JimB said:
Ishigami said:
So in short: Woman loses badly to better male player and gets him disqualified over trash talk.
Woman notices male player violating the conditions of participation in a tournament as well as announcing an intention to commit a violent crime, when his statement is interpreted literally. Woman reports the violater. What a crybaby, expecting her opponent to follow the rules of the tournament and to not say he intends to commit penetrative physical assault.
Where does the tournament actually put the line regarding trash talking?
JimB said:
insaninater said:
Anyone should be able to enter a space, but when you try to make everyone change that space to accommodate you, you're something of a social imperialist and douchebag at that point.
Honest question: Is it not social imperialism to only allow people to enter your space if
they change to accommodate
you? If not, then what's the difference?
I've mentioned this before, and what I always notice is how gendered it is: A man entering a predominately female space is expected to adapt to the space, but a woman entering a predominately male space expects the space to adapt to her.
Here's the real question: When an individual enters an existing environment, should they expect the environment and existing persons present to change to adapt to them, or should they expect to adapt themselves to the environment and persons within it? Because the answer *should* be wholly unrelated to gender, but in practice it *isn't*.
JimB said:
insaninater said:
It's a competitive sport; trash gets talked in competitive sports.
There's trash, and then there's announcing the intent to commit a crime. I don't know what the law is like where the tournament took place, but where I live, that statement is technically assault.
So, better ban anyone who makes a comment about "killing" or "murdering" their opponent at a competitive game as well, right? No? Why not?
JimB said:
insaninater said:
Nobody would have batted an eye if this comment was directed at a guy.
I would have.
You likely would never have heard of it unless you were watching the match in question if the comment were directed at a guy, because it wouldn't be considered newsworthy.
JimB said:
insaninater said:
So now you've skewed the tournament in favor of women because they can just get offended at all the comments and win the tournament by offended>ban elimination.
That is not even close to what happened.
Yeah, that is some hyperbole right there. So long as the line for trash talk is the same for everyone, and followed for everyone, I don't see a real problem unless the line itself is gendered.
dunam said:
Maybe women are less visible because there are fewer female competitors.
Especially when a concurrent female only and men & women tourney shows more favoritism towards female players than male players.
Shh, it's like chess. When there's no good reason why men and women can't compete evenly, it's sexist to have a men's tournament, but not a women's tournament. Like chess.
This of course, ensures that the women aren't competitive with the men, by giving them the option to not have to compete with some opponents (having to deal with a lesser selection of opponents means you don't have to be as skilled, which means you'll tend not to be as skilled). You also see this in chess, where there's a large gap between female chess players who only play in women's tournaments and those who play in general tournaments.