Matthew94 said:
Revolutionaryloser said:
Matthew94 said:
Revolutionaryloser said:
You took the time to wall 'o text him, could you answer my simple, one line question please?
"Can you name me 1 thing feminists have fought for to help men other than "fighting gender roles" please?"
Erm, to be honest, what else do feminists stand for? As a man, I hate gender roles and they seriously limit me in my life. Feminism has many specific goals but the most important and final objective is to end gender roles. I don't know what else to say.
I believe they stand for the attainment of equal rights and the end of discrimination towards women.
Definition:
Noun:
The advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men.
So you cannot name me one thing than the loose goal of ending gender roles. Not ONE thing? So for a group that has been around for decades and claims to fight for men too, there hasn't been 1 case of fighting for a male centric issue instead of it always being a female one?
Even on the topic of gender roles, I have yet to see 1 thing to help men other than a poster essentially saying "end gender roles" that was posted online, never in real life have I seen a feminist group fight for men.
I like cooking. I make all sorts of things. I spend hours every week planning and preparing food for every day and especially for my family Sunday lunch. I can cook Chinese, Thai, Italian, Mexican, Indian, Traditional French cuisine, Turkish delicacies, Mediterranean dishes, whatever you like. My aunt, who is about 70, is a home economics teacher. She has never taught me anything about cooking, I once visited my aunt and uncle so they could meet my girlfriend. They were very happy to see her and wanted to know everything about her. Eventually the subject of cooking came up and my aunt started asking what she cooked. My girlfriend has never cooked anything in her life.
Eventually she convinced her to make a quiche so she would know how to make one back at home. I've made plenty of quiche's at home over the years. Finally, and I don't blame my girlfriend for it at all, she admitted that she doesn't know how to cook and that I cook everything in the house. There as the most awkward and deadly silence you could imagine for quite a long time. It was really, really embarassing and although I knew this beforehand and my aunt and uncle suspected I liked cooking, it was heartwrenching that two people I dearly love were judging me, and were disappointed in me because of something I loved doing.
I have dreams of opening a restaurant when I'm retired. I want to teach my children, regardless of their gender, how to cook so they can also make meals for their loved ones. For someone to turn round and say to me that I shouldn't do something as natural as cooking because it's something only women should do, that I'm some sort of freak od nature for making a pie. Does this sound ridiculous enough by now? Am I getting accross how redundant and pathetic and insane gender roles are in our society? Am I getting accross how much all of this hurts me?
Maybe my story seems banal and melodramatic to you, but trust me, I have more stories and there are other people with worse stories. Have you seen Billy Elliot? You probably should because it sort of presents quite effortlessly the point I'm trying to get accross. Gender roles are hurtful to people's development and even if we have taken strides to eradicate them there are still children beaten at school because dancing is for faggots and there are still women who eat their lunch alone at the Taxi Depot and there are still people who feel uncomfortable when they are treated by a male nurse and there are still girls who can't go down a street alone because she could be mugged and raped and there are still young boys who will steal and kill because they don't want their friends to think they're soft and there are still those who will look at a figure of authority and will judge their capabilities as a judge or as a senator based on her physique. If you think these are tiny problems that don't affect you and that cause a lot of aggravation just to make a few losers feel better with their pathetic existances then you know what you can do? You can always just turn the other way and leave them alone because seeing as you have so little empathy for those who don't fit comfortably in the archaic roles we are expected to play out I don't see why you should care about anything they say.