I'm sorry but evolutionary psychology is suspect for the simple fact that as human beings, we ARE above animals and we DO have free will.
Anyway, while it's wrong to say that all women like jerks, there are some that do, and 'jerk' might not always be based on how he treats the woman.
For instance, I've met my fair share of couples where the woman was alright, but the guy was a complete jackass to me, I guess he felt I was a loser to him.
Point is, if that's the 'confidence' that some women want, then it is right for us men to scrutinize it and it seems like some women are too interested in exonerating the tastes of women from scrutiny, when mens tastes are always scrutinized and second guessed.
Because, heaven forbid, a man could be right and a woman could be wrong.
Anyway, while it's wrong to say that all women like jerks, there are some that do, and 'jerk' might not always be based on how he treats the woman.
For instance, I've met my fair share of couples where the woman was alright, but the guy was a complete jackass to me, I guess he felt I was a loser to him.
Point is, if that's the 'confidence' that some women want, then it is right for us men to scrutinize it and it seems like some women are too interested in exonerating the tastes of women from scrutiny, when mens tastes are always scrutinized and second guessed.
Because, heaven forbid, a man could be right and a woman could be wrong.