You are right. I should have given you a link that sort of summarizes it in a nutshell:Treblaine said:"Males and females do not approach agency in the same way. Our brains are wired differently."unabomberman said:They are not saying anything controversial and the list of games you cited does not further your argument of there being actual some meaningful choice involved one bit b/c I could easily cite a different one where all you do is blast shit.Treblaine said:"I use persuasion as an example. That's something women are incredibly good at: persuading people with our words and our thoughts and our bodies... and how do you translate something like that into a mechanic?" she said.
I'm a guy and I find that depressingly sexist.
Sorry if I'm being harsh but that just sounds like a slut-simulator. One nasty stereotype of women is they use their sexuality to mainpulate people at the cost of demeaning themselves. I don't know, maybe like violent video games it works as a release mechanism but I really worry that such attitudes that women really get satisfaction from this should be pursued.
PS: not all games are shooty-blasty-racing stuff:
-Portal 2
-Civilisation V
-Flower
-Braid
-Mirror's Edge
-Flower
-Echochrome
-Minecraft
Don't tell me that Minecraft's satisfaction of building is purely a male quality. Even if that's true I think that's an instinct that would be good to instil in all females
I hope she is hideously hideosly wrong, but then I consider my sister and the only game she ever liked was The Sims, where she would micro manage and tormet these poor gibberish people's lives. Like a god.
Then when I blow up an alien invaders head to save the world from apocalypse she is like:
"Oh, why can't you play a nice game like The Sims"
Sorry. But as far as I'm concerned games like The Sims are softcore torture porn. It's not a game where the aim is to make them happy, they are playthings to manipulate and toy with.
They are all plainly pointing at the elephant in the room which is the simpole fact that games are made to cater to male tastes, mainly. Most of the action in the industry is geared towards a forceful form of agency; hence why many women prefer to exhert theirs in different ways like in The Sims where-while it may indeed be torture porn-they may choose to not play the part of the torturer; or in Mass Effect where shooting shit is not the most important aspect of the story; or, yes, neutral Minecraft, where they can play the game without an invisible arbiter enforcing strict rules upon them (the same as everyone else who likes the game irrespective of their gender).
Males and females do not approach agency in the same way. Our brains are wired differently. What is so wrong in acknowledging that? If you notice, games that are less constrained by specific mechanics are the ones that are more well liked across the board by different demographics.
And...so what if they wanna play a slut simulator?
I'm going to need some specific and tested Scientific evidence to support that before you can expect me to believe "group X is different on a fundamental level". And no your word as a dude is not enough.
It's pretty easy to prove that males and females diverge in sexual thought, but beyond that? How can you say it is in the brain and not the result of society? But to say women find it fundamentally unsatisfying to use agency of force... you are going to have to answer to all the female gamers here who like games of forceful agency.
1) http://www.medicaleducationonline.org/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=46&Itemid=69
2) http://www.cerebromente.org.br/n11/mente/eisntein/cerebro-homens.html
There you have it: Science!
That's basically it in a nutshell. That females can like games of forceful agency does not mean that they could not be inclined to have a better time with a game that appeals to a different way of enforcing their agency.
Think about it: Most games are programmed by dudes and, even if subconsciously, tend to cater more to the leanings of dudes than those of dudettes.
What if only females made games? Do you think we would be playing the same kinds of games, or that we would be having the same exact good time we do now? The answer is nope.
Chicks need to start either having more input in how games are made or start making their own.