You're the problem! You want to hate the US, condemn the US, build empires to combat the US, and then express disgust that the people you do everything you can to oppose might imagine you're wasting your efforts and pushing power into the hands of hostile nations just to spite us.
Ah, more of that pathetic, self-pitying and refusal to take responsibility.
Pretty much no Europeans in this forum hate the USA. At minimum, not as much as some of your own fellow Americans appear to. Europeans can reasonably criticise the USA on any number of levels: virtually none of those are outside the bounds that many Americans criticise their own country as part of normal, healthy political disagreement. Europeans can have genuine and strong reasons to be unhappy with the USA, such as when it kicked up an
unjustified war and got
spiteful when Europeans didn't want to get involved, and Europeans ended up
paying in
blood for the misadventure. But then it's not all one way: Obama returned a favour to France and the UK over Libya despite his skepticism, and that's how it should work.
The context of European concerns about the USA is that the USA has a lot of power it has leveraged over the EU since WW2. Today, for instance, the tech industry is a major part of the US economy, but the way the USA protects it causes issues for the EU in terms of security, policy independence, etc. To give an idea of this, virtually all the internet used to go through the USA. Then we found out from the Snowden revelations that the USA was using this to snoop on everyone, including its allies, for it's own benefit. Currently, huge amounts of data still flows through the USA: the USA can and will severely disadvantage EU citizens just
doing their jobs. If the US government wants my data as a UK citizen, even if it's stored in server outside the USA, Microsoft will just hand it over.
You might understand why this could be considered potentially threatening. Obviously, it is not the sort of thing that the average American such as you troubles your little head with, so no doubt it might sound very confusing to hear that Europeans might have some concerns. Nevertheless there's an understanding that friends and relatives can disagree, there are pros and cons, and Europeans have remained broadly positive towards the USA, seeing the alliance as mutually beneficial.
Until Trump.
This is what Trump is revealing: he wants nothing but profit, and the EU is expected to work for the USA. The USA keeps all its benefits - the privileges of tech dominance, telling the EU who it can and can't trade with for American benefit, etc. and then pays nothing back in return. And every time he does that shit, he makes Europeans think more and more that the USA is not a safe and reliable partner, it's an exploitative and abusive partner, and we'd be better off without.
But it's worse. No matter what the wording of that hate tract his administration has just pumped out, Trump and its allies are overtly backing the far right across Europe. These are xenophobic nationalists, and xenophobic nationalists hate and seek to exploit other nations. What he is therefore actually working on is the fragmentation of Europe: these are anti-EU parties, of course they are! No wonder Russia is excited, because if the EU fragments that gives it much greater opportunity to restore its own influence over eastern Europe. They're not stupid enough to print that openly in public documents, but it's what his administration is actually doing.
It would be nice to see Americans who still wanted Europe as an ally. But at the end of the day, it's clear that protecting your orange daddy from any and all criticism is more important to you and other Republicans than your partners in long-term strategic alliance, and we get that.