We like more confident guys because you need to believe you're worth our time if you want us to think so.
If a guy comes up to me acting like he's worried I'll think he's a total weirdo, I usually think that he must have good reasons for being concerned I'll think that way... That being said, if some douche bag comes up to me and acts like he thinks he's God's gift to women, I'll assume he's full of himself and blow him off just as quickly.
The golden middle ground is when someone approaches me with an attitude that conveys that they're totally comfortable with themselves.
A sort of, "This is who I am, and I think it's pretty neat, but you take it or leave it."
If a guy comes up to me acting like he's worried I'll think he's a total weirdo, I usually think that he must have good reasons for being concerned I'll think that way... That being said, if some douche bag comes up to me and acts like he thinks he's God's gift to women, I'll assume he's full of himself and blow him off just as quickly.
The golden middle ground is when someone approaches me with an attitude that conveys that they're totally comfortable with themselves.
A sort of, "This is who I am, and I think it's pretty neat, but you take it or leave it."