SilkySkyKitten said:
Daniel Janhagen said:
Friendzone. The very concept is ridiculous, as is the word. Sadly, this is also one of the things on the list that are already things, but should stop.
From experience on this forum, I've learned that quite a lot of people here think it's a thing and will come to its defense.
You're all free to do so, but I will not debate it with you. Go ahead. You "win". If you want to think it's a thing I will not try to convince you otherwise.
Unlike some folks on this forum, I agree with you completely.
The concept of the "Friendzone" is nothing more than a disgusting attempt to vilify someone who won't bang you (as in the general "you") or won't get into a relationship with you as if it's their fault and no one else's. There's always two sides to a story, after all, so blaming the other person and acting like you didn't do anything wrong is immature, selfish, and borderline narcissistic.
And yet the "Friendzone" has become a thing and a reason for people to demand sympathy instead of just moving on. And people are willing to give sympathy to the "Friendzoned"... ugh...
The 'friendzone' is a thing. Whether it should be called such, however is another matter... As it is anything but friendly.
One gets put into the 'friendzone' when the person one is interested in decides they have no interest in return as a boy/girlfriend, but they don't have the courage to admit this. Thus one is trapped in the friendzone, getting mixed messages or flat out lies to keep from 'hurting feelings' or otherwise damaging the already present friendship.
For inexperienced young men and women... Well, it sucks. One may love this person, but one will never know why exactly he or she is not getting anywhere. This leads to frustration, hopelessness and depression. And it goes on until either the love interest ends it or the one gives up and moves on.