The Hairminator said:
TheAceTheOne said:
I hope you're not male, otherwise YOU FAIL BIOLOGY FOREVER!!
I mean, if you ARE male...please don't tell me that you didn't get erections until 18? Because if you did, I hate to break it to you but there IS something wrong with you. Most of us get erections when aroused from about 11-12 at latest.
Isn't that a pretty good guide for sexual attraction? Obviously you can get an erection without being interested in someone, but as a general principle you get an erection through sexual attraction. How the hell can you get confused about who you get erections around? I mean, it's pretty clear when it happens...
Actually, I know my biology. In truth a man can get erection for both anything and nothing at all without feeling any sexual arousal (it happens on an every day-basis as well). Your argument is null.
Assuming this is the argument about people under 18 not being able to tell if they're gay, the average age for people realising their sexuality is around 12-14, very early in puberty.
Sure a few people get it wrong and they're just confused,
which could be avoided given the proper education (topic relevant!), but they usually leave that phase before they even come to terms with it. Then you have assholes that just say they're bi because of some vague reason and they think it makes them all edgy and different.
For most people when they realise they're gay they're damn sure of it, for me it was a big confidence boost because It cleared up a lot of confusion, and my parents were very open minded about the subject when I was a kid so I wasn't ashamed or anything.
Also topic relevant, you have to make sure your kid is 100% ok with the idea of being gay
before they find out they're gay, or else you could be putting them through hell. You're not going to know if they're gay or not until they've come to terms with it either way.
But yeah, telltale signs that you're gay prop up at around 12-14, takes some people a while to realise. Most commonly getting turned on by other guys and not by women :3