Gorrath said:
1Life0Continues said:
Gorrath said:
Out of curiosity, do you often find humor in people being emotionally upset and angry? I mean that as an honest question as I find it fascinating.
What I find humorous is often considered by others to be insensitive. I like dead baby jokes, and I find people offing themselves in idiotic ways intensely funny. I also tend to laugh at people who are part of a majority group with nothing to be offended about getting offended by a comic that was designed specifically to offend insecure people.
So yes, in this case, I derive a LARGE amount of humour from it. Because assholes who treat others with disdain getting upset when someone else does it to them is intensely satisfying. I don't apologise.
Thanks for the reply, I appreciate your candor. I find off-color humor to be funny at times as well. If you'll indulge me further, what makes you think someone's status as belonging to a majority group means they have nothing to be offended about? It seems to me that offense stems from an emotional reaction to something based on personal experience. To suggest that they have nothing to be offended about because they belong to a majority group seems to assume that you know what their personal experiences are based on what majority group they belong to. That seems really illogical to me. More specifically, that seems like it might be really racist/sexist. I don't mean that as an accusation towards you, I'm just trying to work my way through what your thoughts on this are.
You also suggest that people who were offended by the previous comic were "assholes who treat others with disdain." I'm curious as to how you know the people in that thread who were upset were themselves "assholes who treat others with disdain." It seems pretty presumptive, so I'm curious as to how you arrived at that conclusion.
Okay, first things first: I don't know you (or anyone really) very well, and thus don't know how you normally are here, however I have to confess I take your writing style to be...condescending, at best. It's a tonal thing that automatically raises my hackles, as it feels as if you are using turns of phrase designed to draw attention to the fact you feel yourself intellectually or morally superior to me. If this is indeed what you are going for, stop it. I don't like it, and I will not engage with you if you continue this way.
Secondly, your "interrogation" also feels designed to entrap me into admitting that I am horrible human being to others. I'll save you the trouble and admit outright: I am. I have a very small tolerance for people that changes frequently. This intolerance is not motivated by anything other than the attitude and actions of others. Willful ignorance of issues, a reluctance to admit fault or error even when shown why they are wrong, or splitting hairs or relying on semantics to justify a disgusting attitude or action are just some of the things that get me offside. I find many people to be idiots if they do these things, and I cannot abide idiots.
Now, on to address your questions. Belonging to a socially or cultural majority creates a social or cultural immunity (or privilege). As such, as a whole, this privilege is immutable, and for the most part is how the other sections of humanity see the individual. Now, as individuals we all have experiences that shape who we are, however by virtue of belonging to the majority, we are generally shielded from those experiences that are experienced by others outside of our privilege. So while there may be many white straight guys that have experienced racial or sexual problems, they are STILL not as bad as if they did not belong to that majority. By attempting to point out that they are just as vilified, they in fact denigrate the ACTUAL experiences of those who have suffered even more due to their not belonging to that majority. So I find their offense on the whole to be pathetic. Is this fair? No. But then, neither is what happens to the other side, yet we don't seem to say much about that do we? Because they aren't part of our majority.
Also, you seem to be under the impression that I spoke to each of those who had a problem with the original WGDF comic when I used the phrase "assholes who treat others with disdain." I was not. The comic just highlighted the problem people. I was using a generalisation about the privileged group members that find they can't bear when people outside of the majority are seen as equals, and must defend their stance by citing issues they have experienced as if they are somehow justified in this action because hey, the outsiders do it. These are people who frequently think that there should be a white history month, or a straight pride parade. They do it out of disdain for the attention garnered by the outsider group, and it's a pathetic attitude and action to engage in. These people are idiots. And while I have no doubt that many of them were in the initial thread, I was not specifically targeting them, more their attitude as a whole.
Finally, I take this opportunity to say that I will not be responding further to this conversation. Because I'm not going to argue these points with you or anyone else. So far on this site I have seen people flat out refuse to admit there is a problem in the gaming industry and the world at large with topics such a sexism, racism and transgender issues, and whenever salient points are brought to bear on the conversation (by people who aren't me), these people resort to 'yes, but' or anecdotal evidence or various other excuses, indicating that they are not likely to admit fault or error. Thus, they are idiots in my view, and as I said at the outset, I don't tolerate idiots.