The sarcasm/BDSM discussion thread!

[Vault101]

I don't treat men any differently here or in real life. Just so happens that many (but not all *cough*Moonlight Butterfly*cough*No Hime*cough*) of the people I argue with are men.

so you and moonlight arent part of some "sisterhood" representing womanhood online?....

well its just whenever sexism rears its ugly head you two are always right in the eye of the storm

[quote/]The only real time I treat men differently, I suppose, in real life is sexually; I'll refuse to allow a man any say sexually, but am willing to take a lesser role with a woman.[/quote]
does that imply your bi?....ok ok I know none of my buisness I just want sure what that meant

 

[darlarosa]

Can't we just all have sex and be happy?

 

[Vault101]

]I love Moonlight. I think she's a beautiful person and count her as a friend. We just come at some things differently and end up disagreeing at times. But yeah, I totally consider her a sister in the sexism wars

Yes, I'm bisexual. Probably something akin to pansexual with how flexible I am in some regards (despite my strong limitations in others).

ah....well thanks for the info

fight the good fight then!

 

[Zack Alklazaris]

I don't get what the big deal is. Listen after a hard days work where you are in control of everything, where you have to babysit everyone, making sure everyone is doing their job its nice to come home and be able to let someone else control you.

It has to do with stress relief for me. Having someone else to "take over my life and choices" is actually a relief. There is nothing degrading about it. Putting yourself in a situation where you are helpless and powerless can be very stimulating for some people.

Also I have found it a great relationship builder. Think about it, your tied spread eagle to a bed and your significant other now has the chance to do whatever he/she wants to do to you. They could pleasure your brains our or they could kill you and you can't do a thing about it. The amount of trust that is involved is immense.

 

[Nickolai77]

*snip*

Interesting post, i consider your post very informative. By the sound of things then 50 shades is a poor interpretation of a D/s lifestyle relationship so i imagine the book has actual D/s lifestylers frothing at the mouth more than the fetishists. At least we both agree that the book is bad PR for lifestylers and fetishists alike.

 

[Elate]

*snip*

Interesting post, i consider your post very informative. By the sound of things then 50 shades is a poor interpretation of a D/s lifestyle relationship so i imagine the book has actual D/s lifestylers frothing at the mouth more than the fetishists. At least we both agree that the book is bad PR for lifestylers and fetishists alike.

OOohhh yes, we can both agree on that, it's bad PR all around.

 

[Overusedname]

I deeply apologize in advance for the following poem.

I hurt you
You hurt me
This excites us sexually
Cause as long I trust you
And you trust me
We're one happy fam-i-ly

...I desperately need sleep, but my point stands. It seems that for many, trust is often the main factors. And pain is close to sex for some people.

And who said the couple wouldn't take turns?

I don't get the BDSM thing.

I could totally get into vampirism, though.

Perhaps someday a miraculous tooth operation can let you live the dream.

 

[Relish in Chaos]

Talking of BDSM, hasn?t anyone watched Secretary? If so, is it a good film that accurately portrays a BDSM-oriented relationship between a dominant male and a submissive female?

I like the fem-dom kind of BDSM roleplay, personally. I don't like the male dominant version because I dislike men having any power.

That's just you, though. Some women do find it quite a turn-on for a man to be dominant in the bedroom, and vice versa. As well as the whole ?trust? thing. It's not as if the man will necessarily have the superior power all the time in the relationship. There's a balance.

All in all, since fetishes can be such a personal thing, who the fuck is really to see whether or not it?s sexist? I know that if someone took a trip in my mind, they?d probably call me out for being a misogynistic pig. But I?d know that they?re wrong, and I just can?t help what turns me on. It?s not necessarily reflective on my entire opinion on the female population.

I mean, heck, I recently stumbled upon a tumblr of a transvestite whose ultimate turn-on was to be a submissive slave to a man, including being spat on and called a ?dirty sissy ******?. Does that mean that he?s homophobic? No, it?s just a kink.