I don't agree with Bob in this case. Not over the fact that this woman is doing this but over the argument itself. Bob took a very week, and very common argument over the issue and decided to run over body image for men vs. women.
I am down with this woman getting videos about women and their tropes in video games etc. The problem isn't her, it's the idea that men's stereotypes are perfectly fine and all is fine in the world form men, it isn't.
The problem with Bob and a lot of other guys, feminist, traditionalist, etc. is that while women issues are talked over, and indeed must be talked over, men's are not even thought about.
The body argument that he presented was one I heard, but even as an MRA I quickly laughed over and just judge as misogynist.
The issue I could easily talk about men have issue men's disposability. This is something hard to grasp, because most people have already accepted that a man should risk his life for other people. In other words, we have accepted that the role of men is to die. The major issue I have with men's role in video games is that it reinforces men to be disposable in a dangerous environment.
Take it light this, if you imagine a woman getting punched in the face several times with the same thought as a man getting punched in the face several times, you have successfully gotten rid of sexual stereotypes. Why? Because most people will jump over that a woman got beatted up over the man, because she is genetically weaker than man. Despite the fact we lived in a civilized society, where might does not make right.
Both sexes have large, glaring stereotypes on both sides that need to be fixed. Women have been seen, as delicate, weak, emotional, etc. vs. Men being strong, independent, and sacrificial.
Once again, that does not make me an opponent to Female Tropes or such 'feminist' projects. Videos like her need to and ought to occur to talk about sexual stereotypes and progression. Yet we cannot remove male's from the discussion, not the videos (For they talk ABOUT Women) but the discussion itself.
Do I hate Bob for following a good old 'Defend thy lady'? No. The topic is valid, the issues are valid, and the misogynist need to shut their traps when trying to drag women back into a role of submission and to where women are necessary to be protected from the harms of the world. Women don't need protection, they don't need submission, they are human beings and thus can function like human beings. Bob just doesn't know about his own sex's issues.