societal conventions you hate
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The only person I can say I agree with.cerealnmuffin said:
Everyone who talks about not wanting to wear a suit or even a tie, I can already see how successful in life you are going to be. It's not because you aren't wearing the suit or tie, it's the attitude you have towards wearing the suit or tie. If wearing a suit is what I need to do to be successful or financially secure, you are damn sure I am going to be putting one on. I currently don't have to wear a suit at my job as a Web Developer and I probably would think it silly if I had to wear one considering no one else does.
I bet it is more of a feeling of insecurity wearing a suit. Like you don't belong in it that makes you feel most uncomfortable in it. Otherwise the suit probably doesn't fit you right.
What I dislike about modern society is how we grow up, expected to go to college, get a job and work until we are 60 to retire. Anyone else think that that's bullshit? I do, that's why I started my own business on the side of my day job. Working both, I will be retired by the time I am 29 or 30. Currently I am 24. Zuckerburg already beat me by a couple years, I don't want to make it a lifetime.
Ok I don't think I expressed myself very well in my last post.When I said "how often do you hear of female chivalry" what I meant was how often do you hear people use that term?I never meant to suggest that women aren't generous etc.zeldagirl said:
I simply meant that the word chivalry is usually associated with men(probably due to the whole knighthood thing).Ask your average person what it means and they'll probably mention stuff like a man holding a door open for a lady etc
This! Oh goodness this! It's that horrible double-standard. When a man does something "chivalrous" for a woman he's called a gentleman, nice, caring, sweet and what not. He is praised. But when women do things that are "chivalrous" no one notices. You could be the nicest woman out there and no one will comment on it because society already expects all women to be nice and submissive and kind and all smiles all around. And heavenly bodies forbid a woman not act in such a way. Oh hell to the no, that's a giant ***** right there. (Even when men who act the same way are not called out the same way.)zeldagirl said:
OT: There are three things that I really do not like.
- I hate the negative stance the majority of people have on recreational drugs. They treat them like if just being two feet away from someone who had in the last 24 hours smoked some pot will send you into a downward spiral of prostitution, homelessness and bad hair. Sure, drugs can be harmful, but only in excess. Hell, that's what I really do dislike. Most People cannot tell the difference between 'use' and 'abuse'.
-The anti-science bullshit the people in my lovely home country love to go on about.
-The sexism I must deal with every arsed day of my life.
To try and cover something that might not already have been done 30 times already in this thread, marriage. I dislike some older people's opinion that for it to be a 'proper' relationship they must be married (I also dislike 'no sex before marriage' etc), and I equally (if not moreso) dislike the opinion that marriage is a pointless concept for old-fashioned prudes. Neither opinion is right, I think. I agree that two people could be in a relationship for their entire lives and that it would be just as valid as if they were married, but I see the merit in being married and celebrating and proving your love for your partner.
Hmm. Though clearly that wasn't what you meant by your last point, I'll cede your new point. People who commit sexual crimes do also receive harsh treatment from others. I wouldn't say that this very small number relative to all other minorities deserve to be put in the same category, and it would appear from the attitude you expressed toward them that you'd agree. Also, I don't hear the NAACP and GLAD calling for "baby-toucher rights."Generic Gamer said:
I would imagine recorded instances of necrophilia are about as common as FBI cases on snuff films. And there aren't a whole helluvah lot more people fucking animals out there. For what purpose are we lumping people who are discriminated against because of things they didn't choose with people who fuck something/someone who does not want it?
The notion that boobs are somehow more harmful to children than watching a man get decapitated. I mean, boobs are great! But seriously, the violence/sex double standard annoys me to no end.
Because I am totally the first person to have said that in this thread.
Because I am totally the first person to have said that in this thread.
My "friends" were the partying type so yeh, we just grew apart then :/lisadagz said:Well, it's not a living, like you said. :O
Your friends shunned you because they became students?Are you sure they're not just really busy? I never see my friends any more, I have too much work. I'm actually quite worried I'm losing them and there's not much I can do about it until term's over.
And if by "all it's cracked up to be" you mean the independence, the parties and the whatnot, I didn't become a student for any of that so I wouldn't know. Some students seem to manage to balance their work and their partying and some manage to hold down a part time job so they can afford to live on their own but I don't know how they do it... (maybe they don't spend their evenings on the Escapist or something crazy like that.)
I'm actually looking to not get into a lifetimes worth of debt which is what people in my country are hoping to do now that the student fees are the highest in the world, uni has become the last resort xP
still... makes me sad that the real world is ruled by nepotism, I'm also glad that I dropped out of uni before too long cause I was under the impression a degree meant a well paid job which isn't quite the case anymore ^^' the majority of graduates in my country end up in job training anyway
Really? A man gets called that whenever he does something nice for a woman? Golly gee, I sure would like to have whats considered 'chivalrous' recognized. Oh wait, that's right. Its 'expected of me by society', as you so eloquently put it, that I do this things.ViaGalactica said:
And of course, no guy has ever been called an asshole, and girls NEVER deserve to be called *****. Right?
