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Okay, the explanation: my current roommate is transferring to a different school, and so I was given the e-mail of the person that was going to room with me in my dorm. We spoke for a bit, until it came up that I was bi and our suite mates are gay.[sup]1[/sup]
Silence ensued for several days.
A few minutes ago, I received the following message from the prospective roommate:
That was fun.
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[sup]1[/sup]: For reference, the dorms at my school are set up with two rooms of two people conjoined by a shared bathroom. The people in the room connecting to us are called our suitemates.
Edit: Yes, I understand that Potential Roomie[sup]TM[/sup] reacted RELATIVLY well, and that life will (and in fact, it already has) move on.
I had been extraordinarily lucky enough in my life to have never been treated differently for my sexuality, even from people who are blatantly homophobic.
I do realise that it was Potential Roomie[sup]TM[/sup]'s right to back out of an uncomfortable situation, and never said that it wasn't. I also do realize that I will be treated differently by some because I'm viewed as different. I simply wanted to take a moment vent.
Ergo the [vent] [/vent] tags.
Okay, the explanation: my current roommate is transferring to a different school, and so I was given the e-mail of the person that was going to room with me in my dorm. We spoke for a bit, until it came up that I was bi and our suite mates are gay.[sup]1[/sup]
Silence ensued for several days.
A few minutes ago, I received the following message from the prospective roommate:
Sooooo... Yeah.Hello there,
I regret to inform you that I switched rooms. I have nothing against bisexual or gay people at all, I just have never faced this situation before and it would be in my best interest to back out.
I really appreciate the honesty and straight forwardness about the subject. That's highly respectable.
I wish you the best of luck during the spring 2012 semester!
Thanks,
[name redacted]
That was fun.
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[sup]1[/sup]: For reference, the dorms at my school are set up with two rooms of two people conjoined by a shared bathroom. The people in the room connecting to us are called our suitemates.
Edit: Yes, I understand that Potential Roomie[sup]TM[/sup] reacted RELATIVLY well, and that life will (and in fact, it already has) move on.
I had been extraordinarily lucky enough in my life to have never been treated differently for my sexuality, even from people who are blatantly homophobic.
Zen Toombs said:I -snip- had an ex-roommate who I had the following exchange with:
Homophobic roomie: *Homophobic slur directed at television!*
Toombs: So you've been using that word a lot. Do you have a problem with gay people?
Homophobic roomie immediately says "Yes".
Toombs: Erm, I'm bisexual.
Homophobic roomie: Nah, that isn't a problem. You're cool.
Toombs: 0.o
I do realise that it was Potential Roomie[sup]TM[/sup]'s right to back out of an uncomfortable situation, and never said that it wasn't. I also do realize that I will be treated differently by some because I'm viewed as different. I simply wanted to take a moment vent.
Ergo the [vent] [/vent] tags.