The modern man and full beards

[JWAN]

It's all because of these guys. They have finally helped the masses to see the bearded light.

I love beards, but I've always found it difficult to grow one that looks good. I've noticed a number of my friends seem to have gained a fondness for beards and most girls I know like at least a bit of facial hair, with some preferring guys who have a full-blown, magnificent Alan Moore beard.

Unfortunately, the one I'm interested in is not amongst them. That's why it will never work out between us.

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I have a beard, I wear flannel, I also work in a hardware store and as far as I'm concerned beards make me a better person. When I don't have a beard I look like a 6'3, 230 pound 12 year old; Nobody believes me when I say I worked on the oil patch in North Dakota, nobody believes me that I've worked construction for a majority of my life.

The beard helps.

 

[2012 Wont Happen]

I'll give the same reason I have a full beard that I give concerned friends as to why I smoke a pack a day: it is the mark of a real man.

 

[spartan231490]

Am I the only one who's noticed there seems to be a lot of guys my age (Twenties) who seem to be wearing a full beard? Not like a goatee or stubble or something, but a full-blown beard, like you would see a lumberjack with.

I've found to be a bit odd, since as a society, we don't seem to like full beards. Men are expected to be clean-shaven (compare a hobo to a business man for example) and woman seem to hate facial hair of any kind on a man. I find it odd that a guy would willingly choose to grow a full beard with these kinda social pressures.

My perspective might be slightly warped, since I work in a PC store, and PC guys have often been bearded. But I swear, the number of guys my age who are sporting full beards seems to have jumped in the last few years.

Is this a fashion thing maybe? Like how fashions go from fashionable to unfashionable then back to fashionable after a few years, have full beards come back into style? What do you guys think?

CAPCHA "more chocolate"
That's a great suggestion, CAPCHA, but not really relevant to the topic at hand.

There is no social pressure against wearing a full beard, so long as it's trimmed. I know numerous men who wear full beards in professional settings, I feel like hollywood has a hatred for the full beard, but I've never seen evidence of it anywhere else. As for women and facial hair, that is remarkably subjective. Probably more than half of the women I know prefer facial hair of some kind on their man. So, there really isn't all that much social pressure.

 

[Furbyz]

Well I'm currently bearded because it hides the loose skin I have from losing a lot of weight. And I think the general consensus is that I look better with one. Usually the only response I get when I do shave it is, "I'm not used to it."

Judge for yourself with this side by side comparison

Spoiler

 

[Candidus]

I much prefer the way I look with a beard and I'm a little... uncomfortable about the idea of being a 28'ish year old man with a clean chin. In my mind, slimy conmen with slick hair and shiny foreheads are clean-shaven thirty year olds.

Practically they're a pain in the arse as they can itch like buggery.

Besides the fact that I just like it, I have a full goatee for the same reason that you shave; to avoid irritation. My skin reacts in a bad way to shaving no matter what sort of aftercare I apply. That is to say, it breaks out like I'm 15 again and reddens like I've boiled my jaw.

 

[Kajin]

I have a mustache and goatee. I don't particularly LIKE having facial hair (it doesn't come in thick enough to look decent), but if I shave it all off I start getting carded everywhere I go. So I style it as best I can and hope it doesn't make me look like a douchebag.

 

[Kajin]

I much prefer the way I look with a beard and I'm a little... uncomfortable about the idea of being a 28'ish year old man with a clean chin. In my mind, slimy conmen with slick hair and shiny foreheads are clean-shaven thirty year olds.

Practically they're a pain in the arse as they can itch like buggery.

Besides the fact that I just like it, I have a full goatee for the same reason that you shave; to avoid irritation. My skin reacts in a bad way to shaving no matter what sort of aftercare I apply. That is to say, it breaks out like I'm 15 again and reddens like I've boiled my jaw.

Same here. If I shave with a a razor blade more than twice in the same week my neckline gains the consistency of raw hamburger meat. Not fun. I use an electric razor to shave my neckline and cheeks down to stubble without touching the skin, using a mustache and goatee as social camouflage so that the excess stubble doesn't make me look less like a rakish, unshaven hipster jackass.

 

[Guitarmasterx7]

Men are expected to be clean-shaven (compare a hobo to a business man for example) and woman seem to hate facial hair of any kind on a man.

What? When the hell did this start happening? I thought this was the rule.

 

[Stu35]

and woman seem to hate facial hair of any kind on a man.

Hmmm, I'm not so sure on that one. I think it varies from woman to woman - I know plenty who like a beard on a man.

Personally I let my beard (and hair) grow when I get the chance, but I have to shave it (and cut it) for work. Which is a shame, because I look a damned sight better bearded and with slightly shaggy hair.

 

[UniversalRonin]

I used to have a full, but well trimmed beard. And then I started shaving it again because security guards were always following me around shops. Since I started shaving again, they don't even look twice. I'm not the biggest fan of being clean shaven (never really have been after leaving school) but for now it's a means to an end.

 

[DirgeNovak]

I've had a full beard for the past three years or so. I've shaven it this summer to make a change, but now I've let it grow again. I just shave the neck part.

Lots of people told me I looked younger when I shaved it, though.

 

[iAmNothing]

Beards are getting more and more fashionable these days so, naturally, more people are growing them. It's not just seen among the regular people either, there are a number of famous celebrities who have started to show off their facial hair

 

[teebeeohh]

I started out with a full beard because I wanted to grow one but over time I shaved parts of it for various reasons. The mustache part had to go because it grew out a lot thinner than the rest and came between me and food at time.
The main reason I like my beard is because it makes my fat face seem longer, which is nice.

Why do wo many people have full beards? Because you initially grow them by not shaving and you can turn them into almost any other kind of facial hair you want. It just needs some tlc, the line between hobo and sophisticated manly man is a thin one

 

[God's Clown]

Stubble > Beard any day of the week, month or year. The One True Master Race rocks the stubble, not the beard. Praise the stubble!

 

[SpAc3man]

I would say it's a popular thing in certain circles. I have noticed an uptake in beards amongst students at my uni. Especially in the engineering and science departments. That may just be down to general lack of time and full year projects coming to an end therefore longer days and less grooming. I hope to grow my own beard for my final year at uni. I just need the facial hair to grow a bit thicker than it does currently.

 

[JemothSkarii]

I need a beard, even if it's just a stache-goatee combo thing. I apparently look about 15 when I don't have one and apparently clean shaven I have a massive case of babyface. So I want my girlfriend to be able to kiss me and such without feeling like a pedophile and personally I find more positive results coming from people when I do have facial hair.

Plus I hate how I look clean shaven anyways, so all good.

 

[ShipofFools]

The women in my life really like my beard, and so do random Muslim men I meet in the city.

 

[kommando367]

Some people just like full beards. For one thing, they make men look significantly more masculine. I'm personally growing one for the incoming winter months.

Also, you can't really go by what "society" thinks when it comes to things like this because people don't usually agree with each other that much in the first place.

 

[Combustion Kevin]

it's funny how the idealised image of a man is quite different to men than it is to women.
For women it's often quite similar: intelligent, kind and beautiful.
Men like to see themselves more gruff, frizzled, big and burly, while it is obvious most women find the more clean, chisseled, "pretty boy" look universally more appealing.

personally, I like me beard, it allows me to look more intelligent when I stroke it in thought.

 

[rbstewart7263]

I currently have a full beard (though regularly trimmed), I started growing one a couple of months back because I wanted to. I don't think it's particularly fashionable right now, I just enjoy having a beard and apparently it makes my fairly narrow face look wider so that's a plus too.

had one for years an yeah ever since duck dynasty came out its in fashion. THATS A FACT JACK!