Well that date was weird...
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I know right.daveman247 said:
I know that you should pay attention to your partners interests, but draging you to a cult is waaaaaay to much for the first date unless you are nuts like her (in wich case you should be in a mental asylum)
Maybe thats where she is nowadays!
I had no idea that the guy picking up the girl was a "red flag". I just always thought it was a nice gesture.
Ok, weird date: I had talked to this girl for years online, and I finally got to meet her on her birthday. I was without a car at the time (which is why I think giving rides is a nice gesture
so her mother picked me up with her in the car. Looking back on it now, I suppose it was kind of cute that the entire ride to her house she just kinda stared at me with goo goo eyes and didn't say a word, but at the time it really creeped me out. Any way, we have the traditional family birthday party with Grandma and the cousins and what not, and I started to loosen up and get to know everyone pretty well. But at around 11, her mother tells me and her that she is sending us home. I'm a little confused by this since I was staying at a hotel at the time but she drives us back and says "see you tomorrow." So at this point I'm kinda panicking since I really don't know this girl that well and I'm trying to be a nice guy; offering to sleep on the floor so she can have the bed but....well...let's just say she "loosened up" pretty quickly herself.
I'm still not sure what her mom was thinking.
Ok, weird date: I had talked to this girl for years online, and I finally got to meet her on her birthday. I was without a car at the time (which is why I think giving rides is a nice gesture
so her mother picked me up with her in the car. Looking back on it now, I suppose it was kind of cute that the entire ride to her house she just kinda stared at me with goo goo eyes and didn't say a word, but at the time it really creeped me out. Any way, we have the traditional family birthday party with Grandma and the cousins and what not, and I started to loosen up and get to know everyone pretty well. But at around 11, her mother tells me and her that she is sending us home. I'm a little confused by this since I was staying at a hotel at the time but she drives us back and says "see you tomorrow." So at this point I'm kinda panicking since I really don't know this girl that well and I'm trying to be a nice guy; offering to sleep on the floor so she can have the bed but....well...let's just say she "loosened up" pretty quickly herself.I'm still not sure what her mom was thinking.
LOL I guess, they think that all women want a body building "manly" man XD
ok my turn. There is one particular date that I had that I find really odd.
There was a friend of mine, he introduced me to a female friend that apparently likes me for some reason. She was cute so I was like "to hell with it" and just asked her out.
I invited her to watch a movie, she agreed. We sat down and started to watch the movie. Five or so minutes later, she began caressing me. From my chest, downwards. I was pretty surprised and felt very uncomfortable. I'm not the "touchy" type of person, it scared me a bit. Since I was a nice guy, I didn't want to say things like "No dammit! STOP! GET AWAY D:<". I just endured it (cringing every minute) let her do what she pleases until the movie ends.
come to think of it...I think she was molesting me @_@
I guess men aren't the perverted ones anymore...
...I want my innocence back T_T
ok my turn. There is one particular date that I had that I find really odd.
There was a friend of mine, he introduced me to a female friend that apparently likes me for some reason. She was cute so I was like "to hell with it" and just asked her out.
I invited her to watch a movie, she agreed. We sat down and started to watch the movie. Five or so minutes later, she began caressing me. From my chest, downwards. I was pretty surprised and felt very uncomfortable. I'm not the "touchy" type of person, it scared me a bit. Since I was a nice guy, I didn't want to say things like "No dammit! STOP! GET AWAY D:<". I just endured it (cringing every minute) let her do what she pleases until the movie ends.
come to think of it...I think she was molesting me @_@
I guess men aren't the perverted ones anymore...
...I want my innocence back T_T
I wouldn't say it was weird... but it definitely sucked. But turned out alright. It was the time me and my boyfriend went to see Prometheus. Just as they find the Engineer still alive, I began to get really faint and dizzy (this happens to me a lot, but never in a cinema) so I rush out of the cinema and sit down outside. Needless to say the cinema attendant who helped me was awesome, he got me free water and let us use his phone to call my boyfriend's mum to come pick me up. All in all I thought it was going to be really awkward but my boyfriend was lovely about the whole thing. So it turned out ok, apart from I've yet to see the ending to Prometheus. XD
Hahahaha... this thread is the best.
I'm basically the epitome of the forever alone guy... but I guess I can still conjure up at least one story to tell.
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I once liked this girl back in primary school. In grade two (we were both seven) she came back to my house to play. It was really innocent, nothing happened and I still laugh about it to this day, we basically sat in my bedroom for an hour talking enthusiastically about topics such as "can people who go to school together get married?" (totally serious the whole time) and making fun of our teacher.
Then we went outside and build a box fort.
After that we started jumping on my trampoline. There was a tree right next to it, and being the total idiot I am (and seven years old) I decided to show off by climbing it... and jumping onto the trampoline. From a considerable height.
Well, long story short I landed right on her shoulders and she went down wailing her eyes out. My mum drove her home and that was the end of that!
I'm basically the epitome of the forever alone guy... but I guess I can still conjure up at least one story to tell.
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I once liked this girl back in primary school. In grade two (we were both seven) she came back to my house to play. It was really innocent, nothing happened and I still laugh about it to this day, we basically sat in my bedroom for an hour talking enthusiastically about topics such as "can people who go to school together get married?" (totally serious the whole time) and making fun of our teacher.
Then we went outside and build a box fort.
After that we started jumping on my trampoline. There was a tree right next to it, and being the total idiot I am (and seven years old) I decided to show off by climbing it... and jumping onto the trampoline. From a considerable height.
Well, long story short I landed right on her shoulders and she went down wailing her eyes out. My mum drove her home and that was the end of that!
I never really go on "first dates". I usually just start hanging out with girls and the relationship progresses from there if we both develop interest in one another. Hanging out eventually turns into more date-like activities, and whichever date constituted the "first one" becomes vague to the point of being indistinguishable. It just seems awkwardly contrived to have a special type of initial social arrangement dedicated to romantic pursuit. I can even understand just wanting to bang it out with a stranger, but the whole concept of first dates and whatnot seems supremely uncomfortable.
I guess the most "awkward" date I've gone one was when a girl I barely knew gave me a handjob in the theater. It was a...unique experience. I was in too much shock and too exhilarated to protest though (plus it's difficult to protest in a crowded theater, and I wasn't really in a position to walk out). In the end I'd say it was all around just uncomfortable. Wouldn't let it happen again.
I guess the most "awkward" date I've gone one was when a girl I barely knew gave me a handjob in the theater. It was a...unique experience. I was in too much shock and too exhilarated to protest though (plus it's difficult to protest in a crowded theater, and I wasn't really in a position to walk out). In the end I'd say it was all around just uncomfortable. Wouldn't let it happen again.
Wow, creepy. I guess he got the whole money and physical attractiveness thing because he couldn't be bothered to figure out how to interact with other human beings?
No, a lot of people just react positively to that sort of behavior. There's also the possibility that he wanted to get laid, and he learned that was one of the fastest ways to do it (buy people stuff, act cocky, be a prototypical alpha bro, seem "serious", etc.)In Search of Username said:
He probably knew how to get what he wanted up to that point in his life, but never how to have a mature, meaningful relationship. I wouldn't doubt that he found the her standoffish demeanor alluring in its own right because she seemed like a "challenge", or "deeper" than his usual type of girl. Or he just bet his buddies that he could bag a geek gamer girl. Just my experience with matter.
Is peach cobbler like the manliest of desserts?
OT: I don't have any personally but I've heard of ones like a friend of a friend ending up at his date's house then finding out the hard way that she has a scat fetish.
OT: I don't have any personally but I've heard of ones like a friend of a friend ending up at his date's house then finding out the hard way that she has a scat fetish.
I remember there was this girl I took out once.cute,glasses but a little weird and a little shelteres. I remember she had this glazed over look in her eyes looking at me as though I were the epitome of perfection . It was weird.
Most romantic thing I ever did was take this girl I was head over feet forto the beach. It didn't happen between us but I still have good memories of those 2 days.
Most romantic thing I ever did was take this girl I was head over feet forto the beach. It didn't happen between us but I still have good memories of those 2 days.
Really? I can't imagine the whole alpha male kind of thing working very well outside of getting you one-night stands with drunk girls. Never known it to actually work for anyone in a more normal situation.axlryder said:
Wait, people actually do this? They just 'go for a date' with a random stranger?
I thought that was a thing made up by the American film industry, like exploding cars and Megan Fox. You just follow random people out to a place because they ask nicely with the intent of 'this is a date'?
Huh, you learn something new everyday.
I thought that was a thing made up by the American film industry, like exploding cars and Megan Fox. You just follow random people out to a place because they ask nicely with the intent of 'this is a date'?
Huh, you learn something new everyday.