I think there is a small group of guys who seem to ruin it for everyone else.chozo_hybrid said:That quiz comment, reminds me of something from the other day (more like a couple weeks). I had a young lady come through my checkout wearing a Mass Effect hoodie, I asked her who her favorite character was and she told me she was sick of guys quizzing her. I replied to her that asking a favorite character wasn't a quiz, it's a conversation starter. She apologized and now whenever I see her come through my work we usually ask what each other has been playing etc.
When someone asks me anything I have to try and figure out if they actually want to talk to me or are trying to determine my `fakeness` (and dudes who believe the fake nerd girl shit always think you are fake no matter what).
Sadly, I'm kind of automatically a little guarded when a dude talks to me about it.
It bugs me when it's guys trying to trip me up, but I actually love talking to people about games IRL. Because I'm not someone who `looks` like they play games, my only real nerd-friends are usually my boyfriend's friends. However, I have to be careful when I reveal my nerd, guys have froze on me before about it.chozo_hybrid said:Does stuff like that bug you, like it did her? Because sometimes guys aren't quizzing, they just suck at making conversation. Mind you, mine was more obvious as a conversation piece as a test as there is no "wrong" answer to what I asked.
Yeah, buttheads who think they know everything get really deflated if you turn it on them, but most of the time they're not worth bothering with.chozo_hybrid said:Ironically enough, I had someone quiz me on Superman because I have a Superman shirt. He asked me to list a few enemies, what his real name was etc. Then I asked him if he knew the name of his birth parents and he got it wrong, put him in his place. Sometimes guys get it too, but nowhere near as often. This guy thought he knew everything about comics and was showing off to his friends, at my work, quizzing me as I stocked shelves... At my second job, a comic book store I work part time at. His friends laughed their asses off at him.
Wow, kind of went off on a tangent there, sorry ^^; I have two Arkham City shirts, the Riddler one is my favorite, I got one where the Riddler trophy glows in the dark, it's awesome.
I'll probably be buying more nerd-stuff in the future (after I finally get my new computer I've been saving up for), so I'll go back to wearing my interests on the outside and see if has improved.