ERaptor said:
Thats their problem, not mine. At least as long as im not directly insulting them. This is one of the reasons I think the whole "being offended"-thing has become meaningless. You can say it anywhere, everywhere all the time, because of personal interpretation. But im not good enough a person to care what every other person I meet feels or thinks.
I get that you may use the word in contexts in which people around don't care. That's fine, that's cool, that's your prerogative.
Using it in a situation where you are acutely aware that you may upset someone is
bullying. You are actively going out of your way to do something you know will hurt someone, and yes, them being hurt is "their problem" strictly as a matter of fact, but it's your actions that
make it their problem.
If you use a word, and someone asks you not to use the word because it upsets them, and you have no reason to use the word and you
keep using it, then that's what a bully does. Worse still, a sociopath. Unless you absolutely
have to use a word in the presence of others, of course, like you're testifying in court or something.
I mean, hey, I'm cool with it on the internet because, as you very rightly say, it's my choice to be on here. I can switch off at any time. But if you say it in a place I can't escape from, like at my work or something... I dunno. That's being a dick, that is. You don't need to
care what people think, you need to know that
they care what you say
anyway.
Edit: I was referring to South Park as doing the teaching, not you. Just bee tee doubleyou.