Point one: Don't sit there and tell me I'm the only person who thinks that way.
Point two: I long ago got sick of gaming being saddled with the reputation of being the hobby of basement-dwelling pocket-mining fratbros. Have you noticed that said reputation has faded along with the prevalence of "booth babes"?
I will stop the moment you stop pretending that only one specific segment is fond of conventionally attractive ladies advertising their products and beautifying their surroundings. If I had to pick one of the two statements as being the more absurd one, I think yours would win hands down, and with decades of market data to back it up.
I was never insecure enough to care about what nongamers thought of us. If anything, I revel in the rumors.
Caring about that would be equivalent to caring about people thinking of anime as for children or videogames for dumb people. Hell I even grew up in a place where people legitimately thought of anything depicting any sort of magic as being
literally satanic. You think I'm gonna care what people think with regards to my hypothetical membership into an american college fraternity after that. If anything it's more of an indictment of their own ignorance than anything it has to do with me.
So, as I was never insecure about all the insane things that irrelevant people believed about my interests as a means of self-acceptance, I find it abhorrent to abandon or change things in my interests to appease such a group of cancerous outsiders. If anything, I wanna be a bigger thorn on their side and jostle their sense of normalcy all that much more. That's my natural reaction when presented with such views.
There was this one oficial promotional dead or alive stream with japanese cosplayers a few years back and they were restreaming it on twitch as part of some american e-sports thing, now I'm not 100% on this, but I have it on good authority that the cosplayers were actual amateour pornstars, and they were playing with eachother a bit too much during the official stream, while the literal devs of the game were pausing it during revealing moments and joining in the fun commentary, which was totally find mind you, but the american twitch restream of it had to cancel their stream and offer an apology. You can't believe the kick I got out of that. The sheer discommfort and neutered, fake disgust performed for I don't know who. It was a spectacle of emasculation and virtue signaling. One of the most pathetic displays I've ever seen.