I'll say what I always say when someone in the street asks me to give money to charity "Before I help anyone else I will help my family" (including close friends).
Another issue is that I may not see where the money goes. If a homeless person asks me for money and I give it to them, I know they will use it - for their benefit or otherwise. That's their call. Bu how am I supposed to know with charities and people/organisations that ask me for money? how much of it will go to those who need it? how much will be used in 'administration?' and so on.
Life has taught me to look after number one, although I often ignore this mindset for some reason. I guess I'm still of a weak and optimistic mind when it comes to people.
Another issue is that I may not see where the money goes. If a homeless person asks me for money and I give it to them, I know they will use it - for their benefit or otherwise. That's their call. Bu how am I supposed to know with charities and people/organisations that ask me for money? how much of it will go to those who need it? how much will be used in 'administration?' and so on.
Life has taught me to look after number one, although I often ignore this mindset for some reason. I guess I'm still of a weak and optimistic mind when it comes to people.