Susan Arendt said:
2. I'm just plain stunned by the amount of "they make fun of my accent" that I'm seeing here. British accents are hot, people.
I concur. I do find women with British accents to be alluring. (At least smooth-sounding ones. The more "clipped" type that Anne Robinson [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Robinson] has sort of rubs me the wrong way.)
Anyway. I quite seriously apologize to our Britsh fellow gamers for the asshattery some of you experience from a selection of Americans. If it makes you feel better, they only feel the need to dump on you because they desperately need something to bolster an ego flattened by idiocy, mediocrity and sexual insecurity. Myself, I've grown up around people with accents- my best friend in high school was from South Africa- so many times I hardly even notice them, and I certainly don't consider them something worth insulting someone about. (Hell, hear me say words like "joystick" and you'll know just what a Jersey boy I am.)
My propensity to chatter on is inverse to the seriousness of the game being played. If I'm sitting out a round in Counter-Strike or whatnot and there's nothing else to do, sure, I'll chat about things. But if I'm part of a tight group stalking through Left 4 Dead, about all you'll hear out of me is stuff like "Contact, right" and "Hunter ahead". Sound is a big factor in gaming to me and I don't like to have it drowned out by idle chat, especially my own.
So, you know, if I ever start playing co-op games with voice again (as I might if I pick up L4D2), come play with me. I'm friendly, and I won't make fun of your accent! Although I do reserve the right to say "Jolly good, ol' chap" on occasion... which, of course, can be countered with a good "Yo, 'sup" in your best faux New Yawker accent.