Saulkar said:
Inquiring about people's real life disabilities and being told that there is nothing wrong with them and that by saying that there is being bigoted. Jesus!
Now that's just stupid. (and I'm speaking as someone on disability support) What's next, arguing that people in wheelchairs don't need ramp access since "there's nothing wrong with them"?
Deathmageddon said:
I got called out for saying "Jew" once. If you're Jewish and you practice Judaism, then you are a Jew. Just because you conjugate a word a certain way does not make it offensive, especially if you're using it correctly. Also, what should we say if not "black?"
?! Next thing you know you'll get called out for calling the Pope Catholic.......
Master_of_Oldskool said:
estoria-etnia said:
What I find offensive is people who insist that if someone is depressed that they should just "shut up and cheer up" or "stop complaining and smile you stupid emo!" Or, you know, people talking about mental illness as though it's something you can choose to have and that it's all in a person's head, that they're making it up to get attention, etc.
Thank you. Somebody actually walked up and asked me if I'd ever "just tried being happy" the other day. Long story short, I've been suspended from school.
Oh so much agreement with that I couldn't state it enough. I'm severely OCD, I barely leave my little granny flat in the backyard, and I can't even hug my dogs.
Back when I was in high school, I was suspended once, my 'peers' were total assholes and the teachers totally ineffectual. The suspension was more like a reward than anything else.
bahumat42 said:
mines one i know is offensive,
Which begs the question "Then why do you keep doing it?!"
bahumat42 said:
but as a product of my generation i use gay as a negative connotation, such as "thats gay" not because i dislike gay people, just because in my developing years it was a popular go-to phrase that just stuck with me.
Well there is the fact that you're perpetuating the idea that being gay is wrong. But there's also the fact that they should be annoyed because using it makes you an immature little tit.
bahumat42 said:
I get that its wrong, but the thing that bugs me is that people can't get that im not doing it on purpose,
Unless you have tourette's, some sort of split personality, or some other phenomena that gives you the ability to talk without any conscious direction, than you are doing it on purpose.
evilneko said:
I never knew "coon" was supposedly a racial slur against blacks until WoW took out the Maine Coon minipet. (Which is an outrage, btw, Maine Coon is a legitimate and most awesome breed of cat, they shoulda told whoever complained to fuck right off)
Considering the Maine Coon was named for either a myth that they came from crossbreeding with raccoons, or from descending from the ship's cats of a Captain Charles Coon, we'd better rename the breed to it's alternate name of Wapoton, rename the raccoon, and have the good captain's surname posthumously changed too.
Oh and hey, it's the <a href=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maine_Coon>State Cat of Maine too. Well, there's a state that's in a lot of trouble.
Or, considering all the <a href=http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/coon>meanings of the word coon, a number of people could get a life and stop introducing people to a racial slur that they've never heard of and preempting all the other inoffensive meanings of the word.
Shark Wrangler said:
When people are boring you on the phone by going on and on about nothing important. I don't see why its rude to just tell them to get to the point. My ex-girlfriend used to call me and talk about a sandwich she ate that day, or some stupid shirt that she bought. She would go on and on about some stupid little thing. I got sick of just agreeing with her and I told her to get to the point. She was pissed off, but so what, its a waste of freaking time.
While it may be the way you ask them to get to the point, there is the fact that either she seems incapable of prioritizing, or she seems to think you have nothing but free time (which could count as an insult on her part).
Still, someone calling about something and then going on and on about nothing important or related to the issue is really annoying. If it's just a call to do some socializing and catching up with a friend or family, it's a little different.
Thaa said:
Well, there was the time I used the phrase "in Catholic mythology" in my Arabic class...it took me a full thirty seconds to realize that I had just said something bad.
The fact that people find that offensive is the offensive part.
Dawns Gate said:
If everyone is supposed to be treated equally why is it that when a mentally handicapped person is a complete dick, people take their side. I tell them off and all of a sudden I'm the bad guy, I wasn't the one throwing rocks and threatening a kid.
I... I'm kinda speechless here. Telling someone off for throwing rocks and threatening a kid is
wrong now? A mental handicap isn't an excuse, hell, it makes it more important that that person learns what they're doing is wrong. And if they're so handicapped that they can't possibly comprehend that, what were they doing out unsupervised enough to be in that position anyway?!