And yet as people obviously still continue to do it despite religious outcry for abstinence, would not the logical approach be to actually give these teenagers the means of having safe sexual experiences and protection from younger aged pregnancies when they are still in school rather than not allow them these devices, and have a good number of newborn children that are either abandoned or sent to orphanages because their teenage parents can't take care of them well enough?Thaius said:Close ourselves off? Since when is being sexually inactive equal to closing yourself off? From what, society? The only thing abstinence closes off to someone is sex, and it's a willing and beneficial thing.HG131 said:So, we should close ourselves off? Sorry, I really feel that there's no "ready" and waiting until marriage is retarded, especially if it turn out that the sex is awful. Sex is an important part of a relationship, and doesn't need to be seen as "special" or secretive.Thaius said:I strongly disagree. I understand the necessity of safe sex, since those who become sexually active at a young age should know how to avoid teen pregnancy. However, abstinence is by far the preferable option. It's a matter of using self-control and responsibility in how you treat sex. It is (or rather should be) an important part of how humans interact, but it only has that status if it's not treated with the same reverence as scratching someone's back. Sex has been hugely devalued in modern culture, and it's caused a lot of problems. But all we do is encourage it.HG131 said:Well, we SHOULD at least hand out condoms and birth control pills, and teach safe sex and not abstinence.Thaius said:Oh, I never said they shouldn't be educated. They definitely should be. I only objected to the mentality that we should just hand out condoms and tell them to have a good time. It's hardly a way to teach responsible use of their newfound knowledge.HG131 said:Why? Why not instead give them condoms AND educate them? Hmm? Is knowledge that bad? Also, damn, a news channel that I actually get getting cited on The Escapist (as my profile says, I'm from Central Florida). It's weird seeing a news channel that I've seen (sure, not for long, as it's Faux "News") being on here. See if you can find something from a better source. I can't seem to find anything on the others, just lots of murder and politics.Thaius said:Huh... well if it's actually made well, it could be good. About time we had something teaching teens not to give in to pressure instead of freely throwing out condoms and telling them to have fun. But if the game sucks, it'll do little good.
Besides, what's more effective to avoid teen pregnancy: trying not to get pregnant while having sex, or avoiding sex until one is ready, or married?
Sex is an important part of a relationship either way, but you can't exactly expect everyone in the world to suddenly not want to try sex before they are married (if they ever get married, that is). Reality doesn't, and hasn't worked that way for centuries now.