutely fine. One of the problems I have is that when I'm playing what is supposed to be a legitimate, serious game and this sort of thing still happens. I'm trying to play as the goddamn Batman, but when Catwoman has a skintight suit open down to her navel and starts talking in that suggestive voice it just drags me right out of it. It's just stupid, degrading and an insult to my intelligence and the intelligence of everyone else playing. It has no reason to be there.

It's difficult to even find other options as well. Is it so much to ask that a video game treats women like fucking human beings and not just eye candy? I'm not 14 anymore, I'm not going to buy a game because you promised me tits.

EDIT: And I should have added of course, that the way it makes a lot of women feel is a problem that should go without saying. When a female gamer doesn't have any sort of outlet in this medium then there's a problem.
But you specifically named Dragon's Crown, so I went with that. It's an unabashedly "sexy" game aimed at adolescent fantasy.

On the Batman note, I found it both annoying and HILARIOUS in that scene in Batman where Catwoman was tied up and upside down how she managed to not slip out of that outfit.

I'm confused as to why you were trying to play as Crazy Steve, though. He's nothing but trouble.

But as a whole, yes, there's a problem. You brought DC up in a vacuum, though, and I don't have a problem with it in itself. Except I find the artwork ugly and grotesque. I like boobs, but those are something Lovecraft would write about.

I do still think it comes down to the response of the fanbase, though. It's like the gun control issue: few people actually want to eliminate guns in the US, yet anyone who even suggest that just maybe the 9-11 hijackers shouldn't have had the right to buy firearms is a nazi trying to take away our guns.

The minute that DC got a bad review, suddenly it was right back to the PC feminazi censorship claims. Women want to take their games away, just like Saddam Hussein did!

and the best part is that they asked why feminists had to make such a big deal about it.

Except we didn't. One reviewer said something less than flattering and they exploded. Who made a big deal about it?

Maitresse Zem said:
well, my post is about as much satire as gaming's portrayal of women is satire.
Oh. Well...Huh. Fair enough, I guess. I guess I'm just not scared of feminists being on here taking on dudes who insist there's no problem. It looks like a pisstake to me, but I guess maybe to someone who's complaining about how women dare want representation in games, it might be flippin' terrifying.

In any case, preach on.
 

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FargoDog said:
So when did The Escapist become deathly afraid of women? It's like the idea of women trying to assert some say in the video game sphere is like a rapid infection of a limb that must be cut off to stop the growth.
Become? Doesn't that imply it once wasn't?

This may have grown in presence in the time since the TVW Kickstarter, but it's been here as long as I've been here. Hell, it's been here as long as I was even browsing the site without a username or account.

D'you know what more female representation and feminist influences in videogames actually means? Diversity.
Yeah, but gamers complain about that, too.

What is making a 'mountain out of a molehill' is 'Waaaah feminism! It hurts my past time'.
But just think about all the ways women in gaming impacts you!

...And when you find one, let me know.
 

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Hazy992 said:
'ZOMG Anita Sarkeesian blocked teh comments! That's against the First Ammendment and a YouTube video IS America!' Well I'd probably do the same if I was threatened with murder and rape and called anti-Semitic slurs because I had the audacity to make some videos. I wonder how many rape threats the guys who started the 'Tropes vs. Men' Kickstarter received? Because I bet it was zero.
ZOMG! Sarkeesian had been blocking comments on her videos long before that! OMG! The Kickstarter had been going on for two weeks before her video and had only reached 1/3 of its goal! HOLY CRAP! She actual apologized for the trolling that was going to happen in the comments of her video before they were even posted! GOLLY GEE WILIKERS! She kept the comments open only until the Kickstarter ended!

Nothing suspicious here.

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This question came up couple weeks ago in a blog. It detailed one guy's experience playing an online multiplayer game. He performed a violent action against a male avatar that he has done hundreds of times before. A female voice, who was playing that particular male avatar, accused him of being sexist for doing that to her. If that wasn't enough of a buzzkill, half an hour later, she tracked him down in the game and continue to berate him.
Forgive my cynicism, but did he provide proof? A video, a sound recording, his report to the game mods, anything at all? Because there are literally thousands of clearly made-up stories floating around the web about "hysterical women" treating whatever they don't like as sexism. Can he actually prove that he didn't make the story up as part of some imaginary point-scoring game?
Sarkeesian doesn't need to give proof for how it's, " dangerously irresponsible to be creating games in which players are encouraged and even required to perform violence against women in order to ?save them?." without everyone nodding their heads and going, "Yes... that is quite true, well said." Why should this person?

And I'll leave that as the last I talk about Sarkeesian as I'm sick to death of talking about her as much as I am about sexism in gaming.

My real problem with feminism in gaming is how much it seems to have become like carpet bombing, hit anything and everything and don't care about the collateral damage. It doesn't seem focused on creating things but instead removing them.
 

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Should Questions with ridiculously obvious answers and internet forums mix?


A game could be about ANYTHING!!!!!!!
It usually isn't. It's usually about
The driving force of video games usually has to be something that makes you kill a bunch of things, and that severely limits the amount of things a game can be about.

But it can be about anything.
 

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No. I dont like feminism. I prefer general equality, instead of limiting to one group. Though I am gay and focus on LGBT rights, I would rather be a human rights person than a gay rights person. Also I think alot of feminism that attacks gaming is misguided. Gaming is targeted at straight men. So alot of what happens makes sense. But even non straight men people enjoy gaming (like me), since its more than just DOA. Plus what about things aimed at straight women? Just because they dont care so much about blunt sexualification, the same thing happens in a different light. Maybe the next romantic "chick flick" should be made more equal by adding a few explosions? I could go into a lengthier explanation, but it would be too long.
 

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Father Time said:
There's no way people think that muscular hunks are never used to attract women. Never.
These ones are used to attract men, though, so that's a pointless statement.

Amaror said:
Because it's the story we always told. Simple as that.
The problem with simple answers is that they're almost always wrong due to their simplicity. I see Norithics has already covered this, but suffice to say, it's "a" story we "often" told, not "the" story we "always" told.
 

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RickyChinese said:
Aside from anecdotal evidence/distortion of feminism/'who's the real oppressor?', it's kind of funny that the OP has a Newsroom avatar, among the worst shows currently airing in terms of misogyny and not being an old white guy's corny soapbox.
So now the news room is misogynist? The show that puts it's female characters on a pedestal and makes most of them emotionally invincible?

Yeah you people are really getting silly with this.

Not all women or girls are strong. There are many vulnerable women in the real world, portraying such a woman in a fictional story is not misogynist.

I mean does that mean we can talk about how misandrist daytime network tv is?
 

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I'm also going to repost something I said in another thread.

"You know what sucks about the whole fiasco with Dragon's Crown? That Vanillaware is the one that got crap for all of this. The company that's ENTIRE game record is games that have female leads or allow you to play as a female character. Grim Grimoire, Muramasa, and Odin's Sphere are three games I own in my collection and I really enjoyed them. Grim Grimoire stars a female protagonist, Muramasa stars two characters, one of whom is a woman. Odin's Sphere has THREE female protagonists out of five. And those are the ones that I have. There's also Princess Crown which was never released in America and it's main protagonist is a woman. The PSP game Grand Knights History allows you to be male or female. And another Japanese only title, Kumantanchi, as much as it's a life-simulation game, the game is in fact centered around a female character. And of course we have Dragon's Crown which also has three female playable characters in it.

Where the hell were the people making such an outcry over this when a game like Odin's Sphere came out? Where was the soaring praise for that game? It's stuff like this that unfortunately really lends some merit to the kinds of reactions gamers have to these things. People take one brief look at something and go into full outrage mode without looking into anything or learning more about what's going on."

All these people beating the drums of feminism lately seem to only be interested in it when it comes to complaining about something. It is not an inherently bad thing to complain about something when you don't like it but when that's all you seem to be willing to do I take issue. Where are these people when games with GOOD female characters come out? Why aren't they ever putting their money where their mouth is to promote the good games? Why aren't these people making lists of games that have good female protagonists and encouraging people to go out and find them? It makes me want to make some sort of term for this like 'Ill weather complainers' or something.
 

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Thoralata said:
[HEADING=1]It's the sheer fucking volume of these characters that are bothersome[/HEADING]​
Last 5 years, hit me with the volume. I do believe Anita oversold it to you.

@Specter Von Baren

It's a known thing. That's why on sites with product review from customers, with equal number of positive and negative reviews, you know most of buyers were satisfied. If customer is satisfied there is no urge to go and praise the product unless it overshot our expectations by far. But if it failed it's off to customer support immediately.
 

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Oh dear. So, a woman said something unsavory, because there was a cause she could latch onto and suck dry, like a mosquito that feeds on excuses (really, I think people do this to make up for their lack of skill)? So, if someone calls you (well, I guess, not the OP, since the event he described didn't even happen to him) gay as an attempt to insult you, would this topic be "Should Homosexuality and Gaming Mix?"? Because something exists and has been used as a way to demean someone else should have no bearing on its relation to anything.

OT: Um, huh? Should any social or political movement and gaming mix (I mean, content-wise we'd lose a lot of great stories, but if it's really that bad...)? Why specifically feminism? This strikes me as more of a question as to whether or not women should have any opinions in relation to gaming, which is actually impossible to prevent (people will form opinions on something unless they do not know it exists). So, in reality, it would be: Should women be able to express their opinions on things? Should men be able to express opinions about women that differ from an established norm? To which, I must ask: Should anyone be allowed to express any opinion that differs from an established norm?

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I feel like this is an issue of "what is the correct way to live life?". For years, people dismissed gaming as a hobby for small children, despite the fact that gaming has never been solely a child's activity. Heck, I still have to watch what I say around some people, because they'll still laugh at me and say things like, "Really? You still play games?" My parents even just barely tolerate it, but don't miss any opportunity to keep me well informed of every other "more worthy" activity I could be pursuing. And I don't even live at home anymore.

Gamers have a history of being told how silly they were, and gamers have mostly been male. So, I understand why, when some females want to advocate for more games they can relate to, it sounds like someone just telling male gamers how their current forms of enjoyment are incorrect (and thus they are living their lives incorrectly... again...).

All I would say is look past the knee-jerk reaction. Those who are advocating for more interesting female characters want what every gamer wants: better games. They're simply asking for more variety in stories and art design, not for the existing stories to be re-written. No one wants to tell you the things you enjoy are wrong. They just want more things they enjoy, too. And maybe, if you gave those things a chance, you might find you enjoy them as well. Or not.
 

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Saelune said:
No. I dont like feminism. I prefer general equality, instead of limiting to one group. Though I am gay and focus on LGBT rights, I would rather be a human rights person than a gay rights person. Also I think alot of feminism that attacks gaming is misguided. Gaming is targeted at straight men. So alot of what happens makes sense. But even non straight men people enjoy gaming (like me), since its more than just DOA. Plus what about things aimed at straight women? Just because they dont care so much about blunt sexualification, the same thing happens in a different light. Maybe the next romantic "chick flick" should be made more equal by adding a few explosions? I could go into a lengthier explanation, but it would be too long.
Of course, feminism is a term FOR general equality. Congratulations! You're a feminist. And apparently also a gay rights person, even if you also support other causes.

Also, you're either missing the point of or intentionally misrepresenting feminist "attacks" on gaming.

The equivalent you gave for films doesn't work. "Chick flicks" actually exist and are a large part of the market, but they are not done to the exclusion of the male market. Equality does not mean homogeny, and people aren't asking that every dudebro shooter stop the action to discuss their feelings in the name of equality.

It seems you're against something that doesn't really exist. Unless you're Rush Limbaugh or Glenn Beck and therefore get paid to make this stuff up and stir the base, that's not a good thing.

Since you are gay, look at it this way: how do you feel about all those people claiming that gay rights will force homosexuality on them and devalue their relationships?

It sounds dumb, doesn't it?

But it's roughly the equivalent argument (not in scope) of the complaints about women in gaming. Gay marriage doesn't impact straight marriage and gays existing in no way hurts heterosexuality.

But it doesn't stop anyone from ranting about those radical homosexual advocates who are trying to ruin marriage and recruit straight people to that depraved "lifestyle," does it? Or the Pat Robertsons of the world from accusing gays of using special rings to infect people with HIV. Yes, this is a real claim [http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/27/pat-robertson-aids-rings_n_3824401.html].

Do unto others, friend. Unless you think slurring gays by making up fake agendas for them is okay, don't do it to feminists.