What do you find attractive in the gender(s) you are attracted to?

[OneOfTheMichael's]

Female
A good spirit.
A fit body ( don't really care about breasts or butt size unlike a lot of other male)
Encourages me
likeminded
an has the same hobbies and interests I have.

 

[Mythril225]

A cute face and a slim body, and i use slim loosely.
I go mainly for pretty eyes.

 

[Sarah Kerrigan]

I like guys who have long hair, a goatee, a gamer and one that won't be pissed if I beat them at a game

 

[Zacharious-khan]

I'm very fond of the Duodenum and the Pons, the meninges are also really pretty awesome

 

[SckizoBoy]

I'm very fond of the Duodenum and the Pons, the meninges are also really pretty awesome

I hope you don't actually inspect them... some people may object to that!

Are you an MRI-hippy or something?!

OT: Surprised not that many people have mentioned things about the neck...

 

[Zacharious-khan]

I hope you don't actually inspect them... some people may object to that!

Are you an MRI-hippy or something?!

OT: Surprised not that many people have mentioned things about the neck...

Good Reflexes and higher brain functions are something i treasure, plus i want to make sure they can adequately absorb nutrients from food, its a good thing

 

[SeeIn2D]

OT: Surprised not that many people have mentioned things about the neck...

Such as? If you mean like neck size/proportion then yeah a girl with a neck like a toothpick or a neck like Bill Kazmaier are both unattractive. Never seen either personally though...

 

[SckizoBoy]

Good Reflexes and higher brain functions are something i treasure, plus i want to make sure they can adequately absorb nutrients from food, its a good thing

That's all well and good, but if one has a jejunum and ileum in poor condition, it doesn't really matter how good the duodenum is... =P It's also the shortest part of the gut, so I'm sure there are better parts to look for quality in. Still, good reflexes come from a healthy myelin sheath (I think)!

Such as? If you mean like neck size/proportion then yeah a girl with a neck like a toothpick or a neck like Bill Kazmaier are both unattractive. Never seen either personally though...

Fair enough, I'll answer my own comment: I like long(ish) necks, because it suits the body type I go for (tall/slim - and a lot of elegance would do nicely), and they can be nice to nuzzle.

 

[SeeIn2D]

Such as? If you mean like neck size/proportion then yeah a girl with a neck like a toothpick or a neck like Bill Kazmaier are both unattractive. Never seen either personally though...

Fair enough, I'll answer my own comment: I like long(ish) necks, because it suits the body type I go for (tall/slim - and a lot of elegance would do nicely), and they can be nice to nuzzle.

Actually to be fair, my girlfriend has oddly enough a very nice collar bone. Sounds strange but whenever we're just sitting there doing something I always position my head at her collar bone. Gives the perfect groove for my head to rest lol. Don't know if that actually counts as the neck but its the neck area. Also provides a good angle at the boob area ;P

 

[Zacharious-khan]

That's all well and good, but if one has a jejunum and ileum in poor condition, it doesn't really matter how good the duodenum is... =P It's also the shortest part of the gut, so I'm sure there are better parts to look for quality in. Still, good reflexes come from a healthy myelin sheath (I think)!

Kind of, although myelin does help the speed of reflexes, good reflexes are all in the spinal cord, they don't even hit the pons until after they've already happened

 

[SckizoBoy]

Actually to be fair, my girlfriend has oddly enough a very nice collar bone. Sounds strange but whenever we're just sitting there doing something I always position my head at her collar bone. Gives the perfect groove for my head to rest lol. Don't know if that actually counts as the neck but its the neck area. Also provides a good angle at the boob area ;P

Much the same way. Two of my exes had a very comfortable nape of the neck and settling my head there became almost natural for me when sitting together (eyes wondering down in some cases =P ). And then there was the inevitable and reassuring weight as she rested a cheek on my head. *sigh* For those days again...

Kind of, although myelin does help the speed of reflexes, good reflexes are all in the spinal cord, they don't even hit the pons until after they've already happened

Fair enough... I'm suddenly trying to figure out how reflexes get sharper, bear with me a sec.

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Dendrite/axon terminal propagation (sort of)??

 

[ZRendZ]

Mainly someone who i can talk not about:
1) Bf/Gfs and the lack of
2) The one game we play
Personality: I kinda like shy girls, don't ask me why, i just like it
Physically: Preferably brown hair, blue eyes and maybe petite
and no, I'm not a pedo...

 

[SeeIn2D]

(eyes wondering down in some cases =P )

I actually let my head wander down usually . Partially because face in boobs=nom, and also because her boobs are quite comfortable to lay on. Nothing better than pillows that can give you wood.

 

[SckizoBoy]

I actually let my head wander down usually . Partially because face in boobs=nom, and also because her boobs are quite comfortable to lay on. Nothing better than pillows that can give you wood.

Ha, so true! Even though my girlfriends weren't that well-endowed, it was still comfy, though I actually just let my eyes wander so as I could wait for her to ask 'you're not watching the movie, are you?' (usually happened within thirty-seconds *hrk*)

 

[Electric Alpaca]

Physically: Eyes first and foremost, sounds like nonsense but it's true. I decide within a second whether this person has potential by the first look in the eyes. Blue is a plus, to match mine.

I then review their frame and expect them to be in shape. The same standard I keep myself to - I'm not ridiculously muscled; but am very much athletic so wouldn't settle for anything else.

Personality: Have to match my humour, if the person you're with can't be made to laugh by you, or make you laugh; and you're supposed to spend the majority of your life with them - seems pretty miserable. Their own life; I don't like girls whose hobbies become their partners.

Outside of this criteria I'm pretty easygoing.

 

[Cowabungaa]

The things that really matter to me are as follows:

Things I'd notice on a first impression:
- Knows how to take care of her physique; hygiene, weight, clothing.
- Clever/intelligent /witty demeanor.
- Not afraid to retaliate verbally; sharp tongued (to a certain degree).
- Not a friggin' chav.

Long term/deeper personality;
- Friendly/sweet.
- Geeky interests in one degree or the other, I'd like to be able to relate to her and the other way around.
- Lively to one degree or another. Fact is, I need someone that gets me away from my desk.
- Have a sense of humour. I need someone to laugh with.
- Has a certain degree of enthusiasm for the things she likes. For instance, when I was at the MCM Expo 2010, I went with my niece. You could barely tell she enjoyed it, so quiet and reserved she was. I like a girl that's the opposite.

As you notice, there's little about a girl's physique, I really pay more attention to attitude and personality. I can like such a wide variety of physiques it's useless to list them all.

 

[Dragunai]

Typically eyes and hair.

A chick who is giggly / nervous around me if she is interested is also attractive. Show's she isn't overly "experienced" I guess would be the nice way to put it and thus complacent around potential bfs.

 

[penguindude42]

- Not a friggin' chav.

This!

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I like my women wise, calm, and caring. Especially when they're small-chested and cute.

As for the guys, I like 'em girly yet dominant. >;3

~Tom<3