Therumancer said:
I'm reluctant to respond because whenever I give people the answers, which they do not like, they tend to freak out and try and turn it into a flame war.
Okay, I'll bite here. People don't take issue with what you say as much as they take issue with how you say it. So it's not a problem of "giving answers people don't like", it's about "treating your partner in conversation as inferior". And that's what makes people "freak out".
I mean, I can do triple-digit multiplications in my head quickly and reliably, it's a skill that's not that common. A rather useless one, since everyone has a calculator these days, but I still won't claim that people who can't do it (and don't see a reason to try) as "not doing math the way a
real mathematician should be doing it" and won't get elitist on you for using a calculator.
That said, I don't disagree with the points you're making in the post. But I felt I had to lay it out how people
might get upset about not what's being said but rather about the attitude with which it's delivered. I am aware some people consider confrontational/greater-than-thou/aggressive (those are examples, by the way, not accusations) attitudes "thought-provoking". I don't, I prefer the content to provoke thought, not the form.
Okay, enough ranting from my side. I mean, I like to ramp the difficulty to "self-flagellation with an acid-laced cat-o-nine-tails" sometimes myself. On my days off, mostly. After an intense weekend shift I prefer something easy to unwind. That does not make me a "fake gamer" as opposed to "real gamer".