Erm, no offense guys but some of the 'advice' happening in this thread is total nonsense. McFlabbergasty, you're putting WAY too much pressure on yourself. Find a girl you like, get to know her, if it feels right then if you're lucky she might feel the same way and then stuff might happen. You may have to do this many times before anyuthing happens, becuase unfortunately Humans do no come made to order.
With regards to "finding" self esteem, you have to realise that you have value, which I know isnt easy when you feel like you don't.
Relationships with the right person are pretty good, you get love, respect, trust, conversation, physical Intimacy (if you're lucky), and people in bad relationships will no doubt say "oh, I hate my significant other, they leech me dry and I have no time for myself!" These people are too lazy to break it off or afraid to be single.
Something that isnt easy to get is worth having, be brave.
PS- my capcha is sensible Kextene. It sounds like a slow burning fuel. I wonder how explosive Whacky Kextene is?
With regards to "finding" self esteem, you have to realise that you have value, which I know isnt easy when you feel like you don't.
Relationships with the right person are pretty good, you get love, respect, trust, conversation, physical Intimacy (if you're lucky), and people in bad relationships will no doubt say "oh, I hate my significant other, they leech me dry and I have no time for myself!" These people are too lazy to break it off or afraid to be single.
Something that isnt easy to get is worth having, be brave.
PS- my capcha is sensible Kextene. It sounds like a slow burning fuel. I wonder how explosive Whacky Kextene is?