Nope, I'm gonna be a stubborn old man on this one.
Supes wears red undies or I cancel my subscription.
Supes belongs with Lois Lane or I cancel my subscription.
You know, I've never been a fan of reboots. I like the idea of a parallel world where things march on right alongside ours and removing the few attempts at changing things up in the past, I enjoy a long, storied continuity.
Superman and Lois Lane are iconic. It's one of those things that keeps gushy little losers like myself believing that true love can exist and two people can be fatefully perfect for each other. If big blue and Lo-La can't even find that joy that being with the one you love gives you, then what hope is there for those of us in the real world to believe in such things?
Besides, I think you could go the other way with the dynamic. Yes being married to Superman is a tough thing, but it's like being married to an ATF agent or soldier, as you said Bob. There's stress in that relationship but there's also a great deal of devotion. It makes for great drama if the right writers capitalized on it. Even Spidey and Mary Jane kinda used to make me smile every time something big would go down and he'd be on the verge of going out that window, probably to his death, both of them realizing that but MJ realizing that it's what a hero has to do. Then she'd say, "Go get 'em, Tiger."
Boy if I was a hero about to rush to in all probability a horrible, painful demise at the hands of some twisted, psychotic, super powered freakazoid, having the love of my life send me on my way with a "go get em tiger" would be more sustaining than any super power I had. I would fight that much harder, react that much smarter, risk everything and anything to win for my lady and return to her arms for some super powered love making after I heal up.
Superman and Lois Lane splitsville? SOunds like an excuse to retread the same old ground and you and I both know it won't last long. In short order they'll be falling in love all over again, and we'll be going through that whole cat-and-mouse thing that the past 6 seasons of Smallville already traipsed through.
Some things, I think, are better off left alone.