Redflash said:
I aggressively don't care for the people jumping on the beautifully crafted phrase that you used in your title. It sums up so perfectly the combination of apathy, annoyance and ill-will you feel about certain things that don't seem worth caring about.
But seriously, I really, aggressively don't care about what might be considered right or wrong grammatically or logically, or whether something is an oxymoron or not. People need to lie back and appreciate the beauty of ramming mismatched words together!
I think the confusion is coming from people seeing it as an oxymoron to claim to not care about something yet still feel a combination of "annoyance and Ill-will", which means you do care about it, you just want to tell everyone around you about how much you don't care, which comes off as a little patronizing and hypocritical to some people.
It bears out in the thread itself, because everyone seems to be interpreting the OP in their own way, some people are just posting about stuff they don't like, others are posting about topics they try to avoid but still provoke irrational reactions out of them, and yet still others are just posting about overdone topics they are tired of seeing. None of that is exactly wrong, but to some extent, if they are willing to expend the energy to talk about it on these forums (and I've seen a few of these posters making numerous posts in the very threads and topics they are claiming not to care about), then they actually do care, even if they may not want to.
Which, to be fair, I've got the same problem, I really want to ignore and not care about the numerous political threads in the R&P forums, because arguing on the internet about politics has never been productive and entertaining for me, but I can't help but get dragged in and contribute my lousy 2 cents from time to time.
As imperior said above me, if you're willing to devote enough energy to type a ranty paragraph about how much you don't care about something, then you obviously do care about it to some extent. Basically this whole thread can be summed up with Vegosiux's picture: