I'm going to breakup with my girlfriend because she's in love with me and loves me romantically, while I don't feel either of those feelings. I'd say love exist, if it didn't I would just continue the thing we've got going.
(You're text-walling a gaming website to ask this.)Fawcks said:I'm curious what other people think. Is there such a thing as true love?
Hear hear, I'll drink to that.Jegsimmons said:some people describe love as being with someone you can always talk to.
i say its being with someone you dont need to say anything to.
you know what i'm talking about.
You act like the OP doesn't have a valid question.Daystar Clarion said:You made discussing love, and because you've had a shit exeperience with love, you're confused as to what love is. I get that.Fawcks said:You're a presumptuous prick, I certainly won't miss you.Daystar Clarion said:Aaaaaand I'm out.Fawcks said:Shut up! You don't know anything. Just... Don't act like you know me, or anything about me! Got it?Daystar Clarion said:You loved her. She simply didn't love you, or at least not enough to do anything to stay with you. I know it sucks, but it happens.
Emo crying is where I draw the line in any argument. This is obviously an attention grab for sympathy.
If you thought you were in love with this girl, then you probably were. She obviously wasn't in as much love as you. I know that if I loved someone, I'd do anything to be with them. She didn't, ergo, she didn't love that much.
You have take the words right out of my mouth.canadamus_prime said:I believe that it does, what I doubt is that human beings are capable of it.
In my own humble opinion, love does indeed exist in the scheme of hierarchical thinking. While love is ostensibly a product of the electrochemical processes of the human mind, it takes on a new meaning when considered from relative perspective of a human being. Love, like all other concepts, is relative; it is malleable to the perspective of the individual. Some may define love as an undying affection and devotion to an individual regardless of circumstance; some may define it as the willingness of an individual to compromise the primal instinct of self-preservation in the interest of protecting another; and others may believe it to be something entirely different. I, for one, believe love to be a process of sorts. In its infancy, love is the unspoken bond between two acquainted individuals that transcends ordinary friendship as well as superficial lust; love is felt in the unadulterated joy experienced in meeting eyes, the mutual emotional and moral reliance that blossoms from what was once believed to be mere friendship, and the merging of two souls' past, present, and future lives. As love matures, it becomes an undying connection that bonds two people and ultimately compels them to look beyond their own needs in the interest of the happiness of the other. However, if one's intent is to reduce any and all human concepts of emotional and cognizant perception to the most basic level, then 'love' as we call it cannot be 'illogical', as the course of any and all events, whether 'intelligently' guided by a human mind or not, is rooted in the profound arithmetical logic of the universe. It is only the limited scope of mankind that restrains it from perceiving the irrefutable logic of nature and consequently that of mankind.Fawcks said:*snip*
Thats what this whole thing seems like to me, quite honestly. I don't really know or care if love exists, I have liked people a lot but not to that point. It could exist, I could care less. Bonding and mating is part of life and people will continue doing both with or without it.Daystar Clarion said:Aaaaaand I'm out.Fawcks said:Shut up! You don't know anything. Just... Don't act like you know me, or anything about me! Got it?Daystar Clarion said:You loved her. She simply didn't love you, or at least not enough to do anything to stay with you. I know it sucks, but it happens.
Emo crying is where I draw the line in any argument. This is obviously an attention grab for sympathy.
There is no such thing as "True Love", but there is such a thing as love. All emotions can be traced back to different chemical balances within the brain, but that is not to say that these emotions aren't real.Fawcks said:Is there such a thing as true love? Or is it merely a thing our mind does to trick us in order to propagate the species, or is it a societal norm that has been reinforced over time?
I had the same situation. I still love the girl, but because of what she did, I could never be with her again. I'd still help her if I could, though.sinshin said:I think there is such a thing as unconditional love. I fell in love with someone very deeply. Unfortunately, he didn't feel the same despite claiming that he did (he ultimately left me for someone else). I loved him immensely, and his happiness was all I ever wanted. I don't know if there is such a thing as true love, but certainly there is such a thing as unconditional romantic love. Well, that's in my own experience. I realise that it can be broken down to chemical reactions in the body, but so can everything else we feel, and I don't think that renders it any less significant.
That was a beautiful and insightful post. [sub]If only there were more of these.[/sub] My eyes welled up a little after reading that.TheEdgeofDespair said:snip
... to say that love is a product of the human psyche inasmuch as it is a mere balance of chemicals is a tad contradictory. I agree with the bulk of your post but have to stress how looking at love from the point of view of mere chemicals is hardly a reductionist view on the matter.TheEdgeofDespair said:While love is ostensibly a product of the electrochemical processes of the human mind, it takes on a new meaning when considered from relative perspective of a human being.