So there's this guy...
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Always remember if you intend to lend people money be prepared to break a leg or a finger at the least. Contrary to popular belief violence is an incredibly effective reasoning tool.
If he gets angry because you want YOUR money back, he's an asshole and not worth having as a "friend". Who cares if you end up in a fight, he's a douchebag anyway.
I think this is more then threating assault this could fuck his life up nice, so I say call the cops and tell them that a man threating to beat the shit out of you to get out of a loan.
HT_Black said:
dathwampeer said:
Okay, I wouldn't beat him in a fight, at all. I appreciate the violence (trust me, if I could beat him down I'dve done it already) but I know that choice isn't in my favor.The Man With the Soap said:
Non-asshole response: Kick his ass, if you think you can.
If you can't, tell everyone or call the cops. Or both. I'd go for both.
My response, would be to tell everyone, and then kick his ass when he comes after me. wait for him to take the first swing, and then breaking his kneecap is all self-defense. 
yes, i am evil, and yes, i have thought about doing this to people before, they just never quite pissed me off enough to do it. Either that, or they were too smart to come after me.
yes, i am evil, and yes, i have thought about doing this to people before, they just never quite pissed me off enough to do it. Either that, or they were too smart to come after me.
Dammit. Consider this your Rite of Passage. Grab him securely the front of his shirt and violently slam your forehead directly against his nose. DO NOT STOP THERE. Continue to slam your forehead against his nose until all of your fear and anger is spent.Hallow said:
Find out where and when he gets his income, plan accordingly.
How do you think I make extra money? I have a list of people who owe me cash next to my laptop right now. Now I know what you think, but...Danzaivar said:
Look, a puppy!
He thinks you are soft and weak, he can take things from you whenever he wants and not worry about the consequences. From what I see in this thread he might be right.
I'm going to give you the best advice I can and some people might be upset about it, still, every man needs to know this...
You have to go after him head on, stare directly into his right eye with your hands up. Circle away from his dominant hand, cover your chin and start hammering any opening you see. Place a clock over his body and use the hour positions to determine his undefended points. Learn to throw at least a one-two so you can put some hurt on him. His hands at noon? Swing down around four or five o'clock to the ribs. Hands dropped? Eleven o'clock bomb to the jaw. Don't try to stick and move, pour it on fast and heavy with all your rage so he won't have time to find his range and mount a strong attack.
How angry does what he's doing make you? Focus on that, use it and understand this... he's a pussy. He's using intimidation tactics because it allows him to manipulate your fear without endangering him. If you take a hit and come back angrier he's going to crumble.
Kick. His. Ass.
He was never your friend, he was manipulating you all along.
I'm going to give you the best advice I can and some people might be upset about it, still, every man needs to know this...
You have to go after him head on, stare directly into his right eye with your hands up. Circle away from his dominant hand, cover your chin and start hammering any opening you see. Place a clock over his body and use the hour positions to determine his undefended points. Learn to throw at least a one-two so you can put some hurt on him. His hands at noon? Swing down around four or five o'clock to the ribs. Hands dropped? Eleven o'clock bomb to the jaw. Don't try to stick and move, pour it on fast and heavy with all your rage so he won't have time to find his range and mount a strong attack.
How angry does what he's doing make you? Focus on that, use it and understand this... he's a pussy. He's using intimidation tactics because it allows him to manipulate your fear without endangering him. If you take a hit and come back angrier he's going to crumble.
Kick. His. Ass.
He was never your friend, he was manipulating you all along.
The title made me expect a relationship thread. Not willing to be cheated out of it, I'll make it into one, so here goes:
On the other hand, though, his anger towards you could also just be misdirected confusion for having feelings for you he doesn't want to admit and especially doesn't want others to know about. So maybe you should sit down with him and talk about it, maybe he'll come around to it.
Better ask BosniaK, though, he's usually the guy to talk to about stuff like that.
Well first of all, you should be very careful in giving money to guys who act like they're interested in you, it could well be that they're trying to trick you, which indeed seems to be the case here. But don't be too sad about the whole thing, if he's threatening to beat you up, you wouldn't want to be with him, anyway. Just forget about him, having lost a bit of cash is nothing compared to what could've happened if you had really gotten involved with him.Hallow'sEve said:
On the other hand, though, his anger towards you could also just be misdirected confusion for having feelings for you he doesn't want to admit and especially doesn't want others to know about. So maybe you should sit down with him and talk about it, maybe he'll come around to it.
Better ask BosniaK, though, he's usually the guy to talk to about stuff like that.
To me $125 seems like a lot but you should call the police if he tries to threaten you and then take him to court.
Call the cops and/or sue, that's theft and threats of assault you'll likley never get the money back but you could make things difficult for him through legal means.Hallow said:
Or
Go to a party/ gathering of freinds and aquantances that he won't be at while the guy you've hired to kick his arse does his thing.
Get yourself beaten up but attempt to record/get a friend to see it then call the cops. Problem solved.
EDIT: I'm not joking. If you can't beat him up then find a way to take him to court.
EDIT: I'm not joking. If you can't beat him up then find a way to take him to court.
Pretty much everyone here is suggesting to get an ass kicked, be it the one who lent the money, or the one that it was lent to. While, as I see, the thing is that he would not stand a chance to the other guy in a fair (questionable) fight. Violence is not always the solution. But you should stop being that nice of a guy, with the "please pay me back" on the facebook message and stuff. That makes you sound like an easy prey, and he'll be sure to come to you for more money. I agree with the people saying you should tell other people though, as long as you can make sure that he doesn't find out of that until you've reached enough people with that. Once you have enough people on your side, it'll be close to impossible for him to actually do what he threats to.
Money is always money, I myself come from fairly poor family so I know that. But it's still only money, and it doesn't sound like your life depends on that amount he has lend from you. As for going to court, you would ruin his life, as I think you'd have a good chance of winning the case. But do you yourself want to ruin someone's life for $125? Personally I wouldn't. But you still would want your money back, so my opinion would be to keep annoying him about the money, while dropping the nice guy style that you seem to have.
Money is always money, I myself come from fairly poor family so I know that. But it's still only money, and it doesn't sound like your life depends on that amount he has lend from you. As for going to court, you would ruin his life, as I think you'd have a good chance of winning the case. But do you yourself want to ruin someone's life for $125? Personally I wouldn't. But you still would want your money back, so my opinion would be to keep annoying him about the money, while dropping the nice guy style that you seem to have.
^This. A single punch will cost him far more than the 125$, not to mention, it'll only further establish his reputation as someone not to lend cash to.Daveman said:
edit: alternatively, yeah, you could go to the cops for him threatening you, it's quite a valid reason. If he tries to beat you up after that, he'll just be immediately implicated.